What made you guys start hobbying? This is my story.

[Gianfranco8725]

Well, it started when I was around 22 as well. I was working in China, and I'd hear all these foreigners talk about how great the "massages" are. I was relatively young and naive and I just laughed along. The only time I received a massage was in Thailand and it was a couples massage with my girl. Being in a foreign country started taking a toll on my emotional and mental health after a while, I wasn't able to communicate, I missed the states but I wanted to stick out at least one year.

There was a dingy place near where I worked at a time and my coworker joked that it was probably a grimey brothel. Well, as you horndogs may know, sometimes these little words and coincidences plant a seed inside your head, it starts growing and eventually sprouts. One, hot summer night, I decided to check it out and went up to this dark, red lighted place on the third floor. A man in his 40s greeted me and asked what I wanted. I used the translator app to say I wanted a "thigh massage," which was the slang that I'd heard thrown around foreigners. He led me to a room, it was very, very minimal and the cleanliness was below standard. A woman in her 40s came in, scantily dressed and told me to get undressed. My heart was beating pretty fast and I was anxious but I did what I was told. She started massaging my back, my legs with oil, and it did feel nice. She wasn't anything special at all but it was my first time and my adrenaline was pumping. She started massaging my ass and prostate and I tensed up. She laughed and continued on as she put my hands on her breasts. It was a rather short massage but she took care of me and told me that time was up. I knew at that moment that I'd entered a whole new world (unfortunately).

I kind of went on a binge afterwards (as some of you may have experienced). I went to more upscale Thai massages and received some of the best prostate stimulations and techniques that had my toes curled. I met some girls that were absolutely wonderful, and some that made me ponder why I am still doing this. Even after great sessions, I felt empty at times. I stopped for a while but got started again a few months ago. I am back in the states now and only mongering around Philadelphia area. I only visit once in 3 months or so, and it is always based around therapeutical values first ( I stay away from FS because I don't want to open up that pandora box). I actually prefer the older women, in their late 30s - early 40s, I think they actually have better techniques and feel more physically better afterwards.

Anyway, cheers to your hobbies and thanks for sharing advices/experiences on here. Hope yall stay safe.

Maybe out of place. But what would be a good a budget to travel to Thailand for 2 weeks ?

 

[Kingofqueens]

Bad breakup, regret it now. Sometimes i feel like i can't stop. That post nut clarity lol

 

[DunkinDonuts]

Maybe out of place. But what would be a good a budget to travel to Thailand for 2 weeks ?

There are a ton of guides online that provide a lot of intel. Some of them break the price and services down. Surprisingly easy to find.

 

[thieftakergeneral]

I got real lonely during quarantine. I live alone, work remotely, and most of my friends live out of state (moved back to NYC from NJ).

 

[Ampguy80]

Maybe out of place. But what would be a good a budget to travel to Thailand for 2 weeks ?

5G?

 

[Gianfranco8725]

5G?

5 thousand dollars ?

 

[Amitabh]

Maybe out of place. But what would be a good a budget to travel to Thailand for 2 weeks ?

2K. Just checked, airfare from nyc is 650, inexpensive hotels and super cheap pussies.

 

[Ampguy80]

5 thousand dollars ?

$700 airfair
$1400 hotel (avg $100 is cheap and I need comfort and security so I am not staying in dirt cheap hotels)
$2800 - $200 a day for pussy, food And general entertainment is good. 14 days is $2800. I like to see pussy $80 each day, with a message $25 and whatever I don’t spend on food, I can upgrade pussy or go twice.
Total is $5k

 

[njboy138]

Having access to sex is a dating superpower. A shitty girl can't lead me on.

 

[Reachme.here091]

Wow.
That's rough.
I would like to ask a question. Feel free to say "none of your beeswax" if you like.
When the kid was born, did you think about not signing the birth certificate until you had a paternity test?
I know that sounds odd, but with so many states requiring the birth certificate signer to assume child support payments (EVEN if the kid is not his), it would seem, to me anyway, the prudent thing to do. In fact it should be common practice in the hospitals. I have read that this is quite common. Women screwing around on their husbands and passing the kid off as his. I will almost certainly never be married, let alone expecting a kid, but if I was, I would ABSLOLUTEY require a paternity test before signing the certificate.

And if the kid is yours? You just killed any trust between you and the baby mama. You just bought your self endless headaches and probably huge legal costs. Would be easier to raise the kid and hobby on the side.

Besides, you do the test later and have it in your back pocket in case you need it.

 

[bor3dmonk3y]

Having access to sex is a dating superpower. A shitty girl can't lead me on.

This. Sex is no longer the only carrot I chase in dating. I need personality, character, humor, respect, discipline or I'm Audi 3000.

 

[이 회장님]

I got real lonely during quarantine. I live alone, work remotely, and most of my friends live out of state (moved back to NYC from NJ).

You may be sometimes lonely but at least it’s comfortable, right?

I live alone as well. I come home from work, take a shower, grab a bite, and chill. I have no complaints.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

And if the kid is yours? You just killed any trust between you and the baby mama. You just bought your self endless headaches and probably huge legal costs. Would be easier to raise the kid and hobby on the side.

Besides, you do the test later and have it in your back pocket in case you need it.

No, in most states that is too late.
If your name is on the certificate, you are financially responsible.
Sorry, have to disagree with you here.
My financial well being is more important than some female's feelings.

But like I said earlier in the thread. This is all academic for me.
I've never been in any type of a position that a female has considered for one millisecond about reproducing with me, and I never will.


BTW, who revived this thread?

 

[avmist]

Was still a virgin at 23, living in my own head, never in the moment. No social life at all in high school, or after. No friends, no relationshiups beyond family and work. Realized "oh shit" and got going. Was difficult at first, due to porn/masturation induced ED, but was able to get it up eventually.
I never tried to fuck for free or asked a girl out since 8th grade. That lasted 1 day after I fingered her right away (she was a slut). I've spent hundreds of thousands of dollars in the last 12 years.

 

[Ampguy80]

Was still a virgin at 23, living in my own head, never in the moment. No social life at all in high school, or after. No friends, no relationshiups beyond family and work. Realized "oh shit" and got going. Was difficult at first, due to porn/masturation induced ED, but was able to get it up eventually.
I never tried to fuck for free or asked a girl out since 8th grade. That lasted 1 day after I fingered her right away (she was a slut). I've spent hundreds of thousands of dollars in the last 12 years.

Sir. You are a true monger.

 

[Lovemyspa]

2K. Just checked, airfare from nyc is 650, inexpensive hotels and super cheap pussies.

Understand if you fly into Thailand after it reopens in October you must spend three weeks in quarantine on the Island of Phuket before going to Bangkok ,Payeta or anywhere else on the Mainland. PHUKET is super expensive and you need to pay for your quarantine expense.
No longer fun in Thailand this year.

 

[Reachme.here091]

No, in most states that is too late.
If your name is on the certificate, you are financially responsible.
Sorry, have to disagree with you here.
My financial well being is more important than some female's feelings.

But like I said earlier in the thread. This is all academic for me.
I've never been in any type of a position that a female has considered for one millisecond about reproducing with me, and I never will.


BTW, who revived this thread?

The question what happens if you take the paternity test and the kid is yours. I have a family member and he is in this same situation. Let’s just say the situation is fucked up. No trust between him and her. They only talk through lawyers. Crazy legal expenses.

Point is, if you feel the need to get a paternity test, be fucking extra careful how you bring it up and ask for it. Otherwise you’re in for a world of problems If the kid turns out to be yours.

 

[Reachme.here091]

And you can take the paternity test as soon as 9 weeks into pregnancy.

But back to my main point, be fucking extra careful in how you ask for one

 

[이 회장님]

Understand if you fly into Thailand after it reopens in October you must spend three weeks in quarantine on the Island of Phuket before going to Bangkok ,Payeta or anywhere else on the Mainland. PHUKET is super expensive and you need to pay for your quarantine expense.
No longer fun in Thailand this year.

Damn three weeks?!?

I have to go to Korea next month and it’s two weeks. YouTube, ESPN, and this site shall keep me busy. lol.

 

[Lovemyspa]

Damn three weeks?!?

I have to go to Korea next month and it’s two weeks. YouTube, ESPN, and this site shall keep me busy. lol.

2 weeks inside your hotel and the third week you can walk outside to the beach area from your hotel but not much further. Do not know if they make you wear a monitoring bracelet