Hey guys. So today was my 1st day back and I took a road trip to SJ, as there was a place on my list to check out. While there, the provider and I clicked and she turned into a Chatty Cathy. Most of the conversation was centered around how most dudes nowadays are a-holes to them and really treat them poorly vs my polite and ‘gentleman-like’ behavior. Have you guys heard the same around here? Hopefully it’s just the Jersey asshats being asshats and not a pattern across the board. Seems like, based on random tristate reviews, that guys are expecting or darn near demanding a certain type of experience not realizing what we and these ladies are actually doing. I’m I being a softy or what? Looking forward to your thoughts.
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Monger Attitude
- Thread starter SpikeSpiegel
- Start date
I have heard the same thing from other providers. Apparently there is a group of them based out of NYC traveling throughout the tri-state area referring to themselves as "M.W.A." or "Mongaz Wit Attitudes". Their lyrics are very misogynistic and disrespectful towards AMP providers. Here is a sample - "Gimme full service you slant eye'd slut, oh else I call immigration on yo ass and you be back in china, livin' in a hut!". In all seriousness I have nothing but disdain for this sort of monger. AMP providers by their nature play a subservient role. As long as she is not trying to rip you off she should be treated with respect. Find times throughout your session to treat her like a queen. Thank her for how good she is making you feel. Tell her how pretty she is and how much you appreciate her. Whisper sweet nothings to her in her native tongue. Give her a hug, make her feel safe, respected and human. This will greatly impact the ymmv component of your visits.
I agree that we should always treat these women with kindness and respect. You should always be careful with talking. you have the ability to make them feel better, but you also have the ability to trigger no or worse yet, a negative reaction. Talking about business can get a neutral to negative reaction so I don't do it. Talking about family can get a positive to negative action so it is not worth bringing up. In the end, when you and she are talking, you and/or she are not doing something else that actually can positively affect one or both of you.
A group of mongers traveling throughout the tri-state area? What? Having a hard time processing that. Back to the issue at hand...
ALWAYS treat these ladies with respect. They're people providing a service. Like all service workers, some are better than others. Like all service workers, some enjoy their work, others don't.
ALWAYS treat these ladies with respect. They're people providing a service. Like all service workers, some are better than others. Like all service workers, some enjoy their work, others don't.
.. Benito... I know a lot of Providers both personally and professionally ... and the one common thread is that they would all like to own there own Store and not have to work the rooms.. it takes it’s toll on them over the years and most are working for family back home and/or a comfortable retirement in China or Korea... this isn’t a “ career choice “ merely an opportunity to make a lot of cash quickly... the smart ones become MMS’ and eventually cash out and go home...