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Enjoying sex

Jackboner

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Funny, I see quite a few who don't find one. Of course, NYC is very different from my neck-of-the-woods.

Also, in the 70s & 80s, there were a lot of women in their mid-30s who would divorce their husbands for various reasons. Usually because they did not feel "fulfilled" by their marriage. That trend was probably fueled by the cultural narrative at the time (with TV shows like "Alice", "One Day at a Time", etc.). Growing up, my mom had several good friends who divorced their relatively solid/reliable (though apparently unexciting) husbands and then got live-in BFs who were basically White Trash. Those women saw a huge decline in their standard of living and usually had to give up their nice suburban lifestyles and ended-up in some low-rent situation. One was in such bad straits, she even contacted my mother 20 years later asking for a "loan"; everyone else, even her kids, had shunned her. That trends seemed to eventually peter out and women started sticking it out with their husbands, even if they weren't "fulfilled".
And these women deserved what they got.....
 

Bit

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What about female expectations?
The new expectation is that you can hookup and do better than their battery powered clitoris tickling, deep penetrating dildo and get them off in 12-15 minutes. Maybe, just maybe, they'll return the favor where they expect their second round of bed shaking multi-orgasmic sex, and don't you dare drill them from behind unless they offer it.

When the rent-a-guy ride is over, you can make polite conversation for 10 minutes while getting dressed and not make it awkward for one of you to leave, especially if it was your first or second hook-up with them.

Yes this is free and plentiful out there. And yes, their expectations have changed.
 

Bit

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The women I knew who,were still,single at 35+ had only themselves to blame. They wasted 8 years of their life dating some jackass just Because he looked good and acted cool. Meanwhile these guys were the biggest dicks you’d ever meet. These women see their sisters, cousins and friends have all,settled down with families and nice houses in the suburbs etc. so,they become desperate and bitter.
I don't know what backwater towns or dive bars where you guys are meeting women like this (no direct offense JB), but I meet extremely successful women that are 100% self sufficient without a guy. A man to them is a conveience that can work their way up to being a companion.

They are well educated, well into their careers, love their yoga classes and personal trainers and have a collection of vibrators to prevent them from seeking anyone named "Chad". They are hot as hell, mostly between 35-45 which is both peak earning years, peak sexual years and come from multiple cultures in every shade from pale pink to cocoa brown.

They do enjoy hanging out if they view you as their equal and every few hangouts equals a hookup if you stay casual about it. The best part is that they introduce you to their self sufficient girlfriends and hooking up is okay as long as you keep it casual with all of them. They move in packs, they are not desperate, but they want live D sometimes over the plastic variety.

I can't be the only guy here that found this vein of gold in the hills without SA or other apps. Who else is putting their civie gems ahead of their Amp visits?
 

krideynyc

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I can't be the only guy here that found this vein of gold in the hills without SA or other apps. Who else is putting their civie gems ahead of their Amp visits?
As a married man, I'm not their target demographics. Although I'm sure a few would be fine with NSA hookups. However, my neighborhood has a lot of bored and frustrated Asian housewives in that same age group, who's husbands never stops working, and the kids are in college, or graduated and moved away. That's my gold mine.
 

Uniquelyme

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I think that low single digits # is way off the mark. Have no scientific data to refute your friend's estimate, just a gut feel. Not saying the correct # is 50% but it's def well north of low single digits.
I concur ive fucked non pros over 25 girls i'd say and the majority of them really got into it. Women can definitely go without sex for much longer.

However they do enjoy sex age range of non pros ive fucked since age 14 is similar age - mainly 33. Fucked one 41 yr old and she loved sex.
 

TGBeldin

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I don't know what backwater towns or dive bars where you guys are meeting women like this (no direct offense JB), but I meet extremely successful women that are 100% self sufficient without a guy. A man to them is a conveience that can work their way up to being a companion.

They are well educated, well into their careers, love their yoga classes and personal trainers and have a collection of vibrators to prevent them from seeking anyone named "Chad". They are hot as hell, mostly between 35-45 which is both peak earning years, peak sexual years and come from multiple cultures in every shade from pale pink to cocoa brown.

They do enjoy hanging out if they view you as their equal and every few hangouts equals a hookup if you stay casual about it. The best part is that they introduce you to their self sufficient girlfriends and hooking up is okay as long as you keep it casual with all of them. They move in packs, they are not desperate, but they want live D sometimes over the plastic variety.

I can't be the only guy here that found this vein of gold in the hills without SA or other apps. Who else is putting their civie gems ahead of their Amp visits?
Agree.

But some men hold onto the 1960s myth because they are unsuccessful and they don't want to see other successful people--especially women.
 

Bit

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When I leave she says that we won't be able to do that again because usually the boss is there, but that day she was working alone. She said she would send a safe (innocuous) text to me if the boss is ever not there. A week later, I texted her private number, "Are you available at 11:00?" She texts back, "Sorry, boss is here. We can't do nothing." A week later I try again and get the same response. That's what moved her into my 99% "she enjoyed it" estimate. This is not a busy place, and she was willing to risk a sure session in the hope of being able to play more on a later visit.
You may have a real "only you" girl here. If she's a non-pro and you hear "no" more than "yes", you will likely be the only person she takes these risks with. You just have to satisfy her and exhaust her every time. There's a ton of benefits with that arrangement. Keep that going as long as you can.
 

AutomaticSlim

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@TGBeldin

"1960s myth"?

There seem to be a lot of angry feminists out there. If they are so happy with their current situations, why are so many of them angry?
There's a lot to be said for tradition. I didn't live in the 50s, but is is possible, just possible, that both males and females were happier back then?
When men and women had well defined roles and expectations?
Maybe some of the older guys here can share their thoughts.
 

Jackboner

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I don't know what backwater towns or dive bars where you guys are meeting women like this (no direct offense JB), but I meet extremely successful women that are 100% self sufficient without a guy. A man to them is a conveience that can work their way up to being a companion.

They are well educated, well into their careers, love their yoga classes and personal trainers and have a collection of vibrators to prevent them from seeking anyone named "Chad". They are hot as hell, mostly between 35-45 which is both peak earning years, peak sexual years and come from multiple cultures in every shade from pale pink to cocoa brown.

They do enjoy hanging out if they view you as their equal and every few hangouts equals a hookup if you stay casual about it. The best part is that they introduce you to their self sufficient girlfriends and hooking up is okay as long as you keep it casual with all of them. They move in packs, they are not desperate, but they want live D sometimes over the plastic variety.

I can't be the only guy here that found this vein of gold in the hills without SA or other apps. Who else is putting their civie gems ahead of their Amp visits?
I’m not from a backwater town, no offense taken. Born and raised in an outer borough of NYC, currently living in an affluent NY suburb, and I don’t apologize for it. What does self sufficient mean? She earns a lot of money as a partner in a law firm or executive in some company? Good for her.
I’m all for the successful women you speak of. A man as a convenience, sure. Let’s see her change a flat tire on her SUV, or know what to do when the circuit breaker trips in her condo. Does she know how to light the pilot on the hot water heater? Doubtful. Can she change the batteries in her vibrator?.....probably.
 

mitchxy1

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I’m not from a backwater town, no offense taken. Born and raised in an outer borough of NYC, currently living in an affluent NY suburb, and I don’t apologize for it. What does self sufficient mean? She earns a lot of money as a partner in a law firm or executive in some company? Good for her.
I’m all for the successful women you speak of. A man as a convenience, sure. Let’s see her change a flat tire on her SUV, or know what to do when the circuit breaker trips in her condo. Does she know how to light the pilot on the hot water heater? Doubtful. Can she change the batteries in her vibrator?.....probably.
I truthfully think that's the only reason they want us around. Sure, some men and women need each other for companionship, but I think more for the men, and for the sex. I don't think women prefer men over their girlfriends for companionship. We're here for the dirty and hard work.
 

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I don't know what backwater towns or dive bars where you guys are meeting women like this (no direct offense JB), but I meet extremely successful women that are 100% self sufficient without a guy. A man to them is a conveience that can work their way up to being a companion.

They are well educated, well into their careers, love their yoga classes and personal trainers and have a collection of vibrators to prevent them from seeking anyone named "Chad". They are hot as hell, mostly between 35-45 which is both peak earning years, peak sexual years and come from multiple cultures in every shade from pale pink to cocoa brown.

They do enjoy hanging out if they view you as their equal and every few hangouts equals a hookup if you stay casual about it. The best part is that they introduce you to their self sufficient girlfriends and hooking up is okay as long as you keep it casual with all of them. They move in packs, they are not desperate, but they want live D sometimes over the plastic variety.

I can't be the only guy here that found this vein of gold in the hills without SA or other apps. Who else is putting their civie gems ahead of their Amp visits?
Wheer
I truthfully think that's the only reason they want us around. Sure, some men and women need each other for companionship, but I think more for the men, and for the sex. I don't think women prefer men over their girlfriends for companionship. We're here for the dirty and hard work.
Most probably dont. Its because they get sooooo much attention off instagram and facebook and co-workers & strangers hitting on em. However they do get annoyed by their gfs. These REAL Women are aware that their gender is difficult and complicate their own lives. They get annoyed with their gfs at times. Cause sometimes they all wanna be Queens at the same time.

Men have helped form the Women the way they are today. By sweating em and bending over backwards for em. I do neither. They are thrown off when i take a girl out. That i aint constantly texting em that i dont return their texts often that im not all over social media. That i didnt sweat them to get a date. That im not going out of my way to impress them. Then the conversation starts "you're different, you give me space, you understand what got me upset" etc

If more Men truly didnt sweat these Women. Didnt give em an inordinate amount of attention. Bend over backwards when they dont deserve it. I guarantee you they wouldnt act the way they do. Yet dudes drool over plastic girls and the term bros before hoes went out the window.

I see that shit on forums not as abundant on here. But dudes getting mad and defending their lady pros honor smh.

People in general treat you the way they know they can get away with. Ive had gfs tell their friends. Nah my Man wont let me do that.

At work ive got 4 or so colleagues that get upset that i dont let them throw their work onto me. They are fed up as per another male co-worker of Uniquelyme always refusing to help them lmaooooooo

Yet when im around em same girls dont try giving their work to other colleagues of mine. Heard one of em say. No Uniquelyme is gonna say to Brian not to do their work. Yet 2 of these girls flirt hard at work with me smh.

Stay strong fellas. If the girl respects you. She will enjoy the sex. Provided shes not depressed or going through a lot.
 
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