For older guys..

This question is for those of us here over 50 who are still mongering actively and enjoying FS activity. Let’s assume you’re a one pop guy like I am and you just finished a FS session. How long before you’re ready for another one? Where you really feel the urge and have no problems staying hard. I’ve been finding that if I try to have more than one session a couple of days apart, then it might take more than a week to get fully recharged for a satisfying repeat visit. Much easier to visit earlier than that if it’s just HJ, but for full penetration, I need that at least a week or more to really get into it. The urge is there, but the performance often isn’t. Blue pill helps sometimes but doesn’t seem to shorten the “recovery period”

Every fuckin day if I had the time and could afford it. Urge and ability.

I’m 56, no medications, and still can have more than one pop per 24 hours. Every night of the week if necessary. Very high libido.

And it’s probably one heck of a pop.

60----I like to recharge like didi88 does, take my time savoring the last encounter. And anticipating the next one. 2-3 times a month. Very high libido like the rest of you mongers but I have ED and take a blue pill.

I can pop every two days, with the blue pill. I can get hard and do FS every night, but sometimes do not pop. With the blue pill, you feel like your 21.

20 minutes

TER used to have "over 60" forum and I got good information there, maybe this can be the same.

I'm 60 and I need at least an hour to re-charge but it's been that way for many years. I remember when I was around 20 that I sometimes could go twice in an hour but it's been many years since I did that regularly.

A few years ago as I discovered hotter independent providers, my couldn't keep up. Somewhere between the BJ and sex -- usually while the bag was coming on -- I'd start to lose strength. It didn't matter so much in a typical AMP, whether it was rub-and-tug place or FS - you just sit back and the girl provides the service. But when you have a hot GFE session going on, you need some stamina.

Reading some of the stories on that TER forum helped me decide to try sildenafil. I looked into getting it online but once I understood the costs, I just asked my doctor during the annual physical. It's been great. I take a pill 20 minutes before the appointment and once the action starts, it stays at full strength.

The only time I've gone twice in an hour recently was with Marianna the Muse - she insisted on making me cum twice and I think the second pop was 1:15 into the appointment. And it was only because she was working hard to make it happen -- very few ladies are like her.

I can still cum every day if I had the opportunity. In fact, I always jerk off the day before an appointment because I will come too quickly otherwise. My biggest challenge with providers has been to last longer and I sometimes have to control the activity so I don't come too early. The sildenafil gives me the confidence to slow it down - I know I'm not going to lose the erection if I spend 10 minutes eating her pussy.

When I read other reviews, I can see there are a lot of differences among us. As we get older, one of the benefits is to figure out how to get the most of out of your body and opportunities.

Let me first say that everyone is different so its tough to say what is "normal".

For me, it is highly dependent on how long I've gone without a pop (of any kind). Normally, to pop during FS, I have to not have popped for at least 1-2 days (closer to 2 with a cover). However, if I've gone a week without a pop, then I've been able to pop multiple times (2 or even 3) in a given session because I'm just so backed up. In fact, the first time, the precum just starts leaking out with I get aroused enough (which is kind of annoying).

But the rub is going that long without a pop, manual or otherwise, is fuking torture. If I go more than 24 hours without a pop, its like a heroin addict going without a fix. After 1 day, I'm off kilter. After 3 days, it become really hard to concentrate (e.g., not daydream about sex). The urge does level off at around 5 days, but that's little consolation because I feel like a fuking zombie. By day 7, I'm praying that the FS session goes off without a hitch 'cause I'm a basket case. So I will only go through this trouble for someone really special and it must be RAW. For this reason, I've always thought one of the worst possible (minor) injuries for me is one where both my hands were in a cast for an extended period of time. I honestly don't understand how any man could be a Catholic priest because you are not allowed to even masturbate (though it sounds like many ignore that rule).

My problem is that these providers and SBs keep calling a few times a week, so it becomes harder to stay away for more than a couple of days at a time. Too frequent draining then leads to less satisfying session next time around. I need to resist the urge but it’s not easy

To get Junior to stand at attention again---20 to 30 minutes, if I'm into her. If I'm not, it's never, lol. But getting the second pop is tough that soon after the first.

To get a second pop, I should wait an hour or so to try again, although, sometimes, it depends on the playmate. There was one at a famous South Jersey spa last spring who, for me, a session was 2 SOG, guaranteed. I'm not sure how she did it, but it was fun.

Nowadays, it takes me a while to get out of bed in the morning and everything I see is blurry, but, at least for the time being, this still works.

Despite my intentions to pop twice almost every encounter, I'm a one and done kinda guy. It's like I can't get dressed quick enough to get outta there.

I once had a provider point at the little guy and laugh because he was still at attention after 90 minutes. The down side is that the little blue pill can make it difficult
to impossible to pop (anorgasmia). Between that and humoring my wife in her quest for celibacy, I get that occasionally. Like VJ said above, I did feel like a zombie
which is why I started hobbying. I am aware that popping is the sign to the girls that they have done their job. If it does happen I make sure that I tell them that it is my
problem and has nothing to do with them. It may also be age related, I am 72. Like I always do, I am looking for a solution. If I come up with anything I'll be sure to
pass it on.

I’m 61 and generally don’t have interest in doing it more than once a day. i was worse before, and viagra dependent, but lost the fat and viagra gone and desire is higher.
if it’s not interesting, like a routine spa HJ, need a couple days off before to just pop. But on the other hand I was with this girl in the last couple months who went on a mission to make me pop 4 times in a day, made three, and was working hard for 4. But after that I had little interest in girls for a solid week.

So it varies, and is totally dependent on the looks of the girl and her skill. I’m sure she would say the same thing.

Interesting observations, I’m guessing that they’re fairly typical at our age. Earlier there was a thread about supplements, etc... Late in that thorough discussion a gent shared about the importance of exercise as opposed to artificial supplementation.

I must say having finally gone back to the gym, in my case, he is 100% correct. Viagra is great, but exercise is even better.

Fantasy is the next discussion frontier. Knowing what you like - no matter where that takes - and actively exploring that is my thing now.

If you mean me, it’s more than exercise. I was 85 over target weight for my height and diabetic. I’m now below target 15 pounds, eat clean good food and diabetes is gone. No more medicine of any kind, including viagra. Losing weight was more important than exercise, IMO . Not that one does bring the other. 100 pounds gone gives a person a lot more energy to use for some activity.

I’m not over 50, but have a question. Around what age exactly did you guys start experiencing the 1 pop and done issue? I’m in my my mid 30’s. I’m wondering if there comes a point when it’s impossible to get 2 pops under an hour.

It is sometimes a timing thing. I like to fool around alot, so after I sample the whole menu, I don't pop until about the 45 minute mark. That leaves only 15 minute left in the session, impossible to recover that fast.

Sometimes when I get an unexpected overtime session and the girl is persistent she can squeeze another pop out.

Now if the pop is in the TS, definatly can get 2 pops in 60 minutes. No blue pill needed here.

Diet and exercise are of great importance especially as we age, I’ve made it a way of life years ago to eat healthier, more vegetables, less meat, exercise I get daily, I have lots of energy and don’t get tired, there are nights, late nights and that I’ll try to fall asleep, feeling energetic still, I’ll make the short trip to visit a lovely and burn off my energy so as to get some rest.

I'm not a one pop guy but for me I need about 5 minutes for pop #2, maybe another 10 minutes for #3. I was with one lady who kept going though the first pop and straight to the second.

I'm a little overweight but do eat reasonably well. Moderate exercise so I don't know why I have a short refractory period.