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Unofficial Survey... The Mongering Hobby and Marriage...

charliebrown

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I’m not married, but have that problem with expecting certain acts With different providers. It gets confusing when you see 3-4 providers regularly, to keep track of who likes DFK, or which girls rim you, or who does good pm and who does painful ones. I guess it would be harder, with a wife, if some spa girl taught you something and you really want the wife to learn it after 20 years of marriage.
You cannot teach these old dogs new tricks.
Aside from being really curious why you stay married, I’m also wondering if you ever considered marriage counseling if you want to stay. Seems like she isn’t holding up her end of the marriage contract, and the counselor would come down on your side. Don’t answer if it’s prying.
Why I and most people stay married has almost zero to do with sex and has 100% to do with love.
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/love/how-to-last-through-the-5-stages-of-love/
Those who have gone thru this process are very unlikely to throw it away.

When I was going thru counseling, I was spending 100 dollars a session and in the end I would end up DIY.
Now I have found the true solution to complete happiness because I go thru a session with a professional who knows how to alleviate pain and in the end I leave happy.
 

haaretz

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You cannot teach these old dogs new tricks.


Why I and most people stay married has almost zero to do with sex and has 100% to do with love.
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/love/how-to-last-through-the-5-stages-of-love/
Those who have gone thru this process are very unlikely to throw it away.

When I was going thru counseling, I was spending 100 dollars a session and in the end I would end up DIY.
Now I have found the true solution to complete happiness because I go thru a session with a professional who knows how to alleviate pain and in the end I leave happy.
Same here....when we went to marriage counseling the counselor said that a hug at our ages (late 50's) was intimacy. That's when I felt like, fuck it, let me take my chances on Backpage. And worry about her pimp Guido later.
And like other guys who've posted on this particular thread the lack of intimacy created such a void in our lives. And it didn't matter how great our golf game was or whatever.
 

charliebrown

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I have to believe it has to do with $$$ too.
Who the hell in his right mind wants to forfeit half their net worth, as well as monthly alimony payments?
Nope, If my priority was sex, I have more than enough money to split in half and fuck the rest of my life away. The problem is this, as I get older, I want to fuck less and spend more time with people I care for and love. Those people happen to be my wife, kids, brothers. sisters, cousins, friends, etc, etc.
My sex life is waning and my family life is flourishing.
 

xxxooz

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I have to believe it has to do with $$$ too.
Who the hell in his right mind wants to forfeit half their net worth, as well as monthly alimony payments?
.... I believe that withholding sex should be legitimate grounds for divorce and considered with prejudice...after all it is routinely a consideration in most damages related law suits..."loss of services"...Just a random thought...
...a sexless marriage is not a marriage and withholding sex is a breach of contract...
...comments?..
 

xxxooz

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I came to realize a while ago that a marriage without any kind of affection, sex included, is more of a business arrangement than a marriage.
...I "bit the bullet" a few years ago with no regrets... took a few hits financially but now life is good...have a GF and an apt in Flushing...took a trip to China and am living life as a free man...
..sure beats hoping and longing for sex every night with a woman who could care less about me or what it takes to make a relationship work...
 

mikemendez

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Withholding sex is major, but withholding affection is down right cruel and selfish by any wife, medical problems is one thing, a huge problem, but would it kill the wife to rub her mans neck and shoulders, run her hand through his hair/over his bald head or a bit of cuddling, men have to walk into a parlor and get all the above which is lacking at home.
 

Phillyman

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So I'm single and in my 40s and never been married. So my question to all those that are married and visiting AMPS or R&T massage places. How do you manage to hide the money that your spending if your visiting once or twice a month?
Just curious... If I ever do decide to bite the bullet of marriage.
 

Mandalorian

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So I'm single and in my 40s and never been married. So my question to all those that are married and visiting AMPS or R&T massage places. How do you manage to hide the money that your spending if your visiting once or twice a month?
Just curious... If I ever do decide to bite the bullet of marriage.
#1 If you deal with the money coming and going and your wife doesn't have a clue-that's the easiest way. A couple hundred bucks every couple weeks isn't going to break the bank if you can afford it and have a decent amount of money saved. If you start doing it a few times a week and don't have a job that's high paying enough then obviously she will notice.

#2 If you have a decent job you can direct a certain percentage to a different account that she doesn't know about. If questioned you can just say that taxes increased. Again depending on income that will probably work with a less frequent amount of hobbying. Also she can't see your pay stubs or it will be very obvious.

#3 You have your own business and deal a lot in cash. There is no way she can track that.
 

mitchxy1

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I've been saying for years that marriage doesn't make sense in most cases. First and foremost it is just to start a family. And hopefully your wife is your best friend and prioritizes you at or near the top. But usually, the wife doesn't care about sex, they can take it or leave it. Once you have kids, she just needs you around to handle the finances, fix stuff, update/troubleshoot the computers, fight pests, fix the car, fix the house, shovel the snow, take out the garbage, drive her around etc. You get the picture. All we pretty much want them for is sex, some affection and cooking. What I've learned from 20 years of marriage is that men and women just want and care about different things. So why are we married? The wife usually has more fun with other women/friends and the same with us. I feel like they need us, not want us. While many men depend a lot on their wives for things they don't like/care to do, I'm fully independent of her. She would be lost without me because she loves that I take care of everything.
While I only get legit massages, it is an outlet nonetheless. The prospect of having a pretty girl touch me all over excites me. Can't say the same about the wife. So at this point, I can say that it has helped, only in that there is something in my boring life that I look forward to. But the urge for more is growing...since I still can't understand the point of a lasting marriage. I think there are very few of us that have met the right partner.
 

casualplayer

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#1 If you deal with the money coming and going and your wife doesn't have a clue-that's the easiest way. A couple hundred bucks every couple weeks isn't going to break the bank if you can afford it and have a decent amount of money saved. If you start doing it a few times a week and don't have a job that's high paying enough then obviously she will notice.

#2 If you have a decent job you can direct a certain percentage to a different account that she doesn't know about. If questioned you can just say that taxes increased. Again depending on income that will probably work with a less frequent amount of hobbying. Also she can't see your pay stubs or it will be very obvious.

#3 You have your own business and deal a lot in cash. There is no way she can track that.
If you have to hide it you don't belong in this "hobbie" (I hate this term) I go once or twice a week!! Not a game to be taken lightly for sure. You have to pay to play. Than means you have to have the means!
 

Mandalorian

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If you have to hide it you don't belong in this "hobbie" (I hate this term) I go once or twice a week!! Not a game to be taken lightly for sure. You have to pay to play. Than means you have to have the means!
I disagree. If you are married you most DEFINITELY have to hide it. Having the means may not be the problem-the wife finding out about it is.
 

casualplayer

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I disagree. If you are married you most DEFINITELY have to hide it. Having the means may not be the problem-the wife finding out about it is.
Again - if you want to play in this arena then you will know how and what to do. Married or not - grow up. Or don't get into this. If you are not smart well then.... Enough said.
 
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