Long time member, lost my account after getting married a decade ago and forgot all access to it. Even my username lol. I’m back though and I’ll post up some memories for y’all. But to the question in the title, how often do these girls latch onto you ? Seems to me almost every provider that I’ve been with this year has been aggressively trying to be my girlfriend, not that there’s anything wrong with that but I feel a slight conscious when I choose others over them.
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How often do the girls want YOU ?
- Thread starter Ghostofnewyork
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Sorry to bust your dilusion bubble.....but almost everyone of them do the exact same thing with many mongers. Its actually probably in reality more of an insult than a compliment cause these women latch onto the awkward and desperate seeming guys, cause its an easier potential cash cow 2nd income to them
+1 if anyone cares to listen. I've been lurking since 2019 and had an fwb/fling situation with one of the spa girls. She was in her late 20s, Chinese, and rented a house with 3 other providers that worked in Flushing and Manhattan. We started to hang out after she asked for my number the day I received service from her. I worked the night shift at the time, so during my downtime at work and her's usually past 2~3 am -- we texted on the phone until we were both off from work. I used Google translator 1/3 of the time during the first couple of months, then she gradually learned English, and I picked up on a bit of Mandarin - which was nice. We still text here and there on WeChat, but she eventually saved up and started school in a different state.
Ditto that statement. It's a pretty simple to understand and put together. The problem I've found is that too many of us really want to believe that these chicks genuinely like us and aren't just controlling us. I'm older, over 50, so I see this especially in my peers. Many men that I've known for decades but also lonely men. I include myself with them. It's too easy to for us to drop our guard when something sweet and young comes along giving us attention. Flys to honey sort of deal.
Last year I was on a "date" with a 20 something massage girl that agreed to meet up on her off time. We stopped by this public area that had some outdoor art installations. One of those had a giant reflection pool with a water fall that also was reflective. We stood in front to get the full view of the piece but in the reflection I saw her and my self side by side. We were clearly an odd and out of place pairing. It shook me awake and I went from being in blissful fog to suddenly realizing she was taking zero interest in what we were doing or what I was saying nor was she engaging in any meaningful way. Reality hit me hard. I think many of get caught in that blissful fog, not able to see reality until something holds a mirror I front.
Last year I was on a "date" with a 20 something massage girl that agreed to meet up on her off time. We stopped by this public area that had some outdoor art installations. One of those had a giant reflection pool with a water fall that also was reflective. We stood in front to get the full view of the piece but in the reflection I saw her and my self side by side. We were clearly an odd and out of place pairing. It shook me awake and I went from being in blissful fog to suddenly realizing she was taking zero interest in what we were doing or what I was saying nor was she engaging in any meaningful way. Reality hit me hard. I think many of get caught in that blissful fog, not able to see reality until something holds a mirror I front.
Wow! Look, im going to give you the hard reality of this and it lines up with what's already posted. These chicks are providing not for the pleasure of getting their rocks off with strangers they wouldn't date, it's strictly a fantasy they're selling for MONEY. They will tell you things you want to hear so you come back for a consistent income. They're freaks for money, nothing more and nothing less.
I'm close with 2 providers, but closer with one more than the other. Non transactional, I've been to her home multiple times, downgraded from burner number to real number, seen her family and etc. We just clicked and I didn't go into this seeking anything more from the jump, it was just organic and natural. I'm believe things can go past the client/provider stage on very rare occasions. Dudes should refrain from seeking love from this and don't blur the lines of a business. But most would blur it out of desperation or lack of real life opportunities. Remember these chicks are just like any normal women. One of my friends would explain what she do to less attractive clients (won't say) and her opinions on clients seeking RJ( again won't say). Again, these chicks ain't sex robots, they're acting and providing for money.
Best advice is to separate the fantasy from the reality. Even when I read my friend's reviews the information she tell the clients are false on purpose, but dudes run with it.
I'm close with 2 providers, but closer with one more than the other. Non transactional, I've been to her home multiple times, downgraded from burner number to real number, seen her family and etc. We just clicked and I didn't go into this seeking anything more from the jump, it was just organic and natural. I'm believe things can go past the client/provider stage on very rare occasions. Dudes should refrain from seeking love from this and don't blur the lines of a business. But most would blur it out of desperation or lack of real life opportunities. Remember these chicks are just like any normal women. One of my friends would explain what she do to less attractive clients (won't say) and her opinions on clients seeking RJ( again won't say). Again, these chicks ain't sex robots, they're acting and providing for money.
Best advice is to separate the fantasy from the reality. Even when I read my friend's reviews the information she tell the clients are false on purpose, but dudes run with it.