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Should I give my seeking arrangement a Valentine’s Day gift

Agentcarribean0

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Well to start it off I only have two right now one has been flaky but, the other one is consistent and invited me to her house multiple times it’s kind of weird smashing while her mother is in the next room so that caught me off guard but that’s a story for another day felt like I was in high school again but I’m going off on a tangent. She gave me a free session since we were in her parents crib I just wanted to reciprocate.

I wouldn’t say I’m catching feelings just wanted to show appreciation. I would date her but I have no plans to try to our put in the work since she is a little messy but she is kind and freaky. I wanted to ask is this simping buying your sugar baby a Valentine’s Day gift.
 

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1. Literally lol'd about smashing with mom next door.

2. This probably won't help much and as a disclaimer I don't use SA, but simping is a made up concept. You are a man, it's your money, you do whatever the F you want with it. You want to give a gift then do it. I couldn't give 2 shits about what another dude thinks about how I spend my money. Even if my old man or bro said something, I'd tell them to mind their business and keep it moving.
 

Agentcarribean0

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1. Literally lol'd about smashing with mom next door.

2. This probably won't help much and as a disclaimer I don't use SA, but simping is a made up concept. You are a man, it's your money, you do whatever the F you want with it. You want to give a gift then do it. I couldn't give 2 shits about what another dude thinks about how I spend my money. Even if my old man or bro said something, I'd tell them to mind their business and keep it moving.
I mean I’m still a young buck in my late 20s but I remember from my previous experiences with women who are civilians and some who are providers if I show I like them to much buying them flowers and chocolate and shit they usually get cold but when I’m stoic and just don’t care they are always available. I know simping is a made up concept but I just don’t want to show a women too much kindness cause I know the result.
 

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That’s utterly stupid. The difference? Don't buy her something because you want to win her favor. Buy her something because you want to - it’s something you enjoy. If that’s not the reason then don’t do it.

The only difference is SA girls sometimes are more expectant. So if you think that’s the situation here then act appropriately.
 

LengZai

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Too much kindness - also not a thing. You are either kind or you are not.

Back on topic - a small V Day gift is not likely to move the needle. What you consider small is based on your spending habits with her. For example, if your usual evening is hitting IHOP and then smashing then flowers would be fine. On the other hand if you take her on vacations then maybe something bigger is more appropriate.

Either way it's Valentines day and gifts are par for the course. Hell I even give the woman concierge in my building some chocolates on V Day and it means absolutely nothing.
 

Agentcarribean0

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That’s utterly stupid. The difference? Don't buy her something because you want to win her favor. Buy her something because you want to - it’s something you enjoy. If that’s not the reason then don’t do it.

The only difference is SA girls sometimes are more expectant. So if you think that’s the situation here then act appropriately.
Most of my seeking arrangements don’t expect anything but dick and money when I see them that’s why I wanted to treat her with like a 40$ flowers and chocolate combo she gave me some free pussy so I thought I would reciprocate it ain’t like I’m buying her a berkin. Lol I don’t need to win her favor bro if you read my post I told you she always is available and invited me over her house and I’m not trying to bag her just a kind favor after an excellent multiple sessions with her.
 

Agentcarribean0

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Too much kindness - also not a thing. You are either kind or you are not.

Back on topic - a small V Day gift is not likely to move the needle. What you consider small is based on your spending habits with her. For example, if your usual evening is hitting IHOP and then smashing then flowers would be fine. On the other hand if you take her on vacations then maybe something bigger is more appropriate.

Either way it's Valentines day and gifts are par for the course. Hell I even give the woman concierge in my building some chocolates on V Day and it means absolutely nothing.
I’m going to keep it a bean with you bro I talk to women from all walks of life they say that nice guy shit is a turn off don’t kill the messenger that’s just what women say bro in their 20s.

Yeah I usually just take her to a sushi restaurant we don’t go to NOBU but the way you put its not that serious do get a gift that makes sense just a stupid holiday anyways for corporations to get money it’s not that serious.

Thinking about taking this new Korean shawty I seen on seeking on a vacation to the carribean but that’s a topic for the another day but I understand what your saying can’t give a girl flowers on Valentine’s Day if your taking her to bora bora.
 

Agentcarribean0

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that’s what I’m saying. Your previous experiences were probably trying to win favor with gifts. If it’s just being nice and feeling good, just go for it. Girls can tell.
Nah I remember this girl I used to dog out, lol I was in my early 20s I just treated her like a nut don’t think you should treat women like that, but it’s interesting how she used to act like a slut for me and the nigga who paid for the roof over her head clothed her and fed her got no pussy and this women was a complete civilian to no seeking no escorting. I just take in account multiple women’s opinions from different walks of life and it’s interesting how they say the same thing.

Unless she does something unusual or going serious I never buy women gifts
 

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I’m going to keep it a bean with you bro I talk to women from all walks of life they say that nice guy shit is a turn off don’t kill the messenger that’s just what women say bro in their 20s.

Yeah I usually just take her to a sushi restaurant we don’t go to NOBU but the way you put its not that serious do get a gift that makes sense just a stupid holiday anyways for corporations to get money it’s not that serious.

Thinking about taking this new Korean shawty I seen on seeking on a vacation to the carribean but that’s a topic for the another day but I understand what your saying can’t give a girl flowers on Valentine’s Day if your taking her to bora bora.
I hear you bro. That nice guy shit that's considered a turn off is when guys overstep boundaries trying to help in every way possible. They want to be treated like adults not kids. Bottom line is you have your priorities and you deal with them first, which it seems that you already know. A Valentine's gift ain't changing that.

Good luck with your vacation plan. I recommend Turks & Caicos or the Bahamas (if she's a typical Korean golfer).
 

Agentcarribean0

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I hear you bro. That nice guy shit that's considered a turn off is when guys overstep boundaries trying to help in every way possible. They want to be treated like adults not kids. Bottom line is you have your priorities and you deal with them first, which it seems that you already know. A Valentine's gift ain't changing that.

Good luck with your vacation plan. I recommend Turks & Caicos or the Bahamas (if she's a typical Korean golfer).
That’s a fact women want to be treated like adults being overly nice seems like your treating her like a kid that makes sense; sometimes my seeking arrangements ask me for help with an Uber or groceries I usually curve it. Not giving money to a women who is not my girl or wife. Unless we’re meeting up in the bedroom obviously

I appreciate that bro hopefully she’s down; I definitely always wanted to do that with a women who isn’t that demanding take her out the country and have company while I’m out there. Last girl I asked she was down hopefully history repeats itself.
 

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Well to start it off I only have two right now one has been flaky but, the other one is consistent and invited me to her house multiple times it’s kind of weird smashing while her mother is in the next room so that caught me off guard but that’s a story for another day felt like I was in high school again but I’m going off on a tangent. She gave me a free session since we were in her parents crib I just wanted to reciprocate.

I wouldn’t say I’m catching feelings just wanted to show appreciation. I would date her but I have no plans to try to our put in the work since she is a little messy but she is kind and freaky. I wanted to ask is this simping buying your sugar baby a Valentine’s Day gift.
Buy her a box of chocolates or a bottle of wine and give her extra cash or a gift card. They want cash. I’ve been on SA for 5 years (with a year off). Or get something on their wish list if you don’t want to give cash.
 

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Buy her a box of chocolates or a bottle of wine and give her extra cash or a gift card. They want cash. I’ve been on SA for 5 years (with a year off). Or get something on their wish list if you don’t want to give cash.
I see lol; she got a new fish tank I might just buy her fish food never thought I would say that sentence didn’t even know Asian women kept fish but let me digress. I’m thinking of fish food and a box of chocolates since she’s a struggling college student and got fish for her birthday. Thanks for the advice I’m thinking to much into it; nothing to expensive get what she needs head out.
 

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If she keeps giving you more freebies and wants to spend more non-sexual time with you especially out in public, she may want you as a steady. Gift is cool as long as it's something small and nothing expensive, as you mentioned. Do everything for the fun of it, even if you do find yourself simping a little. Nothing good lasts, so I'd put my chips on a crazy life rather that just a good one.
 

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I just feel like you have to read the room/woman. In my experience, they're not all the same. Some like the bad boy. Some want to think they can change a man. Others want to be left alone. I don't think you can have one overarching mode of engagement with females. Aren't us dudes all different too?

And why would you be worried that giving a gift is simping? Being nice in general isn't simp-like behavior. Being an asshole to a girl because you think girls don't like nice guys is being a simp. (So is thinking that a whore likes you or that she actually enjoys having sex with you, but that's for a different discussion.)

I really don't get why guys are thinking that being nice is a form of weakness. Yes, being overly nice or overly anything is going to be too much. But so is being distant or cold. I mean, if you enjoy the company of girls who prefer dudes that are assholes, what kind of girl do you think she's going to be?

Also, this is why I haven't ventured into the SB world. I really don't want all these pseudo-relationships. I prefer getting in, getting in and out and then getting out. But that's just a personal preference.
 

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Well to start it off I only have two right now one has been flaky but, the other one is consistent and invited me to her house multiple times it’s kind of weird smashing while her mother is in the next room so that caught me off guard but that’s a story for another day felt like I was in high school again but I’m going off on a tangent. She gave me a free session since we were in her parents crib I just wanted to reciprocate.

I wouldn’t say I’m catching feelings just wanted to show appreciation. I would date her but I have no plans to try to our put in the work since she is a little messy but she is kind and freaky. I wanted to ask is this simping buying your sugar baby a Valentine’s Day gift.
No you are bugging tf out. I dont give em anything for birthdays either. And my main Sb gave me 3 free sessions and she sleeps over and she is $250 evertime i see her.
 

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Two of my SBs have had bdays pass since we've been seeing each other. I wished one a happy bday, and we split some pastries next I saw her, banging to our hearts content. The other I simply wished her a happy bday and we fucked more than we ever have next hang. No need to overthink shit, acknowledgment itself tends to be enough ;)
 
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