Why do you go to AMPs?

[jsmith77]

For me, it's mainly due to lack of success with women. I was a 26 year old virgin when I started going to AMPs. I am 27 now and I still haven't kissed a girl or been on a date with a girl in my life. I have a graduate degree, make good money, but I am a "nerd" and women find this unattractive.

I tried online dating and got absolutely zero responses from women. I thought I would at least be able to get one or two dates from ugly or fat girls, but I was wrong. Not being able to have sex with women is one thing, but not being able to even meet them is so much worse. I eventually gave up on dating women in New York. But when I tried online dating in the Philippines, the results were dramatically different and I got enthusiastic responses from young, attractive women there. So it is clear that women are not the problem for me - the problem is simply American women. There are practical considerations for bringing over a woman from Philippines (e.g., I will have to spend thousands of dollars on a K1 visa application that can take over a year), so for now it's just AMPs for me.

 

[Spa1123]

I felt like you until I was about 21. I thought I was too awkward around women to ever have much success with them. I had a high school girlfriend who was pretty cute, but I always considered her an aberration. In college I had zero success. Then, somehow, I got "cooler". Maybe I stopped trying so hard.

In addition to good looks, women are attracted to success and to money. I have a friend who changed careers and went to med school. He told me the first 15 girls he went out with when he was at med school slept with him on the first date. (He was nothing special in the looks dept.)

You should try to put yourself in situations where you will meet women naturally, instead of looking for dates online. How about a yoga or tai chi class? A group tennis or golf lesson?

Your Philippine idea could either work out or be a complete disaster. You'd most likely be rolling the dice with someone you barely know, but who has all sorts of motive beyond your one-on-one relationship. Anyway, 27 is way too young to be panicking about finding a life partner.

If nothing else works, you can always go to med school!

 

[Koujiao]

You should try to put yourself in situations where you will meet women naturally, instead of looking for dates online. How about a yoga or tai chi class? A group tennis or golf lesson?

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How about church, frat parties or funerals?

Mr maybe....You just need a good line.

 

[Honda]

Much like you jsmith77. I started going to AMP’S because I was never good with woman. I also had a Asian coworker who I wanted to bang so bad, so the AMP filled that void. Also there was no drama no commitment. Pay get your services and go and repeat.

 

[Choklo]

I started going to amps because I have an obsession with Asian women, I tried dating them and had some success but most girls I dated wanted more than sex and I was not ready for a relationship.

I have no issue finding a girl or getting random girls to have sex with me my "game" is solid and I have a very good job plus I am 100% confident in my self and I'm ugly as hell lol.

 

[TONY88]

I felt like you until I was about 21. I thought I was too awkward around women to ever have much success with them. I had a high school girlfriend who was pretty cute, but I always considered her an aberration. In college I had zero success. Then, somehow, I got "cooler". Maybe I stopped trying so hard.

In addition to good looks, women are attracted to success and to money. I have a friend who changed careers and went to med school. He told me the first 15 girls he went out with when he was at med school slept with him on the first date. (He was nothing special in the looks dept.)

You should try to put yourself in situations where you will meet women naturally, instead of looking for dates online. How about a yoga or tai chi class? A group tennis or golf lesson?

Your Philippine idea could either work out or be a complete disaster. You'd most likely be rolling the dice with someone you barely know, but who has all sorts of motive beyond your one-on-one relationship. Anyway, 27 is way too young to be panicking about finding a life partner.

If nothing else works, you can always go to med school!

I agree with putting yourself in a class or social group that you'll be able to interact with women naturally, without feeling pressure. Join a co-ed softball or dodgeball league, or something akin to that. Plenty of my young employees do things like that. And they seem to be having fun, at the very least.

I would not venture into the world of dating online some gal from the Philippines. I knew a fellow who did that and after three years of marriage the woman left him. I believe she just wanted to become a citizen. She cheated on him and became pregnant from a guy she met at a bar. He's still feeling depressed about that situation.

My heart goes out to you, jsmith77. You're young and the world is yours for the taking. It pains me to read that you consider yourself unattractive. You're smart, successful, and have a lot to offer. The only thing I will suggest you do, if you aren't already, is to take care of your health. It only gets harder to maintain a healthy body and exercise regimen as you get older. That was my biggest mistake but I'm doing my best now to do it.

Besides the social groups and classes I'd suggest going on vacation with social groups.

Good luck to you, young man!

 

[We Need More MPS]

Hey guys take it from an old dog women and relationships are and all that they're cracked up to be or like what you see on TV or what you have in your head if I could go back I would have never went the route of putting on the suit getting the car washed buying them flowers and going to expensive restaurants only to never hear from them again I wish I could have had all that money I wasted I could be going to a MPS 24/7 maybe if the woman we're the ones paying they would have more respect for you instead of taking you for a free meal and giving you nothing in return and playing games and stressing you out go relieve your stress At a Clean MPS and leave relaxed never go bare back because it could could ruin your life and kill you JS Smith be careful a Philippines dating any other country or dating in general does gold diggers out there yeah that give your pussy but they'll also screw your wallet I take all your money you don't need it make sure you get prenuptial agreement if you're serious why have some b**** take everything you worked hard for better better to be able to go to sleep at night alone then worried because she took all your money at house a wise old Irishman told me once stay away from the woman they'll give you a hard time and spend all your money instead of rubbing your balls they'll be breaking them so you can't sleep at night when my friend's brother ask me if I was married I told him no he told me I was a genius 2 years later he's divorced you could try multiple online dating sites just don't reply let the women reply to you never show him you're desperate or tell him you have money another friend call me if it wasn't for pussy what good would they be take it slow amigo

 

[1horndog0]

cus i'm a horndog

 

[Spa1123]

For a minute there, I thought I'd accidentally stumbled into the last page of Joyce's Ulysses.

https://archive.org/stream/MollyBloomMonologEnd/MollyBloomMonologhyEnd_djvu.txt

 

[TONY88]

Hey guys take it from an old dog women and relationships are and all that they're cracked up to be or like what you see on TV or what you have in your head if I could go back I would have never went the route of putting on the suit getting the car washed buying them flowers and going to expensive restaurants only to never hear from them again I wish I could have had all that money I wasted I could be going to a MPS 24/7 maybe if the woman we're the ones paying they would have more respect for you instead of taking you for a free meal and giving you nothing in return and playing games and stressing you out go relieve your stress At a Clean MPS and leave relaxed never go bare back because it could could ruin your life and kill you JS Smith be careful a Philippines dating any other country or dating in general does gold diggers out there yeah that give your pussy but they'll also screw your wallet I take all your money you don't need it make sure you get prenuptial agreement if you're serious why have some b**** take everything you worked hard for better better to be able to go to sleep at night alone then worried because she took all your money at house a wise old Irishman told me once stay away from the woman they'll give you a hard time and spend all your money instead of rubbing your balls they'll be breaking them so you can't sleep at night when my friend's brother ask me if I was married I told him no he told me I was a genius 2 years later he's divorced you could try multiple online dating sites just don't reply let the women reply to you never show him you're desperate or tell him you have money another friend call me if it wasn't for pussy what good would they be take it slow amigo

By chance are you employed as an auctioneer?

 

[Honda]

Hey guys take it from an old dog women and relationships are and all that they're cracked up to be or like what you see on TV or what you have in your head if I could go back I would have never went the route of putting on the suit getting the car washed buying them flowers and going to expensive restaurants only to never hear from them again I wish I could have had all that money I wasted I could be going to a MPS 24/7 maybe if the woman we're the ones paying they would have more respect for you instead of taking you for a free meal and giving you nothing in return and playing games and stressing you out go relieve your stress At a Clean MPS and leave relaxed never go bare back because it could could ruin your life and kill you JS Smith be careful a Philippines dating any other country or dating in general does gold diggers out there yeah that give your pussy but they'll also screw your wallet I take all your money you don't need it make sure you get prenuptial agreement if you're serious why have some b**** take everything you worked hard for better better to be able to go to sleep at night alone then worried because she took all your money at house a wise old Irishman told me once stay away from the woman they'll give you a hard time and spend all your money instead of rubbing your balls they'll be breaking them so you can't sleep at night when my friend's brother ask me if I was married I told him no he told me I was a genius 2 years later he's divorced you could try multiple online dating sites just don't reply let the women reply to you never show him you're desperate or tell him you have money another friend call me if it wasn't for pussy what good would they be take it slow amigo

Hey guys take it from an old dog women and relationships are and all that they're cracked up to be or like what you see on TV or what you have in your head if I could go back I would have never went the route of putting on the suit getting the car washed buying them flowers and going to expensive restaurants only to never hear from them again I wish I could have had all that money I wasted I could be going to a MPS 24/7 maybe if the woman we're the ones paying they would have more respect for you instead of taking you for a free meal and giving you nothing in return and playing games and stressing you out go relieve your stress At a Clean MPS and leave relaxed never go bare back because it could could ruin your life and kill you JS Smith be careful a Philippines dating any other country or dating in general does gold diggers out there yeah that give your pussy but they'll also screw your wallet I take all your money you don't need it make sure you get prenuptial agreement if you're serious why have some b**** take everything you worked hard for better better to be able to go to sleep at night alone then worried because she took all your money at house a wise old Irishman told me once stay away from the woman they'll give you a hard time and spend all your money instead of rubbing your balls they'll be breaking them so you can't sleep at night when my friend's brother ask me if I was married I told him no he told me I was a genius 2 years later he's divorced you could try multiple online dating sites just don't reply let the women reply to you never show him you're desperate or tell him you have money another friend call me if it wasn't for pussy what good would they be take it slow amigo

My Man you are so right. I wish I took this route. Been married for 14 years and I do love her but it’s not easy. Women love to play games especially with nice guys no matter how nice you treat them. They throw your ass in the friend zone so quick and go for the guy that treats them like shit. I don’t understand women!!!

 

[We Need More MPS]

No a Disgruntled Uber driver Why Tony sound like someone you know ?

 

[Levin79]

My Man you are so right. I wish I took this route. Been married for 14 years and I do love her but it’s not easy. Women love to play games especially with nice guys no matter how nice you treat them. They throw your ass in the friend zone so quick and go for the guy that treats them like shit. I don’t understand women!!!

This is why never be over generous but always be sweet.

 

[We Need More MPS]

My Man you are so right. I wish I took this route. Been married for 14 years and I do love her but it’s not easy. Women love to play games especially with nice guys no matter how nice you treat them. They throw your ass in the friend zone so quick and go for the guy that treats them like shit. I don’t understand women!!!

Thanks Honda You have my condolences Wow 14 years of PWS. "PUTTING UP WITH WOMENS SHIT" .YOUR RIGHT know matter how nice you treat them and how much you give them They don't appreciate it and bitch and complain and will fall for the guy that treats them Like Shit. A wise old a Irishmen once asked me what Pussy is I said is were you put your dick in for some pleasure He said wrong it is a Gaint Mouse Trap. That will take all your hard earned Money. Better to buy a Playboy and use you hand or go to the Massager Palor for a little Rubbie and Tuggie.

 

[727]

For me, it's mainly due to lack of success with women. I was a 26 year old virgin when I started going to AMPs. I am 27 now and I still haven't kissed a girl or been on a date with a girl in my life. I have a graduate degree, make good money, but I am a "nerd" and women find this unattractive.

I tried online dating and got absolutely zero responses from women. I thought I would at least be able to get one or two dates from ugly or fat girls, but I was wrong. Not being able to have sex with women is one thing, but not being able to even meet them is so much worse. I eventually gave up on dating women in New York. But when I tried online dating in the Philippines, the results were dramatically different and I got enthusiastic responses from young, attractive women there. So it is clear that women are not the problem for me - the problem is simply American women. There are practical considerations for bringing over a woman from Philippines (e.g., I will have to spend thousands of dollars on a K1 visa application that can take over a year), so for now it's just AMPs for me.

First thing, get this mindset out of your head-What you send into the uninverse will cone back to you, anyone who tells you different has no spiritual foundation and should be ignored at all costs. Secondly, if there is anything I know, to strong degree, is there is someone for everyone, unless you are an axe murder or totrtue small animals, no one really wants that. And remember it just takes one yes. Hone your skills at the AMP level, but it is absolutely not a substitute for a meaningful relationship. Go to the places that are in your wheelhouse, with somewhat like-minded people, there's woman there, she's thinking you will never show up. Just go over and say hello, she'll smile broadly and say, hello back-that's the one. And evey now and then, jump right out of your comfort zone-its good for you. And we probably need to fix youron-line dating copy . . .

 

[krideynyc]

I prefer the Taiwanese or Southern Chinese style of massage (what's found in Chinese AMP's in my area) more than any other style. When I find a good masseuse, I tend to repeat. And even with a good tip, it still comes out to half the price compared to an European Style Health Spa.

Still searching for one that can provide Taiwanese style massage with the same intensity as a Russian or Turkish massage.

 

[Brody]

Try speed dating or a meetup group. If you have a graduate degree, you hopefully have a decent job and make good money...turns out girls like nerds that have a good job and make money
Get tinder and just swipe left on everyone lol

 

[AutomaticSlim]

For me, it's mainly due to lack of success with women. I was a 26 year old virgin when I started going to AMPs. I am 27 now and I still haven't kissed a girl or been on a date with a girl in my life. I have a graduate degree, make good money, but I am a "nerd" and women find this unattractive.

I tried online dating and got absolutely zero responses from women. I thought I would at least be able to get one or two dates from ugly or fat girls, but I was wrong. Not being able to have sex with women is one thing, but not being able to even meet them is so much worse. I eventually gave up on dating women in New York. But when I tried online dating in the Philippines, the results were dramatically different and I got enthusiastic responses from young, attractive women there. So it is clear that women are not the problem for me - the problem is simply American women. There are practical considerations for bringing over a woman from Philippines (e.g., I will have to spend thousands of dollars on a K1 visa application that can take over a year), so for now it's just AMPs for me.

Hello jsmith77!

I started dong this when I was a 20 y/o junior in college. That was 33 years ago!
Started with streetwalkers on 11th ave and also Park ave.
Then progressed to upscale brothels and escort services in the mid nineties.
Went to my first AMP in 2003. I do this 3 to 4 times a week and at my age, this is not going to change. I know exactly how my life will play out.

Here is my advice to you. Don't fall into the traps that I did!

1) If you are not going to the gym, start! Hit the weights hard! I have worked out since I was a teen, but always did it home by myself. Not the same.
Join a gym, and do serious weightlifting. Listen to the more experienced guys there. They will most likely be very helpful towards you. I was f-ed with
pretty bad in grade school and high school and always expected the worst from people. I can see now that this was a mistake. Many guys are willing
to help out a newbie. Also, if you can afford it, get a personal trainer.

2) Enroll in some sort of fight training. Martial arts, boxing, Judo, whatever. It will absolutely help you with your confidence. Also, if you are not good at fixing
things (cars, home repairs, etc..) then take some courses. Females love males that are good with their hands.

3) Go out to bars/lounges/clubs with your friends and coworkers. Force yourself if you have to. You will have fun. Trust me. It took me a long time
to realize this.

4) While you are doing (3), approach girls you don't know and talk to them. Tell jokes. But them drinks. If they reject you, who cares? Move on the the
next one.

5) Don't be satisfied being a "worker bee". If you have the opportunity to advance, or start your own business, go for it! I;m an independent consultant and do well
financially, but I never took that extra step. I am basically just a higher paid worker bee. Strive to be more.

6) Forget the Philippines for now! That's for old guys like me!!! You are young and have your whole life ahead of you. Try the above before worrying about
having to go overseas to meet a girl. At my age I really have no other choice if I wanted to marry a hot, young girl. But you do.

7) Never, and mean NEVER be a sap that allows himself to be taken advantage of by a female. Doesn't matter the reason. Could be to use you for money (been
there, done that -- never again!) or anything else. If they don't submit to you out of respect for the fact that you are the man, 'F' them!


Good luck!

 

[Daveinqueens]

Im married with kids and i like whores.....nuff said. The no strings is the best

 

[AutomaticSlim]

Im married with kids and i like whores.....nuff said. The no strings is the best

I like whores too.
And have for a very long time.
But it gets lonely when I come home to nothing but an empty apartment and cheap booze.