I never offer the intel, but if they ask I always tell them truth. I have found that, as others said, YMMV points are earned and redeemed much much bigly-er once they know you're married. In our religion we don't wear jewelry so without offering or replying they would never know, and I can tell the obvious difference in their reponding service when they know and don't know. Chinese girls generally, or maybe overall even, don't want to ever interfere with your family life, but often do want to hear about it; family is very very important to them. I find too that when they know you are married, at least that means one other female in the world felt safe enough with you to sleep next to you, so there's that safety thing I guess. If it's related, I find that once they learn that I have children, and many of them, they get a fucking wettie quickly. They ask about them, and all that stuff, which is a little uncomfortable talking about while getting blown, but I find that they get much more wild. Again might be the security thing, like maybe a dude who is married, has adult children who survived, a car and money to lay down on her table, she either gets hot over it all or just feels safe enough to open up more.