The counter argument for Divorce due to Infidelity if the wife catches you, is Divorce due to Abandonment/Desertion. That's when intimacy is no longer part of the relationship. Most States require a duration of a year before you can make that claim. The big question is if you want to divorce her at all.
My wife knows I get regular massages. It's part of my Physical Therapy to treat my back injury from a motorcycle accident. She also knows I moved from a Physical Therapy Center to a legit AMP because they provide back walking, and the Chinese style of massage offers more relief than the other massage styles I've tried. The legit place has to be properly licensed, because I need the LMT's License number to file for medical claims. She's been with me to my legit place, and she know there's no extras offered. She just doesn't know that I sometimes go to the other AMP's for the occasional extras. Unsheduled sessions is easy to explain because my back can just act up after sitting too long, or when I over exert myself.
My wife knows I get regular massages. It's part of my Physical Therapy to treat my back injury from a motorcycle accident. She also knows I moved from a Physical Therapy Center to a legit AMP because they provide back walking, and the Chinese style of massage offers more relief than the other massage styles I've tried. The legit place has to be properly licensed, because I need the LMT's License number to file for medical claims. She's been with me to my legit place, and she know there's no extras offered. She just doesn't know that I sometimes go to the other AMP's for the occasional extras. Unsheduled sessions is easy to explain because my back can just act up after sitting too long, or when I over exert myself.