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Is it worth the risk?

Blixen

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
Similar situation to yours, except older, and I have been partaking all this time, albeit in shrinking quantities: once a week, then once a month, now even less.
My 2 cents: you’re still enjoying sex with the wife, you’re in a rare, blessed position. When you’re old you will not be savoring the memories of the huge numbers of girls you fucked - unless you’re Casanova and wrote a seven volume work on how you seduced each one of them.
Sorry, amp reviews don’t count.

You’re much more likely to fondly and vividly remember the intimate moments with someone you loved. A lot of mongers here would clearly love to find a life partner.

So if you succeed in not getting drawn back into the life, you won’t regret your discipline later.

IMHO.
 

Redrain

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
Don't do it man.

You got caught once so you will will definitely get caught again.

Think of to this way. The first time you got caught you thought you were smart enough never to get caught.

Now you're older, slower and your brain is just a wee bit not what it once was.

What makes you think you'll get away with it now?
 

krideynyc

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What makes you think you'll get away with it now?
Private browsing and religious deletion of his search history, to avoid repeating the same mistake that got him caught the first time?

But I agree with you, and will reiterate what I first said: it's not worth the stress trying to cover up the hobby and worrying about getting caught again. You will eventually get caught again through something you didn't think of.
 

MongerHard

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
Of course it’s not worth it!!!!!
however, you’re on here which I think answers your own questions.
 

TheAwry

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Reading reviews will keep you in the hobby. Some of the contributors here write reviews that rival Penthouse Letters back in the day. When I’m holding off on the habit for want of pocket change, I avoid this site, and it lowers the temptation level. Out of site, out of mind. Until…
 

The Anal Thermometer

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
The fact one can be "happily married" and still feel the need to get new tail tells me what I need to know about marriage and its inability to provide the fulfillment one expects their partner to maintain.

If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
It's not, and if the desire to poke something different is that strong you need to cover your tracks. If she gave you more sex would it make a difference? I am amazed that women actually pull the trigger and initiate divorces when the dating market for post menopausal women with a dry puss is quite small. But if she's that type, then you'd regret having this double life exposed.
 

headsup

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
If you are having a good sex life with your wife where both of you are serviced equally then that is really good. I would say buy your wife a slutty dress and ask her how much for a good time for a good laugh.
 

tblusnyc

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
I’m in an almost identical situation. Married 31 years, love my wife madly and love being married to her, but we don’t have much of a sex life. Have been in and out of the hobby for 15 years. These days mostly out. For me, and I think for you as well, it’s just not worth the risk. On top of not wanting to lose your family, and wind up alone, think of the financial risk. After working hard for all of these years, do you really want to sign over half of your liquid assets plus your home(s)? And end up living in some shitty condo and bagging groceries at Trader Joe’s until you’re 75?

I do a very occasional AMP/R&T visit to a local place I know is very safe. When I travel for work to a locale where I know it’s safe (generally Canada or UK), which is once or twice a year, I stay a few extra days and have a whore-fest. I watch and jack off to a lot of porn. And live vicariously through this site. Maybe you could adopt a similar strategy.
 

MongerHard

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I’m in an almost identical situation. Married 31 years, love my wife madly and love being married to her, but we don’t have much of a sex life. Have been in and out of the hobby for 15 years. These days mostly out. For me, and I think for you as well, it’s just not worth the risk. On top of not wanting to lose your family, and wind up alone, think of the financial risk. After working hard for all of these years, do you really want to sign over half of your liquid assets plus your home(s)? And end up living in some shitty condo and bagging groceries at Trader Joe’s until you’re 75?

I do a very occasional AMP/R&T visit to a local place I know is very safe. When I travel for work to a locale where I know it’s safe (generally Canada or UK), which is once or twice a year, I stay a few extra days and have a whore-fest. I watch and jack off to a lot of porn. And live vicariously through this site. Maybe you could adopt a similar strategy.
Trader Joe’s is actually a fine grocery store. I would have bought into your advice more if you had said ShopRite or Acme.
:ROFLMAO:
 

asiansmakemehappy

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I once had a older coworker say to me ,there's nothing like a piece of strange ,25 yrs later after divorce realized he was right ,if you have steady partner that you are content with going to amps make you selfish sorry to say . You should work on spicing it up especially if she is willing to fulfill your desires ,putting her at risk is selfish ,I have a SO and no sex coming on 1 yr I'm out of my mind ,but now I feel we are business partners it sucks . I roll the dice every time I go see an amp ,I get fulfilled for the moment ,wish I had SO who had same sex drive as me .Spice up what you got of your happy with her !!!
 

Zippy17

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She came across very incriminating search history and I had to come clean. Spent 70 days on the basement couch and did a year of therapy.
Ironically, what you're doing now, by routinely reading these forums and (presumably) also checking the websites of the reviewed girls, you're already doing the exact same thing that she caught you doing the first time. I'm guessing you learned how to delete all related digital evidence. The only thing worse than losing everything because you got laid would be losing everything without even getting laid, because she'd never believe that you were only reading and never followed up on any of your online research. IMO, you really don't need to choose between being as care-free about it as a single guy and refraining completely. Just limit it to opportunities that raise no potential issues, because you have a perfect alibi and your time away from home is completely accounted for. That means you might have to skip certain opportunities that aren't as safe and/or miss out on seeing specific girls who are only available when you don't have a perfect alibi.
 

Fillerup09

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I’m happily married for 27 years. My wife is 57, in great shape and I actually enjoy hanging out with her. Our sex life has always been great. Less sex now because of menopause but when we do have sex, I have no complaints. All that said, I’ve been in and out of the hobby for my entire adult life. I got caught 15 years ago and almost lost her but we worked through it. She forgave me but has not forgotten so every so often, she’ll bring it up especially when I’m traveling for biz.
If I get caught again, my marriage will be over. I have two grown daughters and can’t imagine explaining to them why? So the bottom line is I have everything to lose yet I check this site and others every day. I only partake a few times a year but could easily go once a week. This is my struggle and the why I ask if it’s worth the risk.
Yes. You already have an account and you are already interested. Just do it.

Just also try to recall ALL of the pain and annoyance of fixing a broken marriage and trust.

If you want to go through that again then this hobby is worth it.

But if I had to bet, you will do it anyway. We all are addicts.

Lmk if you need suggestions lol
 

itwasntme

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The fact one can be "happily married" and still feel the need to get new tail tells me what I need to know about marriage and its inability to provide the fulfillment one expects their partner to maintain.
While this may be true, numerous mongers here say they love being married and having a family, even though their needs aren't being met and they're slowly dying on the inside from unfulfilled desire or living a lie. As a single man who's considering getting married himself, it's hard to process.
 

Oweyz1

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While this may be true, numerous mongers here say they love being married and having a family, even though their needs aren't being met and they're slowly dying on the inside from unfulfilled desire or living a lie. As a single man who's considering getting married himself, it's hard to process.
a man isn’t complete until he’s married, then he’s finished
 

Blixen

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While this may be true, numerous mongers here say they love being married and having a family, even though their needs aren't being met and they're slowly dying on the inside from unfulfilled desire or living a lie. As a single man who's considering getting married himself, it's hard to process.
a man isn’t complete until he’s married, then he’s finished
A man was alone, so he got married.

Then he discovered what loneliness is.
For sure, marriage has its challenges.
It’s never perfect, never “happily ever after”.
I believe that many marriages end that could be saved - we’re accustomed these days to wanting perfect fulfillment without compromise, so all too often we don’t mature into an adult role.

However, imperfect as marriage - and children - are, nothing else can replace them in terms of a life-long connection that forms a bulwark against loneliness in old age. We’re links on a chain - sure, relish the ironies of that metaphor - but there’s poetry in the partaking.
 
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