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van gogh syndrome

TGBeldin

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“Being with her outside, you will see her ugly reality,”

And they will see ours as well. Being with her on the outside, you will also see a better side of her. A side you don’t experience in the spa.
This, I believe, is what many here do not see--or sometimes do not wish to see.

It is all business UNTIL IT IS NOT. Problems come in when ONE person thinks/wants it to transition to more than business, and the other does not. It can happen in either direction, and it is a problem in either case.

If, however, BOTH want to explore if it can become something else, and both are honest & open discussing it, then it can at times become more.

I know several couples who met in this world, and jointly decided to become a couple. Some worked, some did not. IN EVERY CASE I KNOW. WHERE IT WORKED LONG TERM, BOTH LEFT THIS BUSINESS BEHIND THEM. Some of those couples are still happily together 10+ years later, often in a different city with a clean start.

Every case where the woman kept working, or the guy slipped out for a quick AMP visit, failed.

If a guy is looking for a cheap sleep in provider because she is the best sex he has had, is will be a flop. If they both go in with eyes open and a willingness to prioritize it, yes, it can sometimes work in spite of the prevailing opinions here. Those cases where it works they typically don't stay around this community so those examples are often not seen/known.
 

scubatoo

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@TGBeldin, good points. It is very difficult to get a Chinese or Korean girl out of their ethnic community comfort zone. Many are closely tied to family and friends in places like Flushing. Where they can speak their native language and know where to find almost anything they need. In this area, there are a few scattered Korean communities around the suburbs. And of course you have Chinatown. So if they are not going to live in those specific areas, they certainly want access to them. The flip side is most guys would not want to pick up and move to those areas because of their own disruptions. For me, language has been the biggest obstacle, followed by location. Both of these have been the reason I no longer seek a deeper relationship with any of my favorite spa girls.
 

TGBeldin

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Agree with all you said. The one couple I know well said that was indeed the hardest part for her--leaving her Chinese community. One thing they did was move to another city that had a relatively large Chinese community--they live right on the edge of it now. Once they moved, they also arranged for her younger sister to move in with them, and her parents now visit every year. So far it has worked for them, mostly i think because they talked it over and decided being together was worth it.
 

RickeyRomance

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I think it's interesting to realize that there are so many different types of guys who go to these places. Ranging from really abusive jerks who are rough with the girls and get banned on to the other end of the spectrum of guys who come with flowers and dinner to the spa wearing a suit. That first guy has mental/aggression issues and the other guy is just really lonely and buys completely into the fantasy.

But that's just what it is, a fantasy. Whether it's an AMP, a strip club or an independent provider, there's this fantasy that this girl loves what she's doing and she really falls in love with the customers. Trust me, the percentage of young girls sitting in a classroom who dream that one day they'll rub down and service multiple men a day in a dark AMP in a strip mall somewhere is ZERO. They're polite and accommodating but none of them actually want have ever met you. They would have rather met some handsome Chinese or Korean guy their age while working a lucrative, high-powered job in Seoul or Singapore somewhere.
 

East Lake II

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I think it's interesting to realize that there are so many different types of guys who go to these places. Ranging from really abusive jerks who are rough with the girls and get banned on to the other end of the spectrum of guys who come with flowers and dinner to the spa wearing a suit. That first guy has mental/aggression issues and the other guy is just really lonely and buys completely into the fantasy.

But that's just what it is, a fantasy. Whether it's an AMP, a strip club or an independent provider, there's this fantasy that this girl loves what she's doing and she really falls in love with the customers. Trust me, the percentage of young girls sitting in a classroom who dream that one day they'll rub down and service multiple men a day in a dark AMP in a strip mall somewhere is ZERO. They're polite and accommodating but none of them actually want have ever met you. They would have rather met some handsome Chinese or Korean guy their age while working a lucrative, high-powered job in Seoul or Singapore somewhere.
So very very true! But the Van Gough Syndrome (VGS) lives on.

One way not to be afflicted with the VGS, is to think about what they say and how they act. Go back in time and replay their words and actions. Doesn’t matter if they lie or not, there is enough there for you to see clearly. You may not want to believe what the logical part of your brain is telling you, but the truth is there. It’s your choice VGS or freedom. Enjoy it for what it is. An hour or so of escape from everyday life.
 
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