I usually get "you so big, you so strong", and once in a while they claim they cannot "get on top or no doggy" because of size but in the end we do any way. I am guessing they say that to everyone. I am a modest 7'5" when erect and 5" circumference. I assume that is normal, but larger for a small guy like me. The girl I visited the last three times said you not big and not small, perfect, and to be honest, I like hearing that a lot more. She is a 28YO that treats me very very very well.