Seeking Arrangments (& other Sugar Daddy sites)

Yes cause it’s not a premium account. A premium account you have access to everything.

it's all about what you're looking for. I have been on SA premium for 1 month and successfully got blowjobs from two of them. It's really requires patience and negotiations. I always say pay per meeting (PPM) and the market is receptive, rather than allowance.

#1, Spanish woman from the BX, 30+, in an open relationship and recently gave birth to her first kid. Took her to dinner and drinks, and put her in a cab home. Total damage was close to $160 with no pop. This was my first experience and was relaxing. Good conversation that lead to her letting me watch some of her personal dick sucking videos and had her grab my dick after the bar. she was looking for 500 ppm, on top of all the dates. I dropped her.

#2, college Spanish chick, heavy heavy into kink. Lives in NJ, works and goes to school in NYC. We went on 2 dates, and I sent you 1 care package. total damage was close to 500. First date was dinner and drinks in NJ, which lead to a outdoor blowjob. Date #2 was her coming to my office and letting me fuck her face in my office bathroom. Super freak, but again, he distance from where I live doesnt work for me, as the cab homes for her were 80+. Great gal but location is off.

#3, spanish teacher in BK, 25ish. 3 dates, and finally got the bj the most recent date. I got away with dinners, ubers and $100. total damage is 400ish.

At the end of the day, it's all about being honest about what you want from these chicks. I have had numerous conversations go no where, from woman going MIA, my PPM arrangements not meeting their likes and just bitches flaking. Happy Hunting Men

@EggMan - I hate to be critical, but IMHO those are some expensive, time consuming BJs.

Yeah, if just speaking of cost of a BJ, then AMP will be better. But if he wants a connection with someone long term, then this might just be the learning process. It takes time and patience to score a good SB

Perhaps. But all my SB experiences have involved intimate action within 15 minutes (max) of walking in the door for the first time. No wining or dining. I was a SA member from Jan - Feb; I am still seeing one SB ~ every 2 weeks since then. After we're finished, my SB and I talk over bagels and coffee for 20-30 minutes before I depart.

I’m guessing that was ppm from the start? The other poster said he wasn’t getting to that yet, maybe?

@TheRiceGuy - I do PPM. I thought the other guy said he did PPM too (rather than allowance). Personally, I won't never do an allowance. I also would never buy a timeshare property for much the same reason.

No need to apologize. Iv enjoyed their company and enjoy grabbing a good meal. What's your current arrangement?

I always fuck them first time. They know from the outset what I expect. Usually meet for a couple drinks and then we are off to fuck. Never dinner.

Yesterday, I was in the mood to just get a quick blow and go in my car. Found one chick the next town over who was available. An hour later, she was swallowing my cum. Admittedly, she was a little overweight but for $140 and 20 minutes of work, it was perfect.

I’ve got meetings lined up for the next 3 days. This is fun.

As this thread reinforces, it all depends on what you want. Whatever it is there are likely some women out there who match up. It's give and take--you are unlikely to get everything just the way you ideally want, but if you are honest about your "must haves" and willing to bend on the others there is a lot out there.

im getting everything I want. There is every flavor on SA.

I've seen 6 different women from SA. All were 200 or 250 ppm. 4 hosted, the 2 that didn't are only 200, plus 50 for motel room. Mostly 23-26 years old. The one I'm seeing now is 15 minutes from me and is one of the motel girls. She seems to be a good catch, so I'm off of SA for now. Early 20s, kinky Korean girl.

yup. I’m getting some early 20s chicks. I don’t remember them being so talented when I was in my 20s. Most of these chicks will go raw, which isn’t my thing. If you have a little game, costs go down and benefits go up. One of my chicks wants to go to a sex party and there will be no fee.

I'm glad you are, more power to you! But that is often not the case for most guys (just look at a lot of the posts here). Most complain about something: "she is asking for too much", "she is too far away", "she is a little older than I prefer", "she can't host", "she is too clingy", "she wants me to take her to dinner", etc., etc. That was my point--there are few perfect ones, but many quite acceptable ones.

Older and or fatter are non starters for me. Clingy is ok if she is young, thin and pretty...

My arrangement is 300 PPM with everything on the menu and she hosts. That is what works for me. Typical meeting is 2-3 hours every 2 weeks or so. I took her out for lunch once, but that is about it. Since I am the one paying, it is mostly about meeting my needs. I am not there to wine and dine her. We do talk though and have some good conversations, so it is not just physical. But, to each his own.

It’s important to weed out as many chicks as possible. This is a numbers game. Qualify every potential chick. I never look at chicks that are on the site longer than a year and half. Otherwise, they know the game. Get newer SBs.

My best success has been the just out of college ages. I tend to play when I am on the road for work. so having a nice room helps. Not having to explain to a GND type that I'm taking her to a shitty fleabag motel puts you in a better position. I find it hard to play in Manhattan as either pricing is high or hotel makes it prohibitive. Contacting them is a numbers game as previously said. I prefer a meeting over drinks/dinner so some back and forth is necessary to see if that's a fit. I'm never in their face about sex. If we have a good dialogue going I ask if we're feeling comfortable with each other would she be fine with something more intimate in my room. I've averaged about $300 per meet but that's out of NYC.

Sounds a lot like my dates have been. Initial screening for compatibility, being a gentleman, and understanding that not every pairing will work out. It has done me well, but it is time consuming and that doesn't always work for me on shorter notice trips.

I got lucky last week. Was staying in a place I usually don't stay... a bit further south in VA not quite Richmond. Ended up with a last minute thing with a fantastic looking 23 yo. Overpaid by 100 as she quoted me thinking she had to hike to DC.