I'm sure you are right about which buttons and clicking, I have no where near the experience you and some of the other guys have, but with all of your advice and trial and error, I'm learning, I remember the same kind of situation with a girl everybody raved about, Amanda from green leaves therapy, the shop that Sophia ran in EW, I finally got her and to me she was a total turn off, body to die for but bad attitude with me at least, don't touch my face or hair, and a few other things, real turn off for me, so I told her forget it, was ready to leave Sophia said wait, in walks YuYu, Wow what a difference, not the super model type like Amanda but a real winner for me, not only could I do whatever I wanted with her, she actually asked me to do more to her liking which was great, she even came in the shower with me after and washed me down, she was the best I ever had, went back a couple of times after that, then they closed, still can't find her, so clicking I think comes on a personal basis, and the buttons part comes from experience, I will get right eventually I hope, thanks again for your input