Would/have you dated a provider?

[krideynyc]

Money comes first why door is open and if
you really think a provider wants a hot guy over Franklin’s we’re miles apart.A good looking or hot body monger may get some extra perks or a slight discount but he like the ugly dude has to “ pay for play”.

That just confirms the argument that they only date for money. Pretty sure this discussion has demonstrated that some providers don't always do that.

 

[Levin79]

That just confirms the argument that they only date for money. Pretty sure this discussion has demonstrated that some providers don't always do that.

In the long run whether good looking or not all about money.Even in a non -pro relationship a good looking dude has to come up with cash to keep relationship going.

 

[krideynyc]

Even in a non -pro relationship a good looking dude has to come up with cash to keep relationship going.

Won't argue that. Just questioning the primary motive. I'm siding with those who argue that a provider willing to date you outside the spa and marriage, isn't always just looking for money for their time. Some value the companionship, friendship, or simple escape from their daily routine more.

 

[Levin79]

Won't argue that. Just questioning the primary motive. I'm siding with those who argue that a provider willing to date you outside the spa and marriage, isn't always just looking for money for their time. Some value the companionship, friendship, or simple escape from their daily routine more.

I agree a provider will go a date outside the spa and look to have a nice dinner and conversation.However, the next day depending on her business 5-7 mongers will be interlocking with her mouth ( condom or bare blowjob) and some having sex with her.The worse aspect for someone dating a provider is she has those few favorite customers she can’t wait to dfk,eat and gently stick their fingers in her vagina.

 

[krideynyc]

The worse aspect for someone dating a provider is she has those few favorite customers she can’t wait to dfk,eat and gently stick their fingers in her vagina.

I can't begrudge her that little respite in a job that she most likely hate. For me, the primary factor for this discussion is: if you can't reconcile what she does for a living with your sense of morals/ethics/rules regarding relationships, you shouldn't even be thinking about dating them.

 

[Wayne1250]

I'm married so I live a double life. I know she does too, but when we are together we have fun. No one said dating a Korean spa girl was easy. Just know what you are getting into.

 

[Levin79]

I'm married so I live a double life. I know she does too, but when we are together we have fun. No one said dating a Korean spa girl was easy. Just know what you are getting into.

Just be careful and try keeping emotions in check.

 

[Uniquelyme]

Just be careful and try keeping emotions in check.

Never give your heart to a pro. That is just basic common sense.

 

[Wayne1250]

The girls say never give your pussy to a jack ass.

 

[krideynyc]

When I use term dating I ‘m alluding in seeing if they’re are as humorous outside as inside Spa.I’m not referencing in dating for marriage or sex just in seeing what’s behind a provider.

If you think about it: if you didn't use the word "dating", which brings with it a whole slew of connotations and pre-conceived notions, but simply said "hanging out" instead, I think this thread would have turned out a lot differently, There are plenty of providers I would love to hang out with, but would never date.

 

[Uniquelyme]

If you think about it: if you didn't use the word "dating", which brings with it a whole slew of connotations and pre-conceived notions, but simply said "hanging out" instead, I think this thread would have turned out a lot differently, There are plenty of providers I would love to hang out with, but would never date.

Yes hanging out with is fine. Dating is too but has much more problems that can arise when you date a pro.

 

[xxxooz]

Guys, if she charges you outside the spa, it is only outcall. You're not dating. If she doesn't charge you (including inside the spa) then you're dating (at least in her mind). Understand that comes with other strings.

...I agree with you PJ except if I'm dating an ATF or GF and I visit at the "Store" I usually leave the same tip we began the relationship with...after all I feel I'm messing up the rotation and her earning potential if I don't tip.. It has always been well rewarded with dinners, drinks, KTV or vacations etc... My current GF just surprised my with a Birthday party with friends at a great restaurant, a five star hotel and an LV belt.... It was a a great time... and cost a fortune I'm sure...I got lucky, I found a keeper...LoL..
Xooz

 

[RickeyRomance]

Are you still married to her?

It’ll be 14 years this August. Great woman. Never let anyone tell you that once a stripper, always a stripper. She’s a terrific mom, educator and businesswoman. For some chicks, stripping is what they do and for some stripping is what they are.

 

[eddy1234]

Love hurt

 

[eddy1234]

Love hurts
Love scars
Love wounds and marks
Any heart not tough or strong enough
To take a lot of pain

 

[eddy1234]

I date ones and still together .Outside her work she just a human being .Need show some compassion.Money is not always the answer.

 

[Maple Garden]

It’ll be 14 years this August. Great woman. Never let anyone tell you that once a stripper, always a stripper. She’s a terrific mom, educator and businesswoman. For some chicks, stripping is what they do and for some stripping is what they are.

“For some chicks, stripping is what they do and for some stripping is what they are.”

Just like AMP workers. For some providing service is what they do, and for others it’s who they are”

 

[Shibsaeggi]

Shib is the man!

Thank you Erotes for your kind words.

 

[RickeyRomance]

Only two providers I have any interest in dating.When I use term dating I ‘m alluding in seeing if they’re are as humorous outside as inside Spa.I’m not referencing in dating for marriage or sex just in seeing what’s behind a provider.

Funny story. My wife takes me to this foot massage place WAY out on the Nassau/Suffolk border. Nice place but I notice that the Asian MILF manager is VERY fucking pretty and wearing these tiny little denim shorts. Almost booty shorts and her legs looked amazing. It took everything in me not to keep gawking at her since my wife was right there. We have the foot massages and it's great. I got back by myself a few times and I meet the owner. Turns out that he's an older white guy. A retired firefighter and that's his wife.

We're talking, he looks around and leans and and tells me where he met his wife. Wanna guess? She was his favorite AMP girl years ago in Manhattan. He kept in contact. He started dating her and she wanted to leave the life and he had just gotten divorced. Perfect. He said that she's a very nice girl but her English is still not great and she doesn't have any marketable skills outside of the spa industry. He leans in further and says '....but the sex is phenomenal. She can still go for hours. She'll get up, go make me some food, wait for me to eat, clean the plate and then come back and finish me off. She treats me like a God.'

I didn't tell him that I'm into the AMP scene because my wife still goes there and he doesn't need that kind of information.

So....for some guys, it does work out. Just make sure you have good money coming in and can buy her whatever shoes or handbag she desires and don't mind that she used to fuck half of the Upper East Side.

 

[Maple Garden]

“Just make sure you have good money coming in and can buy her whatever shoes or handbag she desires and don't mind that she used to fuck half of the Upper East Side.”

Or as an alternative to you providing for her, set her up in a legit spa business as per the above example.