whats wrong with having a photo of a guy, lots of women have photos from guys on their phone. maybe her boyfriend or a family member like a brother or boyfriend that she loves, if you approach her that you are serious and you are a nornal guy, just tell her you dont hsve a option to pay up front, but can stop by to give a deposit , most of them will agree , i will never send money, but i am willing to give a deposit in person, once i meet the person i can sense if its ok, one time i didnt like what i saw, i told her upfront she is not my type and just left her a $20 . i will give the reviewer here the benefit of the doubt, based on his activity on this board.