I get what you are both saying and I don't take it personally. That's 'true about the building being pretty run down.
And that's true also that there's no way I can verify what Bin told me about keeping it low volume. I guess I found it somewhat reassuring and thus passed it on. I like Bin and found her statement believable and logical ....but I suppose could be considered gullible or at least naive.
Anyways thanks, it's good to hear different perspectives on here. Next time I have a disappointing session, I'll make sure to write it up too. Not sure when that will be, sadly.