Could this be the end of Little Caesar?

So last night, I went on the hunt. I think my yellow fever broke, Asian girls, with fake screams and the ridiculous AMP low level talent, are grating on more than my nerves, they are grating on my dick.

This was the last "cum and get it overwith " session I will ever endure. If I have to pay more to find what I want, or switch to Latina and White girls, so be it. But for now something worse has happened. I don't feel comfortable in the hobby. It goes beyond AMP's. Yes, I find a lot of the Korean/Chinese providers to be kind of nasty. I realize it is a generalization, in my case a truism based on hands-on experience. This feeling is different. We know the little head is controlled by the big head. If you don't want to be in the boxing ring, and engage, you will get beat up. I simply cannot get into the Asian AMP/KMP session anymore, or any session. It has been brewing for some time now. It creates anger which may come across in some of my engagements here, apologies to all. Who wants to read about other guys success stories, when mine are filled with depression, low self esteem , poor sexual self image, ultimately leading to an off and on performance anxiety status.

In short why spend the money. My crime? I got old. I see myself as Edward G Robinson playing Rico Bandello in Little Caesar. In the last scene he is shot, laying on the sidewalk in the rain painfully mutteinrg his last words " Could this be the end of Little Caesar" ? We all get old, you just never see it coming. So let's raise a glass to condoms, limp dicks, fake photos, bait and switches, being overcharged, not getting the full hour, having your appointment bounced, and old age.

Cheers

You’ll feel better tomorrow.

I hear you man, When I first started in the hobby, I was all in on AMPs and all things asian but after few years, I felt so fed up. I took a bit of a break, a month or so and switched to RMPs, latinas and everyone else. Its been 10 years now and I haven't been to amp and not planning to. Mostly seeing 2-3 trusted indies and if someone new peaks my interest, I give them a try. For me, its a lot more satisfying this way. When I first started, I was young and hungry and not at all selective. Hope you find your way!

Been hitting AMPs sporadically the past 10 years. Talent has definitely been weirder the past year or so. Been much less inclined to check out new talent and just stick to my favs.

Given your comment on low self esteem and poor sexual self image, not sure if sugaring would be up your alley, but I've found since entering that world it's been far more fulfilling than most of my AMP visits, by a long shot.

What is sugaring? ED Pills? I eat a 5mg daily Cialis. Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't. I have been told by health care professionals that psychological issues, some attributed to aging and failing out during sex, are not supported nor eradicated by using Cialis or Viagra. Head issues leading to problems, sometmes go away, sometimes are assisted if the ED pill gets you going, or sometimes psycholgical issues are permanent.

I love getting old. The best part is, it is not forever.

I meant sugar baby world, like Seeking Arrangements.

My comment was meant to be half wiseass and half “I've been there before, pal”.

I am currently in the midst of an extended binge to try everything/everyone/everywhere and have begun to sense that this phase is already past its expiration date. I’m having fun for now but the transactional nature of it all is becoming more pronounced in my mind, and I am no longer able to push it back down into the dark confines of my twisted and mostly immature psyche.

I’ve done this in the past a number times and after I get over my mongering FOMO I calm down and either take a break or just stick to a few sure thing places that I truly enjoy and from which I feel zero pressure to get my money’s worth. (As an aside, these tend to be sensual HE only places with a few exceptions - somehow, this makes me feel less guilty, as stupid as that sounds).

Don’t misunderstand - it’s really exciting for a while (I’ve used the kid in a candy store analogy before) but then the novelty wears off and it all feels the same underneath. Sites like SH and AR are what usually rekindles the urge because I can see exactly what I’m missing. Even fucking extremely hot girls can become routine after a while. I don’t know how, but it does, especially as I get older (I’m 61) and the veil dissolves over time. Just my take. Good luck.

There's an increase of YMMV with the current providers
The less attractive dudes get worse service
A lot of reviews expand on "unlocking" these girls to their potential
Paying a premium to not receive the standard seems to be the norm

That’s BS - I don’t care if Waldo Walnuts walks in the room - his money is as green and spends the same as Mr Handsome - this isn’t Match .com bro this is mash the ho .com
It’s a business no room for her personal taste in men

I mean it would be nice if I was wrong
But they're still girls with preferences

That's wrong. He's right. There are a lot of YMMV providers. I'm not that prolific, and even I have a quite a few reviews I did not write because I did some unlocking and it wouldn't be fair to raise expectations, especially for mongers who won't put in the effort or can't present as I do, and it also wouldn't be fair to providers who have to endure demands for unlocked services by locked mongers.

You may not like it, and it won't help you feel better, but I've had more than one woman whose price went up, or was higher to begin with, tell me she's sick of being challenged by mongers about it , especially because they have to put up with old, fat, ugly, sweaty, smelly, aggressive mongers with bad breath, who are drunk, high, or angry and have no skills. Some of those things you can change, some you can't.

So you decided that he’s right I’m wrong - I think you are delusional in terms of this hobby - it’s designed for fat, smelly old men who can’t get sex from a hottie on their own.
I’ll sum it up for you - I once asked a well known Korean provider if she had favorite clients to which she responded “ all dogs look the same to a cat “
Case closed

He's right you're wrong. Some of us unlock enough for them to go out with us on dates. What that Korean provider said is also true. Especially if you're the type of monger that reinforces that conclusion.

I know this couldn't be farther from the OP point, but its "(Mother of mercy) is this the end of RICO"

For a guy with 9 messages and no reviews since 2019 dies it matter ?

Great business advice, I agree this is how it should be and I’m sure some providers think like that, but human nature kicks in sometimes against your best business interests and they’re still human don’t be silly

As much as I love Asians, a Latina or a white/black girl is a must.

After a few Asians I crave something else and after something else I crave Asian.

Silly ? This isn’t a dating app - it’s a business anything less is unacceptable - you don’t like me - don’t take my money

We are all in the same boat studley otherwise you wouldn’t be paying for it - I call em the way I see em

Again you’re right in your advice to the providers that doesn’t mean they so follow it