A few things come to mind:
-Stop drinking and hope I snap out of this confusion between infatuation and love, commonly known as 'perfect in every way' near vision distortion.
-Withhold money or refuse a few of her 'need' requests when they come and see if her opinion of me changes
-hope for an intervention
-See out a psychiatrist to figure out what Is wrong with my personality.
-prepare myself for entering her world where Nothing is as it seems, spending all of your free time taking her shopping, looking at someting, picking up her stuff she has stored in boxes at 10 different locations, all where she previously temporarily lived
-buy a bigger house, one that will fit her parents, sisters, brothers, wayward friends, parties she will throw
-hope some day I meet her first (few) stepping stone boy friends so that I can ask him/them how he/they got out. Better yet, meet her ex husband(s), if she divorced him.
-marry her and kiss everything i worked for good bye
- tell her i'm taking the garbage out and never come back
Not that I'm a pessimist, or maybe I am, either way these are just some ideas. And you won't find your answer in some rock and roll song.