Mongering while in a relationship

[Thundercat1357]

How many of you guys monger while being in a marriage, dating, or any other type of relationship?

 

[Youngadvisor]

Sadly I have, I started while single, couldn’t stop while married…. Going through a divorce …. although not entirely because of the hobby

 

[Ewg047]

Married

 

[Thundercat1357]

Have you ever tried quitting cold turkey? Have any regrets? How do you make sure everything is safe physically and discrete?

 

[Defyeler]

I didn't monger for the first 48 yrs of my life. Then I got divorced. I've now basically almost stopped. Haven't gone in almost a month.

 

[Pop_pop]

I've now basically almost stopped. Haven't gone in almost a month.

Are you serious or sarcastic? Haven’t gone in a month is called “stopped”?

 

[chosun1]

I've dated a girl for two years and thinking of marriage at which point I would stop doing this, but I started this hobby before her and its quite hard to quit.

 

[fobdfkcim]

I am a widower (30+ yrs married) and now have a SO. Have been hobbying for much of that time. I do it for the adventure and variety. Probably always will. It's purely entertainment for me. I'm not lacking for sex at home.

 

[alldayplay]

Married for decades and been seeing ladies for many years now. I'm in the fall season of my life as is my SO so sex has all but grinded to a halt. I love my SO but can't go without sex.

 

[Defyeler]

Are you serious or sarcastic? Haven’t gone in a month is called “stopped”?

Pretty serious. I don't have the urge to go. At all. I deleted all my provider numbers except ones I have befriended and we see each other outside of their work, for dinner, drinks, movies, no sex. On the sex life, I've been meeting women by simply doing what I used to do, go out.

 

[HermesLAX]

Just dating. I've been trying to be good but sometimes she goes away on the weekends. So....

 

[Sporty3064]

Married. I did it before and still do. I do it for entertainment as well as sexual variety. SB life too. It's actually helped my sex life at home. I've slowed down alot but still get the itch once in a while.
I've also dated a few providers on the side. Not anymore though.

 

[Businessman]

Im trying to stop, but always revert. Should I see a therapist?

 

[nemo72]

Married for over 30 years, start mongering after 50, it helps me stay married and i have less expectations from my better half. Also, when i dated on a side it was more suspicious and more expensive plus i don't need a GF, just GFE, i have my wife as my friend. It clear my worries about ED and sex is better at home as well.

 

[slob.my.knob]

Im trying to stop, but always revert. Should I see a therapist?

It's purely subjective. Is it a behavior that you'd like to change? Then perhaps a therapist can help you.

 

[Chiller]

Married for over 30 years, start mongering after 50, it helps me stay married and i have less expectations from my better half. Also, when i dated on a side it was more suspicious and more expensive plus i don't need a GF, just GFE, i have my wife as my friend. It clear my worries about ED and sex is better at home as well.

Seconded

 

[Businessman]

It's purely subjective. Is it a behavior that you'd like to change? Then perhaps a therapist can help you.

I want to be loyal to my significant other. My heart is with her but my body lusts more

 

[이 회장님]

I’m single. My heart is with the Yankees and to none of these women. lol.

 

[slob.my.knob]

I want to be loyal to my significant other. My heart is with her but my body lusts more

Then godspeed! Starting therapy was one of the best decisions I made.

 

[dengue_fever]

Then godspeed! Starting therapy was one of the best decisions I made.

Massage therapy or talk therapy??