I hate saying this, but you guys who want mutual foreplay are in the minority for this industry. The average monger wants to walk in and see a good looking woman. They do not want to do any work at all. Why would you when you are paying for it. Some advice would be to search the world looking for every woman you enjoy and accept the fact that you will have some subpar experiences. Find a provider you really click with and regularly visit her. Find a shop you really click with and tell MMS what your preferences are and as her to notify the providers of your preferences before a session.