Fellas, I have an issue (maybe it's due to nerves, I dunno) where I finish wayyy too quick like I'm some teen who just started puberty. Never really had this problem in the past before I started hobbying.
Of course, I'd like to get my half hour or hour's worth instead of firing right out of the gate. What do you guys do to keep yourself from blowing your load too early?
I keep saying this and nobody wants to listen! Lol
The way to last longer is to stop using lubricant when you jerk off!
I know it sounds rough (Hahahahaha!) but it works!
The sweat naturally produced by your hand during will be enough so you don't hurt yourself and you will get less sensitive
It will also force you to focus on the specific areas and sensations that get you off.
After a week you'll last longer, after a month you'll be able to time your finishes with any provider down to the last 10 seconds!
Think of it this way. Pretty much every provider uses lube and chances are they are using the same or close to the same lube you use when you jerk off.
So the second your dick feels the stuff, your balls know it's go time!
But if you don't use lube, the feel of it won't start you up nearly as fast and you'll be able to control yourself better.
I mean you could get the same effect through breathing, yoga and tantra, but who has the time or patience for all that!
You want to last longer, start jerking off raw!