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Review: Berlin News Agency (BNA)
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I am 70, 6', no facial hair, no tattoos, full head of white hair, have a small construction company so always working out, slightly over weight, still a handsome lad for being this old and I find it easy to find women. If you put up some decent pictures on a dating site without holding a fish, not sitting on a cycle, no sports attire and don't have your foot resting on a dead animal and a rifle in your hand, you should do fine. My profile is two lines, I don't have kids, I have no pets and I state that I won't date a girl that is a liberal, has a cat or is interested in going to Paris, London or Rome but prefers Timbuktu, Zanzibar or Kathmandu. I have been dating a 48 year old beautiful VN girl for 4 years who I see one or two weekends a month. The other girls are from 55 to 65 who I see throughout the weeks and months. I only get one or two likes a week so out of 4, 5 or 6 over a three week period I will get one date and about 60% of those I will have sex with on the first date. They are not all beautiful but certainly cute enough that I feel proud to hold their hand in public. It is all about being a good conversationalist. No matter my age if I was out at a club or bar and I got shot down 25 times I would still try girl number 26.
That’s awesome that you make that work. However I figured out why are such a discrepancy. Dealing with different demographics I’m 41 and looking for women in their 30s and 20s. Older women are way easier. But I’m just not interested in dating them. I’ll pay them because it’s transactional in and out; but dating them? I can’t do crazy like that; no offense. Maybe as I get older it will change.
In just a few years, Porter, you will be checking out the MILF's and Cougars and thinking, 'Wow, these are far hotter, sexier, easier, hornier, more experienced, less inhibited, wilder, less whiney, more independent appreciative, have squirting pussies and far more orgasmic than the bitchy, needy, entitled, pushy, complaining, younger girls that just want to get married and have babies, destroy your life and take as much money from you as they can.
The Tina's and the Sue's of the AMP world...they are the maximum in pleasure.
The Tina's and the Sue's of the AMP world...they are the maximum in pleasure.
Onerandomdude, that is it exactly...what do you have to offer?
Here is what I see. Today's men are weak. I am not a neat looking guy, I wear hiking boots out on a date, jeans, rolled up sleeves and I haven't combed my hair in 43 years yet I am clean and well shaven. I live near Cherry Hill but I never take a girl to a local place but only far off to unique first class restaurants. Trenton, Brandywine, Lambertville. King of Prussia, Delaware, Springlake, etc. The girls never make the decision nor do I tell them where I am taking them (except the first date if they insist) even months into a relationship. By the third or forth date I always take them away for the weekend. Again far away. I don't even tell them where. It is none of their business. I pick the movies, the vacations, the events and the restaurants.
A woman wants a man to be in charge and to make the decisions. As soon as you let her have the upper hand you might as well shoot yourself. I am mannerly, respectful, never forceful, never mean and never a misogynist. I drive a 41 year old diesel car. The car and floor is full of tools, saws and supplies. If they want me to clean it up the answer is no. I don't watch or play sports or talk about them. I don't play golf. I spent my life hiking and climbing mountains around the world. When the relationship is older I will never take them to Europe, the Caribbean, Hawaii. It will be South America, Asia, Africa, etc. So I always have a unique and different way in conversations. It is necessary to stand out from the regular guys. If you look like a ken doll wearing slacks and a polo shirt or wearing team clothing you look like everyone else. Instead of watching a game on Sunday take them somewhere special each week instead of being with the rest of the clowns. If you let them make decisions or ask them what they would like to do then you lost them from the start. They will never respect you.
Here is what I see. Today's men are weak. I am not a neat looking guy, I wear hiking boots out on a date, jeans, rolled up sleeves and I haven't combed my hair in 43 years yet I am clean and well shaven. I live near Cherry Hill but I never take a girl to a local place but only far off to unique first class restaurants. Trenton, Brandywine, Lambertville. King of Prussia, Delaware, Springlake, etc. The girls never make the decision nor do I tell them where I am taking them (except the first date if they insist) even months into a relationship. By the third or forth date I always take them away for the weekend. Again far away. I don't even tell them where. It is none of their business. I pick the movies, the vacations, the events and the restaurants.
A woman wants a man to be in charge and to make the decisions. As soon as you let her have the upper hand you might as well shoot yourself. I am mannerly, respectful, never forceful, never mean and never a misogynist. I drive a 41 year old diesel car. The car and floor is full of tools, saws and supplies. If they want me to clean it up the answer is no. I don't watch or play sports or talk about them. I don't play golf. I spent my life hiking and climbing mountains around the world. When the relationship is older I will never take them to Europe, the Caribbean, Hawaii. It will be South America, Asia, Africa, etc. So I always have a unique and different way in conversations. It is necessary to stand out from the regular guys. If you look like a ken doll wearing slacks and a polo shirt or wearing team clothing you look like everyone else. Instead of watching a game on Sunday take them somewhere special each week instead of being with the rest of the clowns. If you let them make decisions or ask them what they would like to do then you lost them from the start. They will never respect you.
Lol. You started the name calling and I don’t know it just felt like you were pulling from feminist playbook. They often call men who are critical of dating ; entitled/incels and get super weird and defensive about older men dating 20 somethings.….I literally had an older woman try and cock block me from talking to a 24 y/o last weekend. It was comical.
So your post just reminded me of that. It’s all good though. I don’t want to argue. Have a good day!
So your post just reminded me of that. It’s all good though. I don’t want to argue. Have a good day!
Not sure how my original review of a seedy adult theater turned into a discussion on dating in the 2020's but hey glad you gents are enjoying it. Now the question is.... are you dating someone that you could actually bring to this place.... that would be interesting. On a related note, the BNA Christmas party is SAT 12/16 but there is a Sat morning party this week 11/25. Starts at 10 I think. These parties are more hit or miss but an opportunity if you can't make a night time one.
Look around you at any kind of event with couples. Absolutely no way. Lot of extremely average and below average guys in terms of looks/money have wives. Have done plenty of dating in my life and I'm def not a looker nor rich. That incel shit is just an excuse for guys who have absolute vagina-repellent personalities to explain why they're not getting laid.
Women (and men... not really a female thing) smell desperation. If a guy has no life and no better prospects a woman knows that and won't be attracted. Two main ways you can attract women.
One is to be (like you say) a top 10%, 5%, whatever guy when it comes to looks/virility/money/charm.
Other way is to be a good dude with a good life. You gotta check at least some of these boxes. Be able to have a conversation, have friends, bonus points if you have female friends, spend time with your family, have interests, do volunteer work, have hobbies, have a career, have an education. And don't be desperate. It's like any kind of negotiation in life. You have to be able to walk away. You should want to date somebody... not need to date somebody.
You gotta understand women are judging you on a lot of indirect shit. If you have a nice job, nice car, but no friends and no family... what does she see? An American Psycho kinda guy. But let's say you have a modest job and a great circle of friends and family? Well she knows this is a good dude that people like. Bonus if you have female friends. Now people know you're not a fucking creep just trying to get into every chick's pants. Bottom line is... live a good life in terms of friends and family and guess what, lot of other stuff takes care of itself.
Maybe you already know all this, but maybe it will help somebody, and every incel needs to learn this shit
Women (and men... not really a female thing) smell desperation. If a guy has no life and no better prospects a woman knows that and won't be attracted. Two main ways you can attract women.
One is to be (like you say) a top 10%, 5%, whatever guy when it comes to looks/virility/money/charm.
Other way is to be a good dude with a good life. You gotta check at least some of these boxes. Be able to have a conversation, have friends, bonus points if you have female friends, spend time with your family, have interests, do volunteer work, have hobbies, have a career, have an education. And don't be desperate. It's like any kind of negotiation in life. You have to be able to walk away. You should want to date somebody... not need to date somebody.
You gotta understand women are judging you on a lot of indirect shit. If you have a nice job, nice car, but no friends and no family... what does she see? An American Psycho kinda guy. But let's say you have a modest job and a great circle of friends and family? Well she knows this is a good dude that people like. Bonus if you have female friends. Now people know you're not a fucking creep just trying to get into every chick's pants. Bottom line is... live a good life in terms of friends and family and guess what, lot of other stuff takes care of itself.
Maybe you already know all this, but maybe it will help somebody, and every incel needs to learn this shit
Dating apps are pretty much designed for superficiality so, yeah, it can be rough.
Best way to meet women in my experience is just to have a fun life with both male and female friends.
If you have ten friends and they each have ten friends, that's 100 friends of friends. Some of them are going to be single and some of them will be women. And you got a head start because you have a friend in common that vouches for you.
Don't have 10 friends? Well what are you doing with your life? Do some volunteer work, community theater, literally anything that involves men and women.
As you can see from others on this thread there are a lot of ways to do it. This is just one of them. May or may not be the best one for you personally. I will tell you, one advantage of this "method" is that even if you don't get laid you make friends and have a good time.
Best way to meet women in my experience is just to have a fun life with both male and female friends.
If you have ten friends and they each have ten friends, that's 100 friends of friends. Some of them are going to be single and some of them will be women. And you got a head start because you have a friend in common that vouches for you.
Don't have 10 friends? Well what are you doing with your life? Do some volunteer work, community theater, literally anything that involves men and women.
As you can see from others on this thread there are a lot of ways to do it. This is just one of them. May or may not be the best one for you personally. I will tell you, one advantage of this "method" is that even if you don't get laid you make friends and have a good time.