Forgive me if I am speaking out of place here and take what I say with a grain of salt.
Please try not to take these things too personal. Forms like this does help clients and providers. There are many predators out there, and sharing these knowledge helps us protect each other. I myself have been a victim of false advertisings and blackmail. The money that i wasted on them, I would be more than happy to spend on real providers such as yourself.
Speaking for myself, the "experience" and details are not that important. Rather, the physical appearance, locations, and mostly authenticity. Underground advertising doesn't have much fact check to them, I can't be sure if it's going to be a provider or 4 guys waiting to rob me on the other side of the door. If I read that a provider is real, I don't mind going through their screening process.
I've seen other providers that had bad reviews and people would come to their defense. I'm sorry this "locker room" talk is offensive, but the fact of the matter is, we're not her to look for girl friends and wives. So it'll come off as shallow and objectivfy. I can understand your frustrations because it's a criticize and attach on you as a person. I assure you, most people here understand and can relate to having bad days at work. Just because one person say something unpleasant, that won't stop others from connecting. We all have different preference and it'll just help sort out that right people on both side.
With that said, I do admire your passion and fearlessness to speak up. I hope you continue to stand up for yourself. We can all learn something and be more empathica to each other if we're willing to be civil and listen.