I don't know what backwater towns or dive bars where you guys are meeting women like this (no direct offense JB), but I meet extremely successful women that are 100% self sufficient without a guy. A man to them is a conveience that can work their way up to being a companion.
They are well educated, well into their careers, love their yoga classes and personal trainers and have a collection of vibrators to prevent them from seeking anyone named "Chad". They are hot as hell, mostly between 35-45 which is both peak earning years, peak sexual years and come from multiple cultures in every shade from pale pink to cocoa brown.
They do enjoy hanging out if they view you as their equal and every few hangouts equals a hookup if you stay casual about it. The best part is that they introduce you to their self sufficient girlfriends and hooking up is okay as long as you keep it casual with all of them. They move in packs, they are not desperate, but they want live D sometimes over the plastic variety.
I can't be the only guy here that found this vein of gold in the hills without SA or other apps. Who else is putting their civie gems ahead of their Amp visits?
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I truthfully think that's the only reason they want us around. Sure, some men and women need each other for companionship, but I think more for the men, and for the sex. I don't think women prefer men over their girlfriends for companionship. We're here for the dirty and hard work.
Most probably dont. Its because they get sooooo much attention off instagram and facebook and co-workers & strangers hitting on em. However they do get annoyed by their gfs. These REAL Women are aware that their gender is difficult and complicate their own lives. They get annoyed with their gfs at times. Cause sometimes they all wanna be Queens at the same time.
Men have helped form the Women the way they are today. By sweating em and bending over backwards for em. I do neither. They are thrown off when i take a girl out. That i aint constantly texting em that i dont return their texts often that im not all over social media. That i didnt sweat them to get a date. That im not going out of my way to impress them. Then the conversation starts "you're different, you give me space, you understand what got me upset" etc
If more Men truly didnt sweat these Women. Didnt give em an inordinate amount of attention. Bend over backwards when they dont deserve it. I guarantee you they wouldnt act the way they do. Yet dudes drool over plastic girls and the term bros before hoes went out the window.
I see that shit on forums not as abundant on here. But dudes getting mad and defending their lady pros honor smh.
People in general treat you the way they know they can get away with. Ive had gfs tell their friends. Nah my Man wont let me do that.
At work ive got 4 or so colleagues that get upset that i dont let them throw their work onto me. They are fed up as per another male co-worker of Uniquelyme always refusing to help them lmaooooooo
Yet when im around em same girls dont try giving their work to other colleagues of mine. Heard one of em say. No Uniquelyme is gonna say to Brian not to do their work. Yet 2 of these girls flirt hard at work with me smh.
Stay strong fellas. If the girl respects you. She will enjoy the sex. Provided shes not depressed or going through a lot.