OK. I'll offer up my experiences as an example of what not to do.
#1 was a very cute 20 y/o from Brooklyn who worked a well known incall shop in Manhattan. She was also a shameless druggie who would lie like no tomorrow. Thus the demise. This was in the late 90s. She was white American from very poor family background. No father. Mother a druggie. Raised by grandmother who looked like Lou Duva and cursed like a sailor from the 40s.
#2 was also a terrible liar ever. One of the worst I have ever met. She worked another well known incall in Manhattan. She was no idiot, and eventually completed nursing school. She was also somewhat insane and hell bent on getting married. She was very good at getting me to feel sorry for her. Crying was her weapon. She was an expert with it. She was Dominican American. Pretty. Like a cross between Jessica Alba and Zoey Saldana. Better upbringing than #1, but still f-ed up. Father taught her to be a parasite. She learned well. This was in 2004 to 05.
#3 was probably the best person of this group. Genuinely felt guilty about asking me for money and I believe it. Was a Mama-san! Started on the floor at a well known 2 rose AMP back in 06. Then started her own AMP. But she was too old (33 when I was 40 -- originally told me she was 26) and not pretty enough (a 6). She also REFUSED to get out of the business even when she was losing money. Kept hanging on to the belief that she would eventually make it. Like a gambler at the race track. She was Korean, but for about a year kept telling me she was Japanese, even though I knew she was Korean. Haven't seen her since '09, although I know from other girls she was still around in 2014/15.
#4 was the by far most damaging. Korean. Worked very upscale AMP for only 3 months. Stayed with me for a week after her 3 month tour was up and had a great NY metro area stay-cation together. Flew to Korea to see her 4 months later in summer 2011 for a fantastic vacation. Was all downhill after that. Went back to Korea 3 times. Did moronic things in the idiotic hope that this was a real "relationship". It wasn't. Another expert at making me feel sorry for her. Took me a long time to come to my senses and see things for what they really were.
And then I finally learned my lesson.
One consolation is that I cheated on all of them.
Pretty much constantly.
Another is that I never even considered marrying any of them.
Although 2 (especially 2), 3 and 4 all wanted that at one point. Thank God I had the sense to avoid it.
Guys, don't do it.
Just don't.
There are worse things than being lonely.
Much, much worse things.
In the end, I am fine. Still doing what I want and have all I need. I cannot say the same for them.
