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The Rules I play by when I deal with escorts

Moosegreely973

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#1
This is not a game the escort world the pay to play arena as I like to call it, Can be very dangerous.

  • Do not think with the wrong head. Don’t focus on getting your fetish off. Focus on using your instincts; don’t ignore the red flags, take precautions and its safety over everything. 2. Keep your risk to a minimum. We get one life. We got to stay out of harm’s way as much as possible. That’s doing everything protected and no kissing on the lips. We got to hide our true identity, and deal with quality providers. 3. The john rule don’t use your real number. Get multiply app numbers and create an alias not related to your real email for solely contacting escorts. Don’t give up too much info about yourself especially without meeting a provider in person. 4. Don’t book a provider that’s over your budget. My budget is 300 roses for hr tops. We all have a budget. Don’t go over budget for a provider under no circumstance. Don’t let them overpriced providers fool you into believing their services are worth that much it’s not. 5. Choose your providers wisely- Research providers you’re interested in by googling the number. You should look for the ad to be on multiple sites. Use reputable sites. You’re also looking for reviews, visibility via social media and only fans. What the ad say and do her pics look real.
  • 6. Never ever pay upfront or send a deposit via an app or with a gift card. You’ll probably be scammed. I don’t do outcalls or deal with agencies so it’s not a reason for me to. 7. Don’t carry anything of value on you while meeting a escort. That’s means no jewelry, don’t carry large sums of cash, cc cards and debit cards. 8. Don’t sleep with escorts when you first meet them in person. It’s because I got to see how attractive they’re in person to me, how we vibe, what’s her energy like, and if it’s safe to deal with this provider. 9. Don’t get drunk and high with a provider or be under the influence while booking a escort. You’ll do stupid stuff like count 10k out in front of a provider and make poor decisions. It’s a higher chance they’ll try to scam you. I heard stories of providers putting something in your drink and rob you when you pass out. 10. Don’t deal with escorts that got pimps once you find out. The girls with pimps all hide it. It’s an increase chance of you getting robbed or scammed during your meet ups. Some hobbyists will deal with a girl with a pimp as long as the pimp doesn’t bother them during the meet up. Some hobbyists won’t come nowhere near a girl with a pimp once they find out. 11. Don’t partake in any violence or carry a weapon. It’s not worth it over a dispute for money or service. 12. Always be a gentleman and respectful with the provider.

  • I didn’t get into too much detail on how I came up with my rules because it would be too long. I could write an essay on each rule. It would be very interesting on what providers and my fellow hobbyist/tricks/johns think of my rules. Let me know your opinion and let’s have a great discussion.
 

SunBatherBob

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in my experience in the past 27 years of this hobby...
I’ve slept with every escort the first time I met them, and never had an issue. I’ve also had a couple drinks and a smoke with girls of the night, and have never had an issue. I’ve also hung out with Mamasan (Pimp) and the massage girl after the session and never had an issue.
 

Moosegreely973

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in my experience in the past 27 years of this hobby...
I’ve slept with every escort the first time I met them, and never had an issue. I’ve also had a couple drinks and a smoke with girls of the night, and have never had an issue. I’ve also hung out with Mamasan (Pimp) and the massage girl after the session and never had an issue.
That's real good but it's my rules and my perspective.
 

Moosegreely973

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“ Let me know your opinion and let’s have a great discussion. “

“ That's real good but it's my rules and my perspective. “


Where did you learn how to have a great discussion? SMH!
The purpose of this message board is somebody make a post about a topic. Then we reply with our opinions. It's a way for those of us that hobby to network. I don't know what you mean by where did I learn how to have a great discussion? What do you mean by Where did I learn how to have a great discussion?
 

GreenFan

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This is not a game the escort world the pay to play arena as I like to call it, Can be very dangerous.

  • Do not think with the wrong head. Don’t focus on getting your fetish off. Focus on using your instincts; don’t ignore the red flags, take precautions and its safety over everything. 2. Keep your risk to a minimum. We get one life. We got to stay out of harm’s way as much as possible. That’s doing everything protected and no kissing on the lips. We got to hide our true identity, and deal with quality providers. 3. The john rule don’t use your real number. Get multiply app numbers and create an alias not related to your real email for solely contacting escorts. Don’t give up too much info about yourself especially without meeting a provider in person. 4. Don’t book a provider that’s over your budget. My budget is 300 roses for hr tops. We all have a budget. Don’t go over budget for a provider under no circumstance. Don’t let them overpriced providers fool you into believing their services are worth that much it’s not. 5. Choose your providers wisely- Research providers you’re interested in by googling the number. You should look for the ad to be on multiple sites. Use reputable sites. You’re also looking for reviews, visibility via social media and only fans. What the ad say and do her pics look real.
  • 6. Never ever pay upfront or send a deposit via an app or with a gift card. You’ll probably be scammed. I don’t do outcalls or deal with agencies so it’s not a reason for me to. 7. Don’t carry anything of value on you while meeting a escort. That’s means no jewelry, don’t carry large sums of cash, cc cards and debit cards. 8. Don’t sleep with escorts when you first meet them in person. It’s because I got to see how attractive they’re in person to me, how we vibe, what’s her energy like, and if it’s safe to deal with this provider. 9. Don’t get drunk and high with a provider or be under the influence while booking a escort. You’ll do stupid stuff like count 10k out in front of a provider and make poor decisions. It’s a higher chance they’ll try to scam you. I heard stories of providers putting something in your drink and rob you when you pass out. 10. Don’t deal with escorts that got pimps once you find out. The girls with pimps all hide it. It’s an increase chance of you getting robbed or scammed during your meet ups. Some hobbyists will deal with a girl with a pimp as long as the pimp doesn’t bother them during the meet up. Some hobbyists won’t come nowhere near a girl with a pimp once they find out. 11. Don’t partake in any violence or carry a weapon. It’s not worth it over a dispute for money or service. 12. Always be a gentleman and respectful with the provider.

  • I didn’t get into too much detail on how I came up with my rules because it would be too long. I could write an essay on each rule. It would be very interesting on what providers and my fellow hobbyist/tricks/johns think of my rules. Let me know your opinion and let’s have a great discussion.
What’s your go to site for these liaisons?
 

Moosegreely973

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Most importantly it depends on the ad not the site. On the reputable sites it's just more quality providers than the non reputable sites! I surf Listcrawler, Callescort.org, Harlothub, BP, escort fish, Eros.com, Slixa, Adult look, Tryst.link, TNAboard, and Private delights. I surf some sites more frequently than others.
 

vman1970

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#10
This is not a game the escort world the pay to play arena as I like to call it, Can be very dangerous.

  • Do not think with the wrong head. Don’t focus on getting your fetish off. Focus on using your instincts; don’t ignore the red flags, take precautions and its safety over everything. 2. Keep your risk to a minimum. We get one life. We got to stay out of harm’s way as much as possible. That’s doing everything protected and no kissing on the lips. We got to hide our true identity, and deal with quality providers. 3. The john rule don’t use your real number. Get multiply app numbers and create an alias not related to your real email for solely contacting escorts. Don’t give up too much info about yourself especially without meeting a provider in person. 4. Don’t book a provider that’s over your budget. My budget is 300 roses for hr tops. We all have a budget. Don’t go over budget for a provider under no circumstance. Don’t let them overpriced providers fool you into believing their services are worth that much it’s not. 5. Choose your providers wisely- Research providers you’re interested in by googling the number. You should look for the ad to be on multiple sites. Use reputable sites. You’re also looking for reviews, visibility via social media and only fans. What the ad say and do her pics look real.
  • 6. Never ever pay upfront or send a deposit via an app or with a gift card. You’ll probably be scammed. I don’t do outcalls or deal with agencies so it’s not a reason for me to. 7. Don’t carry anything of value on you while meeting a escort. That’s means no jewelry, don’t carry large sums of cash, cc cards and debit cards. 8. Don’t sleep with escorts when you first meet them in person. It’s because I got to see how attractive they’re in person to me, how we vibe, what’s her energy like, and if it’s safe to deal with this provider. 9. Don’t get drunk and high with a provider or be under the influence while booking a escort. You’ll do stupid stuff like count 10k out in front of a provider and make poor decisions. It’s a higher chance they’ll try to scam you. I heard stories of providers putting something in your drink and rob you when you pass out. 10. Don’t deal with escorts that got pimps once you find out. The girls with pimps all hide it. It’s an increase chance of you getting robbed or scammed during your meet ups. Some hobbyists will deal with a girl with a pimp as long as the pimp doesn’t bother them during the meet up. Some hobbyists won’t come nowhere near a girl with a pimp once they find out. 11. Don’t partake in any violence or carry a weapon. It’s not worth it over a dispute for money or service. 12. Always be a gentleman and respectful with the provider.

  • I didn’t get into too much detail on how I came up with my rules because it would be too long. I could write an essay on each rule. It would be very interesting on what providers and my fellow hobbyist/tricks/johns think of my rules. Let me know your opinion and let’s have a great discussion.
So you meet every provider first and then schedule a session? And do the providers charge you for that. I'm pretty sure these girls aren't just going to meet you so you can check them out and then hope you schedule time with them later.
 

Moosegreely973

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Yes I don't sleep with providers when I first meet them in person. Let me clarify rule number 8. When I decide to meet a provider in person. I ask for a massage or strip tease. Most providers chose to do a massage. I met 3 or 4 strippers that I had dance for me privately. That session is a QV which lasts about 15 mins. I text the provider saying I got to see how attractive you are in person to me. We all know most providers don't use their real pics or recent pics. I met a couple of providers that look the same in the face but in person are 50 to 70 lbs heavier than in the pic. To some guys that's a red flag. I also got to see how we vibe in person. I got to see if we hit it off in person and can we have a great conversation. While having a convo I'll find out what is your inner thoughts, feelings, and content of her character. That's what a person's energy is. On the safety level. What do my instincts say do I feel safe or not. They say follow your instincts in life. Is her incall location safe. Most meet ups are in hotels. I'm trying to see if the hotel is decent and if it's a hotspot or not. If it's a private residence it got to be in a good neighborhood. A private residence is way more safer than hotels. People use hotels for all kinds of stuff. I'm trying to find out if she's independent or do she got a pimp. The girls with pimps all hid it because it's bad for business for various reasons. I've done a dinner date before and will do more in the future. I got to feel 100% comfortable with the provider before we do anything else. I will figure all those things in 15 mins of being with the provider. I hope that clarifies rule number 8 for y'all. If I come back a second time than I'm a regular. If I'm not interested than they'll never see me again.
 

Wayne1250

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All of the other intimate things we do with these girls, kissing only makes it more intimate. That second rule of the OP''s I would have to break.

The other part of of rule two will have to be broken for certain activities and providers too. This hobby is all about the level of risk you are going to roll the dice for. For the most part these girls pretty safe and monitor themselves, at least the higher end gfe girls do.

There are a lot of ads that I see for cheap services where based on the pictures I would not see them for anything. Especially the ones offering quick half hour session, lower volume providers are more appealing to me.

Anyway we all have our individual rules that works for us,
 

Moosegreely973

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All of the other intimate things we do with these girls, kissing only makes it more intimate. That second rule of the OP''s I would have to break.

The other part of of rule two will have to be broken for certain activities and providers too. This hobby is all about the level of risk you are going to roll the dice for. For the most part these girls pretty safe and monitor themselves, at least the higher end gfe girls do.

There are a lot of ads that I see for cheap services where based on the pictures I would not see them for anything. Especially the ones offering quick half hour session, lower volume providers are more appealing to me.

Anyway we all have our individual rules that works for us,
I like your perspective. My rules ae based on keeping my risk to a minimum. You feel me?
 

Kevinj5225

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It’s a good list. The important take-away is to have your own set of rules. I think OP was just providing his as an example and we might disagree on some but it’s good that he’s playing it safe. I think it’s most important to just trust your gut. If a situation feels off, just get out.
I always try to remind myself that this is very illegal. These girls could be involved with dangerous people or could be dangerous themselves. (Especially, the cheaper they are.) Basically, have a good time, but remember the risk.
 

Moosegreely973

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You hit the nail right on it's head with your response! That's exactly what I meant. We all got things we will do and won't do with our hobbying! Some hobbyists fail to realize how dangerous this pay to play can be. When I hear stories from providers I met in person it blows my mind how some Johns moves. It's a difference between a hobbyists that is caution and one that is reckless. Going forward I might add another rule. This is food for thought for my fellow hobbyists about your do's and don'ts with a escort. Kevinj you made the best response so far my guy!
 
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