Exactly. I’m on the “younger” side of this (think 30’s). For me it’s difficult as I want someone physically young but psychologically mature. Like lots of guys here I have a real life. I don’t offer a lot of things on my personal details but I don’t hide anything or string them along. I had a slutty young hottie but it’s such a headache because she’s flakey. I want it badly, but it most likely is not worth the headache. Meanwhile I have another girl who is just a couple years older but still in her 20’s. No BS, flirty as fuck, told me what she expects and what she’s down for but very open minded. But also very much an NSA. She’ll be good and play the game but we both know why we’re here. I told her “we each live our lives, respect one another outside of here, and just make sure we don’t do anything that puts the other at risk in any way.”Treat them with respect, tell them what you want and what you can give them and see if it jives. If they’re for real, it’ll work. If they give you a song and dance, move on. It isn’t worth forcing it or bending over backwards to have a shit experience or waste your any type of capital - time or otherwise.