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SEEKING ARRANGEMENT--Share intel and reviews

TheRiceGuy

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I'm really not kidding. They seem way more open to the idea. Mine was from UPENN and came from a wealth family. She just wanted fun money? Odd but okay by me.
I didn’t say you were joking, I was genuine when saying good to know. To be honest I’ve seen mostly temple girls on there I haven’t even run into a single one from UPenn or Drexel
 

findinit

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I tried SA a month or two ago with relatively poor results. Definitely wasn't for me. My general thoughts:

- A lot of work. I had to text numerous prospects, most would disappear. Others would want an unreasonable amount of money just to go to dinner (which I assume meant more but I wasn't willing to pay $300+ to find out).
- My first and only encounter ended up being a crackhead. We had texted for a week and even chatted briefly on the phone a few times. She looked great in pics but when I saw her, it was obvious they were from years ago. I was supposed to meet her at her townhouse and then go to a bar down the street and then back to her place. Her townhouse ended up being an abandoned house. I probably shouldnt have even gone in but I figured I'd give her the benefit of the doubt. Her teeth were broken, she looked high and I ended up excusing myself 2 minutes in. Her username was PurrttyGurl but I just checked and it looks like she deactivated.
-The other girl I almost met was a spanish chick who accidentally sent me her snapchat when she screen captured a pic from her snap and she ended up being extremely ghetto was snapping pictures with guns and talking about robbing people.
- In the end I figured it's just easier to go to spas where you have a reasonable sense of what to expect and what to pay. The whole SA game was a cat and mouse game with no idea what you're going to get.
- If you have the time and want to text with a few ladies and see where you get it, it might be worth it but I don't think it's worth the frustration.
I haven't sugared, but I've done online dating, as have most people these days. Non-sugar online dating is a shit show. Flaky wack-jobs, muffin-baking hotties, and everything in between. It sounds like SA is online dating, with the option to use $$$ to offset the transactional convenience and absence of intimacy. As the saying goes, you pay them to leave, not to come.

For those who have had success on SA - do you pull hotter women than you would pull otherwise, or is it more or less the same quality girls, just with $?
 

Niceguy0388

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After reading this thread ive decided to not follow through with SA.. seems like alot of time and money just for a mayb... its like trying to score at the strip club... sure there are girls that will put out but alot of money spent just to find out.. ill stick to indies/aamp for sure things.. thanks for the info and stories!
 

TheRiceGuy

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After reading this thread ive decided to not follow through with SA.. seems like alot of time and money just for a mayb... its like trying to score at the strip club... sure there are girls that will put out but alot of money spent just to find out.. ill stick to indies/aamp for sure things.. thanks for the info and stories!
Many people here have a lot of experience mongering so I could see less of a need. I feel like SA works well for those who don’t know the amp world. As for me, I keep my expectations realistic and don’t not succumb to those greedy gold diggers. I have a few potential lined up that could be promising and a lower cost that a premium amp such as epm or cp.
as for the questions about hotties, they exist and are willing, just at an insanely high price. I feel like those who aren’t, are just new or naive. Sure plenty of guys said they bagged an insanely young hot chick, good for them
 

xpxcx

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It's way better odds and cheaper than getting lucky at a strip club. I've found some hotties and some inline with what I'd usually get. It's probably a bit more expensive than amps but you get twice the time or more with the girl usually.
 

kantuchdis

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I'm really not kidding. They seem way more open to the idea. Mine was from UPENN and came from a wealth family. She just wanted fun money? Odd but okay by me.
Some time ago I met a 21 yo stripper with a perfect body, nice face. She was attending Haverford College, the ultra Main Line private school and was the daughter of a west coast surgeon. She said she stripped for fun money she did not want her father to know about for weed, coke and beer.

I think a smart young girl with little common sense would find getting boinked by a respectful older guy who treats her like a princess for 200/hr is way easier than dancing and getting groped for 6 hours by drunks and creepers?
 

TheRiceGuy

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Some time ago I met a 21 yo stripper with a perfect body, nice face. She was attending Haverford College, the ultra Main Line private school and was the daughter of a west coast surgeon. She said she stripped for fun money she did not want her father to know about for weed, coke and beer.

I think a smart young girl with little common sense would find getting boinked by a respectful older guy who treats her like a princess for 200/hr is way easier than dancing and getting groped for 6 hours by drunks and creepers?
That’s my stomping ground, is she still around ? :D
 

glhfddka

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Had some success with this about a year back. It takes a LOT more work than meeting a pro. A lot of flakes, a lot of people not seriously looking to take the plunge, a lot of people with unrealistic expectations. It could takes months of weeding through options to find one or two solid SBs (of course that depends on how demanding your criteria is though). Even when you think you've made it work, sometimes you can run into SBs that, after a few meetings, you realize are annoying, or have bad attitudes, or such. I had one I saw a few times at hotels and thought was cool, but then tried to break into my locked watch collection while I was taking a quick piss the first time I invited her to my place.

However, the few times you find someone and it works, it can be really amazing. You can potentially spend a lot less money for someone a lot more attractive and younger than most providers, for a regular recurring arrangement. It can be a lot more relaxed and fun, no clock watching, more casual, etc. If you guys really click, over the course of several meetups, you can really get to know each other and have some very "exciting" times together.

So if the chance of having that sort of arrangement outweighs all the work you have to do to get there, it might be worth it for you.
 

Jackson1503

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Had some success with this about a year back. It takes a LOT more work than meeting a pro. A lot of flakes, a lot of people not seriously looking to take the plunge, a lot of people with unrealistic expectations. It could takes months of weeding through options to find one or two solid SBs (of course that depends on how demanding your criteria is though). Even when you think you've made it work, sometimes you can run into SBs that, after a few meetings, you realize are annoying, or have bad attitudes, or such. I had one I saw a few times at hotels and thought was cool, but then tried to break into my locked watch collection while I was taking a quick piss the first time I invited her to my place.

However, the few times you find someone and it works, it can be really amazing. You can potentially spend a lot less money for someone a lot more attractive and younger than most providers, for a regular recurring arrangement. It can be a lot more relaxed and fun, no clock watching, more casual, etc. If you guys really click, over the course of several meetups, you can really get to know each other and have some very "exciting" times together.

So if the chance of having that sort of arrangement outweighs all the work you have to do to get there, it might be worth it for you.
Agree
 

wil1985

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Share some tips in getting from the get to know them to the meet up stage. How do you guys bring up intimacy on the first date?

Also when do you guys give her the donation? Upfront or at the end of the night for ppm?
 

kantuchdis

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I would imagine a woman who signs up for SA is expecting to discuss the "Arrangement" sooner than later since that's the reason she is meeting you.
 

glhfddka

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You'd be wrong there for a lot of women on SA. A lot of them are very skittish about the idea of money for "arrangements". A lot of them want to think of themselves as regular women dating for a little extra money, rather than sex workers (whatever the mental gymnastics are to make that distinction). So sometimes you gotta ease them along before bringing up the arrangements or else they might feel uneasy and ghost you.

Others are almost pro-like, in which case they really do prefer you bring up the arrangement earlier than later (via text, you can get in trouble discussing arrangements on the site directly).

You can usually tell who is who based on their profile and within a few messages talking with them. The first type requires a lot more work, but the payoff can be much higher.
 

kantuchdis

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Well, you may be right, I may be crazy. But I still believe a woman, who signs up for a membership to a service called Seeking Arrangement is literally, seeking an arrangement.
 

Rocketman813x

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You'd be wrong there for a lot of women on SA. A lot of them are very skittish about the idea of money for "arrangements". A lot of them want to think of themselves as regular women dating for a little extra money, rather than sex workers (whatever the mental gymnastics are to make that distinction). So sometimes you gotta ease them along before bringing up the arrangements or else they might feel uneasy and ghost you.

Others are almost pro-like, in which case they really do prefer you bring up the arrangement earlier than later (via text, you can get in trouble discussing arrangements on the site directly).

You can usually tell who is who based on their profile and within a few messages talking with them. The first type requires a lot more work, but the payoff can be much higher.
This... right here... is absolutely 100% correct.

It can take months, or even years (depending on how much time you’re willing to spend on it), but when you find that “regular” girl dating for a little extra money... the payoff is simply unreal. For the record, I’ve never actually used SA, but I recently found (after LOTS of time) someone on Tinder who is a better value than any “provider” I’ve ever been with. They’re out there... it just takes a long time to find that diamond in the rough.
 

lvwsp

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I've been seeing a girl on there since March who is pretty nice. Believe it or not, two of her friends joined us a couple months ago and we all had a great time. She's also on TNAB, but sadly she's in the business to help pay for chemo, and she told me today that the doctors don't think she's going to make it.
 
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