New, Scared, Interested?

[yjung206]

I'm 29 and have never managed to nail a long term relationship. I'm still a virgin and while I know that the whole 30 year virgin thing is not as big a deal as it used to be, I still feel that pressure to just get it over with.

I've been interested in getting involved with stuff such as this for a long time and I think the isolation from the coronavirus broke my loneliness limit.

I'm just wondering if there is anything that can be shared in regards to how I should interact on the phone? Do I call or should I text? How much extra do I tip on average? Should I mention I'm a virgin or just fumble around and hope for the best?

Sorry if this isn't the right place or board to talk, but I would appreciate anything people have to share here. If it helps I'm located in the New York City area.

 

[Zzzz]

I'm 29 and have never managed to nail a long term relationship. I'm still a virgin and while I know that the whole 30 year virgin thing is not as big a deal as it used to be, I still feel that pressure to just get it over with.

I've been interested in getting involved with stuff such as this for a long time and I think the isolation from the coronavirus broke my loneliness limit.

I'm just wondering if there is anything that can be shared in regards to how I should interact on the phone? Do I call or should I text? How much extra do I tip on average? Should I mention I'm a virgin or just fumble around and hope for the best?

Sorry if this isn't the right place or board to talk, but I would appreciate anything people have to share here. If it helps I'm located in the New York City area.

What is your budget dude, and what type of gals do you find yourself attracted to?

Are you restricted to Flushings or are you willing to travel to Manhattan?

Guys can give you recommendations so you don't get busted going down the wrong path.

 

[yjung206]

What is your budget dude, and what type of gals do you find yourself attracted to?

Are you restricted to Flushings or are you willing to travel to Manhattan?

Guys can give you recommendations so you don't get busted going down the wrong path.

I have cash to burn but wouldn't want to spend upwards of 200 a try.

I'm not super willing to go into manhattan especially in the current climate. I know that New York is doing way better than anyone could have hoped but the risks are still there.

I am asian and I generally like asian women but honestly I have no real preference on race. More petite than thicc I guess is the only one haha.
Thanks for the reply and I'm hoping that I can make my first experience a fun one.

 

[AutomaticSlim]

I'm 29 and have never managed to nail a long term relationship. I'm still a virgin and while I know that the whole 30 year virgin thing is not as big a deal as it used to be, I still feel that pressure to just get it over with.

I've been interested in getting involved with stuff such as this for a long time and I think the isolation from the coronavirus broke my loneliness limit.

I'm just wondering if there is anything that can be shared in regards to how I should interact on the phone? Do I call or should I text? How much extra do I tip on average? Should I mention I'm a virgin or just fumble around and hope for the best?

Sorry if this isn't the right place or board to talk, but I would appreciate anything people have to share here. If it helps I'm located in the New York City area.

Firstly, have a read here: https://www.ampreviews.net/index.php?threads/should-a-virgin-do-it.42664/post-340782
Read it more than once and let it sink in.

Although I suspect you are older than the guy I was replying to, I would like you to give it a try as well before going the route you are thinking.
I know how easy doing this for your first time can lead to doing this for a lifetime.
If you still want to see a provider once in a while as you are working on improving yourself and finding a girl, I will be willing to give you some useful advice.
But give the other stuff I mention in the link a shot first.

 

[Zzzz]

I have cash to burn but wouldn't want to spend upwards of 200 a try.

I'm not super willing to go into manhattan especially in the current climate. I know that New York is doing way better than anyone could have hoped but the risks are still there.

I am asian and I generally like asian women but honestly I have no real preference on race. More petite than thicc I guess is the only one haha.
Thanks for the reply and I'm hoping that I can make my first experience a fun one.

Dude, if you have money to burn, I highly advise against capping yourself at $200. I really doubt you're going to have a good first experience on that budget.

I would suggest boosting your budget to $4-500 to have an awesome first time experience losing your virginity.

On a $200 budget, you're gonna have to really settle as a first time experience.

 

[Tyler1]

Dude, if you have money to burn, I highly advise against capping yourself at $200. I really doubt you're going to have a good first experience on that budget.

I would suggest boosting your budget to $4-500 to have an awesome first time experience losing your virginity.

On a $200 budget, you're gonna have to really settle as a first time experience.

Agreed you are fucking yourself over at a 200 range. From the 0 to 100 range is the value (?) play where you are definitely going to get the deed done but your provider is going to have some big negatives (whether it be age, attitude, hygiene, volume, looks, etc.) 100 to 200 is hardly an improvement enough to warrant a 100 percent increase.

Its worth it to just up the pricing and look for recommended ladies. Please take your time to read and learn there is a lot of info in this board.

Especially if its your first time, you want to be with someone who you are more comfortable with rather than a pump and dump.

 

[Zzzz]

Agreed you are fucking yourself over at a 200 range. From the 0 to 100 range is the value (?) play where you are definitely going to get the deed done but your provider is going to have some big negatives (whether it be age, attitude, hygiene, volume, looks, etc.) 100 to 200 is hardly an improvement enough to warrant a 100 percent increase.

Its worth it to just up the pricing and look for recommended ladies. Please take your time to read and learn there is a lot of info in this board.

Especially if its your first time, you want to be with someone who you are more comfortable with rather than a pump and dump.

Right! If you're going to lose your virginity to an escort, make it well worth the effort. It's your first time and you'll never forget the experience for the rest of your life. If you're willing to increase your budget, I am more than willing to provide some recommendations.

 

[Keny33]

I'm 29 and have never managed to nail a long term relationship. I'm still a virgin and while I know that the whole 30 year virgin thing is not as big a deal as it used to be, I still feel that pressure to just get it over with.

I've been interested in getting involved with stuff such as this for a long time and I think the isolation from the coronavirus broke my loneliness limit.

I'm just wondering if there is anything that can be shared in regards to how I should interact on the phone? Do I call or should I text? How much extra do I tip on average? Should I mention I'm a virgin or just fumble around and hope for the best?

Sorry if this isn't the right place or board to talk, but I would appreciate anything people have to share here. If it helps I'm located in the New York City area.

Seriously Consider what slim directed you to first and really take your time to let it sink in and work on yourself because this hobby is not a fix for loneliness.

With that out of the way, you need a thick skin if you’re going to one of these places in flushing at 200 and under. Don’t act nervous and don’t give these people more info than they need. The PPS and MMS at those establishments don’t really care and the providers will most likely try to rip you off if they know you’re a total noob.

Do your research, be direct when contacting them, and maybe reach out to some members for more info. Another thing to is if you know Chinese then use it when contacting them.

Another piece of advice is don’t be afraid to walk away. If you don’t like how the girl looks, or she just isn’t what you’re into then just leave. Or ask the mms or pps if you can switch. Remember you’re the customer.

 

[Eldritch]

I started at the age of 18. I was shy, awkward, and ostracized in high school for being weird. In the end, it was no fault than my own, because of the way I was raised and the way I went about my life (sitting around 12 hours a day playing videogames). I was 240-250 lbs by the time I went off into college and the idea of not having had sex at all and being a virgin made me make an impulsive decision to see a provider. I went to NYC and paid $300 for a beautiful asian provider. But, it was a random place. I ended up lasting 30 seconds upon entry but was expecting a 2nd round because I paid for the hour. Perhaps she saw that I was brand new and took advantage, but she said the session was over. I tried to push back a little but she told me to call the manager. I was scared at that time and just left. Big disappointment that perhaps shot my self esteem even lower. As I went into college, one day I looked at myself in the mirror and said, “what girl would date this?” I ended up doing something similar to what another guy in the linked thread recommended. I rowed, boxed, kickboxed, muay thai, water polo, BJJ, went to the gym. I did anything and everything. My confidence has shot through the roof in comparison to where I was years ago. And I even currently have a long term gf.

Rewinding a little bit from today, unfortunately back in college, I had a terrible breakup with another SO, I went back into the hobby and went to a random hungarian place for $120 hh. It ended up being a great sexual experience. But, from then until now, most of it is a blur in terms seeing providers. A handful are in memory, but perhaps 95% are gone with the wind. Although it is “fun”, its become somewhat of an addiction, and carries on even though I have the human connection of a long term gf that im very satisfied with.

As many have mentioned, if you have a choice, don’t enter this hobby. Work on yourself. Learn how to talk (which sounds silly but means everything), force yourself into social situations (as I did in college many times awkwardly and did many stupid things but it helped me speak to people better), get a popular haircut like an undercut or slickback and learn how to dress, and exercise to the point you are big and ripped. Your confidence in yourself will not change from entering this hobby. Only you yourself can make that change.

That being said, if you still want to do it, pm me and I’ll get you to a good experience for only $140 if price is a factor.

 

[hookahguy118]

I started at the age of 18. I was shy, awkward, and ostracized in high school for being weird. In the end, it was no fault than my own, because of the way I was raised and the way I went about my life (sitting around 12 hours a day playing videogames). I was 240-250 lbs by the time I went off into college and the idea of not having had sex at all and being a virgin made me make an impulsive decision to see a provider. I went to NYC and paid $300 for a beautiful asian provider. But, it was a random place. I ended up lasting 30 seconds upon entry but was expecting a 2nd round because I paid for the hour. Perhaps she saw that I was brand new and took advantage, but she said the session was over. I tried to push back a little but she told me to call the manager. I was scared at that time and just left. Big disappointment that perhaps shot my self esteem even lower. As I went into college, one day I looked at myself in the mirror and said, “what girl would date this?” I ended up doing something similar to what another guy in the linked thread recommended. I rowed, boxed, kickboxed, muay thai, water polo, BJJ, went to the gym. I did anything and everything. My confidence has shot through the roof in comparison to where I was years ago. And I even currently have a long term gf.

Rewinding a little bit from today, unfortunately back in college, I had a terrible breakup with another SO, I went back into the hobby and went to a random hungarian place for $120 hh. It ended up being a great sexual experience. But, from then until now, most of it is a blur in terms seeing providers. A handful are in memory, but perhaps 95% are gone with the wind. Although it is “fun”, its become somewhat of an addiction, and carries on even though I have the human connection of a long term gf that im very satisfied with.

As many have mentioned, if you have a choice, don’t enter this hobby. Work on yourself. Learn how to talk (which sounds silly but means everything), force yourself into social situations (as I did in college many times awkwardly and did many stupid things but it helped me speak to people better), get a popular haircut like an undercut or slickback and learn how to dress, and exercise to the point you are big and ripped. Your confidence in yourself will not change from entering this hobby. Only you yourself can make that change.

That being said, if you still want to do it, pm me and I’ll get you to a good experience for only $140 if price is a factor.

What belt did you get to?

 

[noncomformist]

Yea, I didn't pull the trigger on this hobby after I lost my v-card to a civvie (kinda random and fairly embarrassing). But after that, man this hobby is addicting.

 

[이 회장님]

You should lose your virginity to a civvie (someone who you love) and not at a P4P.

I lost my virginity at age 19 to my first girlfriend. It was a disaster but at least it was someone who I loved. I bit her nipple too hard, she wasn’t wet yet so I was just sticking it in which hurt me and her. Not only that, I came inside her because I didn’t know how to time myself and it lasted less than ten minutes. lol

To all of you virgins out there, give it to someone you love.

 

[retired052323]

Seriously Consider what slim directed you to first and really take your time to let it sink in and work on yourself because this hobby is not a fix for loneliness.

With that out of the way, you need a thick skin if you’re going to one of these places in flushing at 200 and under. Don’t act nervous and don’t give these people more info than they need. The PPS and MMS at those establishments don’t really care and the providers will most likely try to rip you off if they know you’re a total noob.

Do your research, be direct when contacting them, and maybe reach out to some members for more info. Another thing to is if you know Chinese then use it when contacting them.

Another piece of advice is don’t be afraid to walk away. If you don’t like how the girl looks, or she just isn’t what you’re into then just leave. Or ask the mms or pps if you can switch. Remember you’re the customer.

I wish I knew that before my first experience. I didn't lose my virginity to one, but my first was this nasty piece in flushing. I wish I walked away, but there was this guy waiting in the other room that I assumed wouldn't have let me leave. Be careful man. I agree with the other members 100%. Really consider well the choice of losing your v-card this way. And if you still want to, spend more than 400. The escorts at that level speak for themselves as other members can attest to.

I lost my v-card to one of my first girlfriends when I was 18 and although we aren't together anymore, I don't regret it at all and I am happy about it.

 

[retired052323]

Also, this hobby is addicting. I haven't been in at least 10 months, but I still regularly check forums like these. I will always regret entering this hobby so I hope you consider it carefully. Thankfully I haven't gone for a long time, but being single in covid alone at home makes it fucking hard.

 

[Eldritch]

What belt did you get to?

I was dumb and didn’t listen to my body on a previous minor issue in my body. It become a big issue and I injured myself during BJJ. Never made it past white belt unfortunately.

 

[Nedmerrill]

You should lose your virginity to a civvie (someone who you love) and not at a P4P.

I lost my virginity at age 19 to my first girlfriend. It was a disaster but at least it was someone who I loved. I bit her nipple too hard, she wasn’t wet yet so I was just sticking it in which hurt me and her. Not only that, I came inside her because I didn’t know how to time myself and it lasted less than ten minutes. lol

To all of you virgins out there, give it to someone you love.

I lost my virginity to my first girlfriend after waiting much too long. We got a room in a Sheraton and I banged her and came 6 times that evening. Def no regrets there.

 

[Tyler1]

I was dumb and didn’t listen to my body on a previous minor issue in my body. It become a big issue and I injured myself during BJJ. Never made it past white belt unfortunately.

I had two injuries in the same
ankle in 1 year when during training for regional competitions. At the time I competed in Brown Belt and IJF Seniors for Judo.

Never was able to train without psychological fear of injuring that same ankle again. And of course the doctor's warnings on top.

Apart from the sport I miss the people I met. On the mat we would kill ourselves but outside we were all friends. Jack Hatton, who sadly passed away too soon, was one of the friendlist guys I had the chance to meet and a darn good competitor.

 

[funtimes]

dont do it brudda. not for your first pop..

 

[Eldritch]

I had two injuries in the same
ankle in 1 year when during training for regional competitions. At the time I competed in Brown Belt and IJF Seniors for Judo.

Never was able to train without psychological fear of injuring that same ankle again. And of course the doctor's warnings on top.

Apart from the sport I miss the people I met. On the mat we would kill ourselves but outside we were all friends. Jack Hatton, who sadly passed away too soon, was one of the friendlist guys I had the chance to meet and a darn good competitor.

Good for you, I wish I could be at that level. I never went back into BJJ after that injury happened. It gives me chronic pain every day of my life. Its gotten much better of course, but its still present. The fear of it happening again may prevent me from ever trying BJJ again.

 

[Rombulous]

dont do it brudda. not for your first pop..

Be realistic

You think some regular chick is gonna meet a shy Asian virgin off Tinder during a pandemic.