Significant others and the hobby

[Etyyyyyy]

Just wonder how ppl with SOs deal with keeping their monger info on the downlow. And if there is any guilt etc?

For me, I try to monger when I’m at work during lunch, never Incall. Keeping my texts separate in a texting app. Also keep baby wipes to clean up and try to hit the gym on those days after work so it’s not suspicious when I take a shower.

Obviously having my cake and eating it too is a ticking time bomb but I can’t help it. I love me some ass.

 

[Etyyyyyy]

Forgot to mention I keep a condom on for everything so no bbbj for me. I’m a piece of shit but I have some respect

 

[이 회장님]

I don’t know how all of you married men can pull this off. Props to all of you.

All of my golf buddies are married so when we all meet up and play golf, that’s when they are able to monger.

 

[fatboymong]

Yeah it’s tough to do especially when you love them. Like my gf says it’s okay but the guilt still eats at me.

I’m always running around everywhere for my work so I can always just explain it as business.

 

[Etyyyyyy]

Same. Usually right after I have this tremendous guilt.

But then I see an ad for a big ass Colombiana and I’m off to the races

 

[achillespunts]

I don't feel guilty - no one's getting hurt and fidelity apparently isn't programmed into my genes, but I worry about fucking up a good thing.

 

[charliebrown]

I don't feel guilty - no one's getting hurt and fidelity apparently isn't programmed into my genes, but I worry about fucking up a good thing.

Society (women in particular) are programmed to believe in a strictly monogamous relationship. They can accept masturbation with little to problem at all, but use another woman and it is the end of the world.

As for feeling guilt about the hobby, hum, I have a wife who was an amazing partner in and out of bed. When menopause hit, her desire for sex died and her desire to satisfy me died. It was a very difficult time in our marriage because of my frustration. How many times did I have to jerk off before I finally broke? I can not remember but their absolutely was a number for me. Yes, I hobby and keep it a secret so my wife does not get upset emotionally or financially but I continue to do it without much guilt and there is no longer any pressure in our marriage.

Good luck guys, if you are young, I absolutely recommend you find free ass as much as possible and invest wisely. When you are a rich old man, if you have the urge, you will have the means to walk into a shop and be with a beautiful YOUNG 40 something year old woman to enjoy your

 

[Camaro13]

I don't feel guilty - no one's getting hurt and fidelity apparently isn't programmed into my genes, but I worry about fucking up a good thing.

honesty

 

[Retired031424]

I don't feel guilty - no one's getting hurt and fidelity apparently isn't programmed into my genes, but I worry about fucking up a good thing.

That's the whole damn story

 

[HenryD]

I hit and run. Out at a client lunch, I’ll bang one out after. Travelling-I’ll research ahead of time and enjoy myself. In Chinatown shopping/DimSum I’ll sneak one in.

 

[trexcarrot]

Good luck guys, if you are young, I absolutely recommend you find free ass as much as possible and invest wisely. When you are a rich old man, if you have the urge, you will have the means to walk into a shop and be with a beautiful YOUNG 40 something year old woman to enjoy your

I'm probably relatively young compared to some of the guys here and this has been a constant battle for me.. I've been pretty good at spacing my visits out and living within my means, but it crosses my mind here and there certainly.

 

[themandalorian99]

Society (women in particular) are programmed to believe in a strictly monogamous relationship. They can accept masturbation with little to problem at all, but use another woman and it is the end of the world.

As for feeling guilt about the hobby, hum, I have a wife who was an amazing partner in and out of bed. When menopause hit, her desire for sex died and her desire to satisfy me died. It was a very difficult time in our marriage because of my frustration. How many times did I have to jerk off before I finally broke? I can not remember but their absolutely was a number for me. Yes, I hobby and keep it a secret so my wife does not get upset emotionally or financially but I continue to do it without much guilt and there is no longer any pressure in our marriage.

Good luck guys, if you are young, I absolutely recommend you find free ass as much as possible and invest wisely. When you are a rich old man, if you have the urge, you will have the means to walk into a shop and be with a beautiful YOUNG 40 something year old woman to enjoy your

This is the post I relate to most. After middle age, sex may not be a very important subject to the woman, but the age of sexual “burn out” for men differs greatly. I think it might be genetic, or simply because I try to work out regularly and eat well that my sex drive pretty much remains as powerful as it was 20 years ago. But the resentment and frustration that comes from a sexless (or sex starved marriage) is hard to describe (both physically and emotionally). I think I have reconciled my new idea of monogamy with the one society has written for all of us. I love my partner, but I also don’t think there is anything much happening when you die, and I cannot bear the idea I am going to be a limping old man in a few years without enjoying the warmth of different women (safely) as much as possible.

 

[kravenkosmo]

I’m probably with the woman I’m gonna marry now. As soon as she’s done with school she’s moving in. it’s sucks that I’m cheating but I’m mid 30s now and don’t like the idea of never fucking a different girl again. Honestly was planning on meeting a 20yr old and getting hitched when I hit 50 but it ended up happening 15 yrs earlier than I wanted. I’ll probably stop when we decide to have kids in 5 or so years but I’m gonna have my fun now.

 

[Halford]

I used to. Feel guilty but no more . Only problem now I hate to admit is that I actually did fall for a particular provider pretty hard . And it sucks if that happens and you’re married 20+ yrs . I just started a fight with mY wife for no reason . I think I want heR TO KICK Me out . or do I ? I wish I knew. Is there a psychologist in the house ?

 

[Etyyyyyy]

I'm probably relatively young compared to some of the guys here and this has been a constant battle for me.. I've been pretty good at spacing my visits out and living within my means, but it crosses my mind here and there certainly.

Im relatively young as well, almost 30. I tried the free ass but it ended bad with my significant other almost finding out. Think I like about providers is I’m in and out no other contact but the time spent. Don’t have to worry about calling or texting so it’s safer i think.

Although I do dabble in the occasional fling but then (in my experiences) the other person gets too attached

 

[T8t8t]

Im relatively young as well, almost 30. I tried the free ass but it ended bad with my significant other almost finding out. Think I like about providers is I’m in and out no other contact but the time spent. Don’t have to worry about calling or texting so it’s safer i think.

Although I do dabble in the occasional fling but then (in my experiences) the other person gets too attached

I think mongering is much better than going after the free ass in the side. You don’t bring any feeling home after the fun. The free ass will eventually want more and more of you

 

[Good104]

There is NOTHING for men in marriage. Stay single. Without fear and guilt. Be safe and ALWAYS use protection.

 

[bronzeharbor]

Seems like I'm not as sex starved as you guys lol
I'll take jerking off + a box of cheezits over bad sex any day

 

[aceservice]

I have a great sex life with my wife. I just love women and sex. I don’t feel guilty anymore.
I also have a job where I travel all day so I can fit it in anytime.
I also take breaks and budget it my SB too. I’m not obsessed but when I get the urge it’s go time with one of me regulars.
And it’s not cheating

 

[mducati]

I used to. Feel guilty but no more . Only problem now I hate to admit is that I actually did fall for a particular provider pretty hard . And it sucks if that happens and you’re married 20+ yrs . I just started a fight with mY wife for no reason . I think I want heR TO KICK Me out . or do I ? I wish I knew. Is there a psychologist in the house ?

If your relationship has run its course it might be time to move on, especially if you don't have kids to grow. I speak from experience, I waited for too long.

We are not designed for sexually monogamous relationships. And even lifetime companionship is a stretch, otherwise we wouldn't have more than 50% divorce rate in this country. What has forced us into this nonsense is economic needs, not science. Divorces will increase further as women become financially more independent. It can be hard to think about children growing with non-biological parents, but you just have to look at the trends to see what is going on.