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Leaving the band on or taking it off?

Micawber

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For those who see indy providers and are married, do you take your wedding band off or leave it on? I know the provider probably doesn't care one way or the other but I always take mine off in the car and the one time I didn't, I got a weird vibe from her (and this is one I had seen regularly, always sans band).
 

이 회장님

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To the gentleman who left his wedding ring at HNS Spa back in 2001 in Naunet, NY, I found it under the pillow and gave it to Mia. I really hope you went back and got it from her. You’re very welcome and next time, please just wear your ring.
 

dynamohum

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I’m in the ‘take-it-off-camp’ for the same reasons the OP sited. If they ask my marital status, I answer truthfully but I go in sans ring!
 

weedwacker

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For a while I was unintentionally doing an experiment where sometimes I had my band on, sometimes I wasn't wearing it. I noticed at one point, having the same thought, and thought back on my experiences and realized that I think I had gotten better service with my band on. So I started paying attention and I would say i got better service with it on.*

My explanation is that these girls know many of the guys coming in are married, so it's not like some shock to them that a man might be married and partake in the hobby. So there is no real drawback to wearing it, generally speaking. However, wearing it indicates that you were able to have a normal relationship with at least one woman who chose to spend the rest of her life with you, so it probably makes them a bit more comfortable that the guy in the room isn't some weirdo. Much in the same way that a repeat customer has built a level of trust with the provider.

So, if I remember, I always wear it.

*caveat is that this was purely anecdotal and the sample size wasn't that large. So take it with a huge grain of salt.
 
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