Would/have you dated a provider?

[mitchxy1]

I’ve dated several of them.
There is no time limit or clock watching which is good. lol.

For me, I meet them on their day off. I’ll take them out to lunch or dinner, I’ll drive them around and help them run errands, I’ll take them shopping and I’ll pay them for their time and great sex ($500 per meeting).

The Korean providers collect the money right away. lol
The Chinese providers will look at me and tell me that it is not necessary. But I kindly tell them to please accept it.

Most of them fully understand that I am not looking for a relationship. Some of them will push my limits and I will kindly remind them.

In my experience, the providers really appreciate going for a drive out of town. They want to get away from the city, relax and enjoy the moment.

Feels like overkill to accompany them, do them favors by driving them around, pay for meals and still cough up $500?
But I do understand that it seems worth it at the time. Just sucks that as men, we feel like we owe women something for spending time with us and making us feel better about ourselves, at least for me. Don't they enjoy the sex too LOL?

 

[Bryanpunk]

I have dated 2 of them and one of them said she never provided extras. Being that they both were in NY for less than a year I learned how their daily lives are, I've learned how they are mentally and emotionally. I found out things like how handy they are with putting up AC for example. I also learned how they deal with the fast life and timing in NY because both have told me NY is faster compared to their countries.

Point is ask them out and take them somewhere nice and have nice long conversations with them. Some personal stuff they might not tell the truth about and some other stuff like their opinions and stuff they like they will gladly tell you maybe it comes out funny maybe it comes out awkward. Never know until you try.

 

[Shibsaeggi]

Feels like overkill to accompany them, do them favors by driving them around, pay for meals and still cough up $500?
But I do understand that it seems worth it at the time. Just sucks that as men, we feel like we owe women something for spending time with us and making us feel better about ourselves, at least for me. Don't they enjoy the sex too LOL?

I respect what others do with their time and money.

You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to what I do with my money and time.

 

[Uniquelyme]

I’ve dated several of them.
There is no time limit or clock watching which is good. lol.

For me, I meet them on their day off. I’ll take them out to lunch or dinner, I’ll drive them around and help them run errands, I’ll take them shopping and I’ll pay them for their time and great sex ($500 per meeting).

The Korean providers collect the money right away. lol
The Chinese providers will look at me and tell me that it is not necessary. But I kindly tell them to please accept it.

Most of them fully understand that I am not looking for a relationship. Some of them will push my limits and I will kindly remind them.

In my experience, the providers really appreciate going for a drive out of town. They want to get away from the city, relax and enjoy the moment.

You are wayyyy to nice. You drive them around to do errands. Take them out to eat, take them shopping and still want to give them money. The Chinese providers who said its not necessary that's who you shouldve or should see again. The greedy Korean girls that collected it right away, I wouldnt see them again.

You are doing enough that money on top of all that isn't necessary. The Chinese pros are aware of this.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Feels like overkill to accompany them, do them favors by driving them around, pay for meals and still cough up $500?
But I do understand that it seems worth it at the time. Just sucks that as men, we feel like we owe women something for spending time with us and making us feel better about ourselves, at least for me. Don't they enjoy the sex too LOL?

Yes this is the point you don't. Once you view yourself as valuable then you shouldn't have to spend money for someone to spend time with you. While you are doing them favors on top of that. I've taken SB's out and not given them anything. If I take em out to dinner and treat them nice. I'm spending my time also
I just like her don't get that shit back. Plus they claim they aren't escorts and don't treat them like one, so I dont.

 

[Shibsaeggi]

You are wayyyy to nice. You drive them around to do errands. Take them out to eat, take them shopping and still want to give them money. The Chinese providers who said its not necessary that's who you shouldve or should see again. The greedy Korean girls that collected it right away, I wouldnt see them again.

You are doing enough that money on top of all that isn't necessary. The Chinese pros are aware of this.

You are entitled to how you spend your time and money and I am entitled to mine.

I can retire right now if I want and not worry about money so I know what I am doing with my time and money. lol

 

[Shibsaeggi]

Yes this is the point you don't. Once you view yourself as valuable then you shouldn't have to spend money for someone to spend time with you. While you are doing them favors on top of that. I've taken SB's out and not given them anything. If I take em out to dinner and treat them nice. I'm spending my time also
I just like her don't get that shit back. Plus they claim they aren't escorts and don't treat them like one, so I dont.

Good for you for not giving them anything. This is your way and I respect that.

You do your thing and I will do my thing. But don’t tell me what I should or should not do.

 

[Uniquelyme]

You are entitled to how you spend your time and money and I am entitled to mine.

I can retire right now if I want and not worry about money so I know what I am doing with my time and money. lol

You come off as a good guy. So take this for what it's meant to be an observance. People take advantage of good people all the time. I see it in relationships with Women and Men with coworkers, with family members with friends etc.

I'm glad you're successful. So that shows you've most probably done well for yourself and are good at whatever you do. However that doesn't mean you aren't doing more than you should with some of these pros.

And of course it goes without saying it's your time and money and you can do with it what you like. I'm just stating my opinion. I respect yours, even if I don't agree with it. And ima leave it at that.

 

[Shibsaeggi]

You come off as a good guy. So take this for what it's meant to be an observance. People take advantage of good people all the time. I see it in relationships with Women and Men with coworkers, with family members with friends etc.

I'm glad you're successful. So that shows you've most probably done well for yourself and are good at whatever you do. However that doesn't mean you aren't doing more than you should with some of these pros.

And of course it goes without saying it's your time and money and you can do with it what you like. I'm just stating my opinion. I respect yours, even if I don't agree with it. And ima leave it at that.

Thank you for your kind words.

I respect you, your opinions, and your contribution to this site.

I fully agree with you—leave it at that.

 

[Levin79]

Good for you for not giving them anything. This is your way and I respect that.

You do your thing and I will do my thing. But don’t tell me what I should or should not do.

I agree if you enjoy taking them out and have the money good for you.You also make it eplici

I respect what others do with their time and money.

You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to what I do with my money and time.

I respect what others do with their time and money.

You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to what I do with my money and time.

I agree what an individual pays is their business.
It's all about quality time for a monger.
I have had a couple of regular providers and tipped them the same when they had their period.
If a monger enjoys his hour or agreed upon extra time he'll probably repeat if not he'll walk on.
You also made it clear you're not looking to marry and just out for a good time both physically and mentally.
If a monger leaves a spa feeling good worth the cash and time.

 

[Levin79]

You come off as a good guy. So take this for what it's meant to be an observance. People take advantage of good people all the time. I see it in relationships with Women and Men with coworkers, with family members with friends etc.

I'm glad you're successful. So that shows you've most probably done well for yourself and are good at whatever you do. However that doesn't mean you aren't doing more than you should with some of these pros.

And of course it goes without saying it's your time and money and you can do with it what you like. I'm just stating my opinion. I respect yours, even if I don't agree with it. And ima leave it at that.

The key words he's not looking to marry.
Your words are very true for a monger that falls in love and wants marriage from a provider.
Many mongers don't understand most AMP women are making 8k a month clean.
Even though many claim they would leave the business in a minute not true.
Unless they marry someone willing to give them a 5k monthly allowance, house, medical and car they're not leaving to work at Dollar Tree and live in a apartment.
Also , many providers have their big tippers( money) and better looking ones ( love making)they use to enhance their lives.
When a provider tells you "she loves you or you're special" you are the flavor of the week and next week someone else.

 

[mitchxy1]

I respect what others do with their time and money.

You are entitled to your opinion and I am entitled to what I do with my money and time.

No argument here. It's your money and time, and if it makes you feel good, it's worth it.
Just can't help but think you can find the same enjoyment from other women who might not be as expensive/greedy.
At least the money you're spending is not wasted on drugs/alcohol. Women are way more enjoyable!!!
Like I said, I do understand. Enjoy the fruits of your labor.

 

[Bryanpunk]

I personally wouldn't spend $500 for the simple fact there are "some" women out there who are ungrateful as hell in your face or behind your back.

 

[NYC10001]

You seemingly have taken a lot of joy seeing many fall for a certain provider that her own little heart only melted seeing Tarzan.These poor souls were left with a dagger in their hearts and playing TKA ‘s great song “Louder Than Love” on their IPOD.!’

I’m with CCZG on this. This is review and discussion board and not a support group, yet you’ve started multiple threads about this very topic and insert it into existing threads too, whether it’s germane or not. You have many, many, many posts about a Coco wanting to be taken care of by a rich guy, and the Tarzan-loving lady too, which you alternate with constant reminders to yourself that these women being conniving monsters.

I’m genuinely confused by this, and frankly, nervous for you. That you’re this hung up and conflicted about trying to have a loving, intimate relationship based on trust, and with an opportunity to grow, with women that pork hundred of men per year and probably nothing in common with you is a sign, to me, that you’re in too deep. Like Christopher Walken at the end of Deer Hunter.

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but if I were you, I’d walk away from this for a while; try to meet and bang a civilian to recalibrate yourself.

 

[marauder1969]

Good for you for not giving them anything. This is your way and I respect that.

You do your thing and I will do my thing. But don’t tell me what I should or should not do.

If you find someone you enjoy - and you know you are not going to give them a long-term relationship - If you have them means to be generous with them, then why not?

Some people tip 15% for good service at a restaurant and some tip upwards of 50% or more when they really enjoyed the service. The tip is happily given and happily received. No harm - no foul.

Just because a large tip was not necessary, does not mean both parties can not gain satisfaction from the arrangement. I fully agree with Shibsaeggi here and almost always tip more than customary (and I am not just referring to parlors - but everywhere a tip is earned).

 

[NYC10001]

I’m a fan of Tarzan. He sportfucked someone’s ATF, got her off script, and continues to enjoy his authentic life. Meanwhile, others slowly but surely eat their bitter hearts out because nothing lives up to their narcissistic expectations yet they lack the imagination to change strategy.

ChaChaZhongGuo, *you* are my Coco!

 

[Levin79]

I’m with CCZG on this. This is review and discussion board and not a support group, yet you’ve started multiple threads about this very topic and insert it into existing threads too, whether it’s germane or not. You have many, many, many posts about a Coco wanting to be taken care of by a rich guy, and the Tarzan-loving lady too, which you alternate with constant reminders to yourself that these women being conniving monsters.

I’m genuinely confused by this, and frankly, nervous for you. That you’re this hung up and conflicted about trying to have a loving, intimate relationship based on trust, and with an opportunity to grow, with women that pork hundred of men per year and probably nothing in common with you is a sign, to me, that you’re in too deep. Like Christopher Walken at the end of Deer Hunter.

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but if I were you, I’d walk away from this for a while; try to meet and bang a civilian to recalibrate yourself.

I’m with CCZG on this. This is review and discussion board and not a support group, yet you’ve started multiple threads about this very topic and insert it into existing threads too, whether it’s germane or not. You have many, many, many posts about a Coco wanting to be taken care of by a rich guy, and the Tarzan-loving lady too, which you alternate with constant reminders to yourself that these women being conniving monsters.

I’m genuinely confused by this, and frankly, nervous for you. That you’re this hung up and conflicted about trying to have a loving, intimate relationship based on trust, and with an opportunity to grow, with women that pork hundred of men per year and probably nothing in common with you is a sign, to me, that you’re in too deep. Like Christopher Walken at the end of Deer Hunter.

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but if I were you, I’d walk away from this for a while; try to meet and bang a civilian to recalibrate yourself.

I’m with CCZG on this. This is review and discussion board and not a support group, yet you’ve started multiple threads about this very topic and insert it into existing threads too, whether it’s germane or not. You have many, many, many posts about a Coco wanting to be taken care of by a rich guy, and the Tarzan-loving lady too, which you alternate with constant reminders to yourself that these women being conniving monsters.

I’m genuinely confused by this, and frankly, nervous for you. That you’re this hung up and conflicted about trying to have a loving, intimate relationship based on trust, and with an opportunity to grow, with women that pork hundred of men per year and probably nothing in common with you is a sign, to me, that you’re in too deep. Like Christopher Walken at the end of Deer Hunter.

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but if I were you, I’d walk away from this for a while; try to meet and bang a civilian to recalibrate yourself.

I’m with CCZG on this. This is review and discussion board and not a support group, yet you’ve started multiple threads about this very topic and insert it into existing threads too, whether it’s germane or not. You have many, many, many posts about a Coco wanting to be taken care of by a rich guy, and the Tarzan-loving lady too, which you alternate with constant reminders to yourself that these women being conniving monsters.

I’m genuinely confused by this, and frankly, nervous for you. That you’re this hung up and conflicted about trying to have a loving, intimate relationship based on trust, and with an opportunity to grow, with women that pork hundred of men per year and probably nothing in common with you is a sign, to me, that you’re in too deep. Like Christopher Walken at the end of Deer Hunter.

I can’t believe I’m saying this, but if I were you, I’d walk away from this for a while; try to meet and bang a civilian to recalibrate yourself.

Thanks for the concern but all is well for myself.I don’t think providers are all monsters but many are looking to be taken care of ( financially)not banged by for the most part by ugly or fat guys.We see the hobby from different angles and experiences and interesting seeing others opinions.

 

[hithere456]

Feels like overkill to accompany them, do them favors by driving them around, pay for meals and still cough up $500?
But I do understand that it seems worth it at the time. Just sucks that as men, we feel like we owe women something for spending time with us and making us feel better about ourselves, at least for me. Don't they enjoy the sex too LOL?

When I've gone on a date with a woman, regardless of her profession, I've never given her a tip afterwards.

I never feel like I owe a woman something if she spends time on a date with me. If for some reason she's not having a good time then she's free to leave.

Women do enjoy sex...and typically the more time you spend with the same woman the more enjoyable the sex is.

 

[NYC10001]

Thanks for the concern but all is well for myself.I don’t think providers are all monsters but many are looking to be taken care of ( financially)not banged by for the most part by ugly or fat guys.We see the hobby from different angles and experiences and interesting seeing others opinions.

Great, can’t wait for this exact thread to

Now all I can say is you have a bad attitude.

Why do you say that?

 

[Uniquelyme]

When I've gone on a date with a woman, regardless of her profession, I've never given her a tip afterwards.

I never feel like I owe a woman something if she spends time on a date with me. If for some reason she's not having a good time then she's free to leave.

Women do enjoy sex...and typically the more time you spend with the same woman the more enjoyable the sex is.

I agree with your whole post.