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[gemini901d]

I've been going to the same place for a few years. I usually find my favorite girl and then stick with her until she "retires"/moves on.
After I had ben with my new muse, say 2-3 times she no longer requested/offered any kind of "protection" at all - and I don't mean COVID. The first time or 2 I just went with it (yeah, I'm a guy)
but after the moment and I got my wits back. I have to assume that plenty of other guys are getting the same treatment. Anyone have experiences like this? thoughts? - Let me just say that she is a very popular girl on these local forums.

 

[theFapfour]

I wish. I like my sex the way Mexicans like their food in the microwave: Uncovered and splattered all over the place.

 

[East Lake II]

She only does the for you, cause you’re special. Only you. She cares about you.

 

[Ellocohombre]

Phishing?

 

[Ellocohombre]

Let me add, the subject matter of this conversation is frowned upon on this site. But as long as no providers or spa names as mentioned it may be tolerated. My suggestion would be to not cross that line though.

 

[gemini901d]

Of course I would not. I’m just asking if anyone had any similar experience or (serious) insight. It‘s actually kind of a turn off due to the (at least perceived) fear factor.

 

[gemini901d]

On the other hand, I don’t want to offend her. I’ve been mongering all over the world for 40 years but can count on one hand (ok, maybe 2) how many times I’ve done that. Is this the ”new” normal or something?

 

[Ellocohombre]

Right on !!! I would NEVER return if I had knowledge of that.

 

[Wayne1250]

On the other hand, I don’t want to offend her. I’ve been mongering all over the world for 40 years but can count on one hand (ok, maybe 2) how many times I’ve done that. Is this the ”new” normal or something?

It's not as uncommon as you think, it is one of the oldest methods known to get repeat customers to come back often. You have to make your own assessment on the risk/reward. There is never any way to determine how selective a provider is. My suggestion is that if you are not willing to play her game you should move on to someone else.

 

[East Lake II]

Wayne is right. Oldest and most tried and true methods to get repeat customers. It won’t take long for you to find out what else is her menu.

Offend her? The only way she would be offended is if you stop being a repeat client.

 

[Haddo94]

In my experience, a lot of providers are hesitant to bring up this topic as they do not want you to judge them negatively. They have a good sense of which mongers to offer this to. They know who will be repulsed, while others will be back the next day for more!

 

[Devdev]

I've been going to the same place for a few years. I usually find my favorite girl and then stick with her until she "retires"/moves on.
After I had ben with my new muse, say 2-3 times she no longer requested/offered any kind of "protection" at all - and I don't mean COVID. The first time or 2 I just went with it (yeah, I'm a guy)
but after the moment and I got my wits back. I have to assume that plenty of other guys are getting the same treatment. Anyone have experiences like this? thoughts? - Let me just say that she is a very popular girl on these local forums.

I’ve had similar experiences recently. I enjoy the cat and mouse aspect of the game, but at the same time, we’re all seeing the same providers. For me, it’s pretty obvious which providers are willing to go this “extra mile” and which ones won’t. There’s not really a middle ground. If she’s doing it for you, she’s doing it for others. For me, I have an SO that despite my hobbying I love a lot, so that fear factor stays ever present and the last few times things got hot and heavy and I went this route, I couldn’t finish because of the mental aspect. For me, it’s knowing I’m with a high mileage provider that’s doing the same for others, despite what she’s whispering in my ear.

 

[Pocono8080]

Just run some general numbers through your head (the one up top) and come up with your own risk assessment

 

[East Lake II]

They not only know who to broach the topic with but when. It’s the same with all providers in all spas. Generally speaking. Even popular so called extremely popular legit providers. Go there often enough, let her know you are seeing others, and it won’t be long before she is giving you bbbjcim in the spa with only curtains to be followed with FS. All the while, other mongers are raging about how she’s so great and wonderful but only legit. Yea right. They know there is a lot of opportunity and variety out there. I’m really not interested in getting any more from a legit provider. I like good massages and when I go to a cheap $45 house fee legit place all I want is a massage. If I want more, I go elsewhere. I just think it’s humorous how they bring up the additional services. They know additional services mean more money and additional services mean repeat customers. I’ve had legit provides be so brazen as to say, “I want to fuck, where can I go to find someone to fuck me?”