I work away from the city I live in. I go months without seeing my wife, so this is how I justify it. But I also look at it this way: So many men have affairs, and break up their marriage, and sometimes that of their married partner. Kid are hurt, homes are lost, etc. I don't get people who have an affair with work partners, a neighbor, or their wife's relative (it happens). It will never end well. If you have an urge to "cheat", this is the way to do it. Hopefully no one finds out, and no one is harmed. None of these girls are going to fall in love with us, and show up at our door, or call our wives. So really, you are saving your marriage, not destroying it. lol...how's that for justification ha