POV: You fell in love with a provider and it messed with your head, your time, your focus. Then, you came out from beneath the cloud and wised up.

[Amanto1]

Detachment: The First pillar of spiritual success.

Stoicism, it works. I’ll get there again.

But also, I’m human.

Stoicism , Absolutely . Pleasure and pain go hand in hand . Make sure it happens to body not you !

 

[velvet_underground]

I dated a few after my divorce and they're all damaged. Love? No, but it was great distraction after a divorce. No regrets here.

 

[Timtinytool2]

"I don't judge them for the type of work they do. Remember some really look at this as work. Money is good and they are able to support themselves. I'm just as fucked up as any provider"

Exactly. Well said. It's a job.

 

[Sunnyday]

It’s very hard for them to full for us or even get attached since they see a lot of us daily, on the other hand, if you see a provider regularly, you can easily get attached easily.

 

[sxpm]

Sometimes it’s just a boy and a girl in a room trying to get out.