@Uncle.O I def hear what you are saying. I guess its a ymmv scenario.
Not to bump the thread but I have seen other providers that the service was no where near what the reviews stated.
IMHO this site is invaluable, and i look to many of the review contributors for their expert insight and opinion.
Like you, i consider myself well groomed and generous, Also treating the ladies with respect and kindness goes along way.
Its always worked for me.
Be safe