The Highs and Lows of Dating a Provider

[Bodyrubdanny]

Ok, we’ve all been guilty of this, we know not to do it but we do it anyway. My experience is that it’s so good in the beginning, spending nights and days together on their breaks. The love and miss you chats on WeChat, how much joy they get in cooking for you. They also love talking about buying a house together and getting married ( don’t encourage this omi ). I think everyone has to have a story to tell, good or bad. Cheers fellow Mongers.

 

[Xpress80]

Ok, we’ve all been guilty of this, we know not to do it but we do it anyway. My experience is that it’s so good in the beginning, spending nights and days together on their breaks. The love and miss you chats on WeChat, how much joy they get in cooking for you. They also love talking about buying a house together and getting married ( don’t encourage this omi ). I think everyone has to have a story to tell, good or bad. Cheers fellow Mongers.

There is a thread on this topic already. In short, I do believe many providers want to get out of this lifestyle and find the right man and have a normal life. Some, however, are addicted to the money and lifestyle it offers. That second group is full of challenges as they are masters of manipulation. If you begin to feel an attachment, you are going down a rabbit hole. The intimacy is great, but they will likely never leave that work for you. Her phone will constantly be blowing up by other mongers. If you are cool with that, then you should be fine. If you expect them to reduce their work or even leave, it likely is not going to happen. So when your date is over, just know that she is off to the next 20-30 guys that week. We all want to feel special and unique, but we are just a number and source of income at the end of the day.

 

[Retired061423-6]

Ok, we’ve all been guilty of this, we know not to do it but we do it anyway. My experience is that it’s so good in the beginning, spending nights and days together on their breaks. The love and miss you chats on WeChat, how much joy they get in cooking for you. They also love talking about buying a house together and getting married ( don’t encourage this omi ). I think everyone has to have a story to tell, good or bad. Cheers fellow Mongers.

So you are okay with her banging out other dudes for money while you are dating?

 

[Retired061423-6]

There is a thread on this topic already. In short, I do believe many providers want to get out of this lifestyle and find the right man and have a normal life. Some, however, are addicted to the money and lifestyle it offers. That second group is full of challenges as they are masters of manipulation. If you begin to feel an attachment, you are going down a rabbit hole. The intimacy is great, but they will likely never leave that work for you. Her phone will constantly be blowing up by other mongers. If you are cool with that, then you should be fine. If you expect them to reduce their work or even leave, it likely is not going to happen. So when your date is over, just know that she is off to the next 20-30 guys that week. We all want to feel special and unique, but we are just a number and source of income at the end of the day.

100% agreed.

 

[Bodyrubdanny]

So you are okay with her banging out other dudes for money while you are dating?

You definitely need a different mind set if you attempt to date a provider. The shoe goes on the other foot though when she invites a couple of girlfriends to surprise you. When the dark thoughts come into your mind you have to brush it away. I don’t think anyone ever sets out to get into a serious relationship with a provider, it just happens. Again I’m only taking for myself

 

[Moetwet]

So you are okay with her banging out other dudes for money while you are dating?

If by “dating” you mean hooking up in hotels and outside of the place of the deed, then yes 100%.

I’ve definitely gotten offers and invites but when she gets too attached is when I usually cut her off…until. Lol

 

[이 회장님]

I’ve met many amp women during their days off from work. I’m very open and honest with them—We will have a lot of fun but there will be no emotions involved. This avoids any confusion or misunderstanding. Most of them cannot accept this. lol.

 

[ljman397]

I've been at this for several years now and this has never happened to me. Not even close. I do not understand why.

 

[NYguy70]

Wait a minute: “we’ve all been guilty of this”? No we haven’t! I would venture to say that an amazingly low percentage of mongers have gotten into romantic relationships with providers.

 

[ljman397]

Wait a minute: “we’ve all been guilty of this”? No we haven’t! I would venture to say that an amazingly low percentage of mongers have gotten into romantic relationships with providers.

I don't even know how that would happen. You'd think it would happen by now to me, but no. And by romantic are we talking dating? Because in my mind, it is the action without a rate on a regular basis. I wouldn't date a provider. Once a ..., always a .... and a .... isn't dating material.