Jeesh that was 3 weeks ago. How can I remember what I meant?
I think I meant - clearly letting her know you go to a spa every week (at least) and you’re checking her and this place out as an option. I mean not asking a million service questions of her, like do I keep my underwear on, or should I cover up with a towel, do I pay you now or later, etc. just make decisions and do things. She’ll adjust if she’s uncomfortable. If there is a massage, I try to get something out of it by pointing out where my body aches.
I do ask some questions, like how many girls work normally, what her normal days off are, and does she live in flushing.
I think in most of these HJ+ locations, they make their mind up what the menu is going to be way way before the flip, based on your behavior and your likelihood as a repeat customer. Like I said I initiate contact as soon as possible, and steadily progress it, unless she says no. Frequently also a girl will stop and try to negotiate a rate on what I’d call an intermediate step. Like removing her clothes and continuing the massage naked. I just always say, yes, I want you naked, I will take good care of you, but let’s hold off talking about rates til later. Then you step through from there, not asking, but politely saying what you want. I don’t keep asking if she says no, but I do make it obvious when I count out the tip that she left money on the table and I know the rates for everything.