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mongering sex vs SO sex
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Yikes, no sex with SO in 7 years. That is so long it sounds crazy. What is the issue?
I would move on and get divorced if that could not be changed.
Sounds like the money on prostitutes would be better utilized for marriage therapy. In the long run, if you can correct those issues, that is what matters the most in the big picture of life.
I would move on and get divorced if that could not be changed.
Sounds like the money on prostitutes would be better utilized for marriage therapy. In the long run, if you can correct those issues, that is what matters the most in the big picture of life.
My belief has always been that there is an ass for every seat and certainly for every dude, there is some poor woman willing to have sex w them. I can't fathom that undid t have that choice. Again my assumption is extremely broad but if you were so horrible then most of them would fuck u for money either. I realize they put up w a lot but most draw the line somewhere..
Despite what I might ramble on about here when drunk and depressed, I can admit that I am not "so horrible".
It's just that I was not the "in" type for the 80s.
Back then, the girls went for the muscleheads. I remember a skinny kid who came back one fall all pumped up. He was obviously on steroids, but the girls were flocking around him.
I never had any interest in anything under a 7. And even then, before I had money, to me a 7 would have been settling.
I remember in college there was this blonde 10 I would see around campus.
She was the only one there I had eyes for.
I used to find SWs on 11th Ave that looked similar to her (and all of them were as young or younger).
The choice between banging that vs conventionally dating a plain faced 140 lber with thunder thighs was no brainer to me.
I now KNOW it wasn't the right way to go about things.
I should have waited it out, focused on my career and devised a life strategy -- mostly developing charm (something I have never done -- I'm as blunt as a sledgehammer), to get the 8s. 9s and 10s I wanted.
But I didn't.
Through my 20s, 30s and early 40s, I was "satisfied" with being a relatively well-off consultant and being able to afford hookers whenever I wanted instead of starting my own consulting firm or going full steam on the Managing Director route and trying to be a 1%er.
My mistake and nothing I can do about it now.
Except to tell the younger guys here not to make the same mistake.
It's just that I was not the "in" type for the 80s.
Back then, the girls went for the muscleheads. I remember a skinny kid who came back one fall all pumped up. He was obviously on steroids, but the girls were flocking around him.
I never had any interest in anything under a 7. And even then, before I had money, to me a 7 would have been settling.
I remember in college there was this blonde 10 I would see around campus.
She was the only one there I had eyes for.
I used to find SWs on 11th Ave that looked similar to her (and all of them were as young or younger).
The choice between banging that vs conventionally dating a plain faced 140 lber with thunder thighs was no brainer to me.
I now KNOW it wasn't the right way to go about things.
I should have waited it out, focused on my career and devised a life strategy -- mostly developing charm (something I have never done -- I'm as blunt as a sledgehammer), to get the 8s. 9s and 10s I wanted.
But I didn't.
Through my 20s, 30s and early 40s, I was "satisfied" with being a relatively well-off consultant and being able to afford hookers whenever I wanted instead of starting my own consulting firm or going full steam on the Managing Director route and trying to be a 1%er.
My mistake and nothing I can do about it now.
Except to tell the younger guys here not to make the same mistake.
Good advice. Seeing prostitutes at AMPs becomes an addiction. Sex addiction. I hear some say, “I can stop whenever I want.” That is just denial. Sex addiction is as difficult to kick as alcoholism or drugs. And if you think it is OK to cheat on your wife, you are just wrong on many levels. It is not OK. No clue why people say it is OK? Imagine how your parents, wife, children, friends, co-workers, etc would be hurt if they knew what you were doing? The correct response should be, “it is terrible what I am doing to my wife but I cannot stop.” They are people and they certainly do not deserve this.
You are right. Everyone has a different situation and some of these guys don't understand that it can be an unusual situation that you are living in. If I left my wife to raise my special needs son he would regress and his anger would be a problem. So I just deal with it. We are like roommates because she has body issues and doesn't want sex anymore. So fuck her BS. I still want sex. So if she doesn't try to help me out I will keep hobbying.