Hello… looks like you’re fairly new to this hobby. Until it strikes one, they’re in denial. So, one day when this catches up with you, trust me your eyes will open, and you’ll comprehend this better. This is a fact you take into the equation and many long time mongers here know at some point, the tests, and antibiotics routine…
I am still not seeing a citation from you about your claims.
Unless we already have an epidemic of STDs here which should be reported on the news or at the very least have loaded PSA ads and fliers at your local CVS, even amongst WG's who are fully booked all day every day and BBFS all day everday, the chances are not as great as you described. Again, my citation is CDC which people should look at first hand. Also, the fearmongers really should understand what is incurable and what is curable but cause lasting damage if not treated as early as possible. A lot of claims of STDs ruining peoples lives are at best blown out of proportion and often times outright false. Again, look at official sources, don't rely on hearsay or forum gossip.