Remember mongers, security is the #1 most important thing in this hobby. I got sloppy and started using my real cell phone number to call providers. Now they used an online data broker to track down where I live, they have my wife's name and cell phone number and are texting both me and her. Don't be like me, always use a fake name, burner cell phone, burner e-mail, don't give any personal details, make up a fake job, fake town where you live, fake everything if you feel the need to engage in small talk. Remember no provider cares about you. You are just an ATM. Don't risk your marriage by being sloppy. It might feel nice to open up and let down your guard with a provider and talk about your real life, but DON'T DO IT. Learn from my mistakes, take security seriously like your life depends on it.