Invitation to visit her in Flushing

[Kauai81]

I had a first time experience today in 14 years of mongering and was wondering if anyone had a similar one.
I went to a local AMP that is known for no services beyond a good massage and sometimes some sensual touching and an offer to DIY if you want. Nothing more, at least in my experience. I was assigned a decent looking (mask on most of the time), middle-aged Chinese woman who spoke basically no English, but seemed pleasant. So I got the good massage, the touching and the offer, which I politely declined. I did make a couple efforts to have her handle the HE, but to no avail. She was pretty firm that wasn't what she does. Okay, that's fine, no problem.
Then, at the end, as I was preparing to leave, we were chatting via Google translate and she said I should visit her in Flushing when her stint here was done. This is like 55 minutes after we first met. Unsolicited, she gave me her number, and followed up a few hours later with a text that repeated the invitation.
I'm intrigued, but also puzzled. She firmly rejected my attempts to touch her and to provide the HE at the parlor - didn't seem open at all to anything. Is there any basis to believe that a visit with her out of town would be different and lead to something more? Or is she looking for a platonic relationship on her home turf? That would be strange. I'm sure she expects a financial benefit, which is understandable.
So I'm left wondering what it would be like to accept the invitation. The inability to speak each other's languages, and reliance on a translation app, makes it harder to pin down what her motivation might be.
Anyway, if anyone has any insights or helpful thoughts, that would be appreciated. Thanks -

 

[Sardu]

Go for it

 

[fffinster]

Even my ATF who texts me often has never invited me to see her outside the establishment. You must have really made an impression on this girl.

 

[scubatoo]

I have been to Flushing many times with providers, both Chinese and Korean. I have had a great time, every time. Google Translate on the phone is great and not a barrier. Outside the spa, the girls are just like any other girls. Spontaneous fun. Lunch, dinner, walks in the park, a ride on Metro Line 7 to Manhattan from Main Street. An overnight at the provider's apartment or an Asian hostel. I have never been asked for compensation. These trips give you the opportunity to learn more about the provider's personal life. You then move the relationship from fantasy visits at the spa to a more personal relationship which may or may not be what you want. Personally, I have found the K-girls to be high maintenance as they love Western culture and material things that go with it. The Chinese girls are much more conservative, and more likely planning retirement. If you go to 5th Ave., the Chinese girls will window shop at Gucci. The K-girls will be walking with you with a new purse.....but not demanding it, lol. Go for it.

 

[Kauai81]

I have been to Flushing many times with providers, both Chinese and Korean. I have had a great time, every time. Google Translate on the phone is great and not a barrier. Outside the spa, the girls are just like any other girls. Spontaneous fun. Lunch, dinner, walks in the park, a ride on Metro Line 7 to Manhattan from Main Street. An overnight at the provider's apartment or an Asian hostel. I have never been asked for compensation. These trips give you the opportunity to learn more about the provider's personal life. You then move the relationship from fantasy visits at the spa to a more personal relationship which may or may not be what you want. Personally, I have found the K-girls to be high maintenance as they love Western culture and material things that go with it. The Chinese girls are much more conservative, and more likely planning retirement. If you go to 5th Ave., the Chinese girls will window shop at Gucci. The K-girls will be walking with you with a new purse.....but not demanding it, lol. Go for it.

Well, that does sound encouraging. But the alarm bells that raised this question in my head had to do with how quickly invitation was extended. It wasn’t like I got to know the women over the course of a number of visits. The suddenness of the invitation is what was puzzling to me. I mean, she really has no idea whether I’m a decent guy or not. Weird.

 

[scubatoo]

If she insists that you eat a piece of pufferfish assume you have not impressed her..... Don't sweat the small stuff. Seriously, what is the worst that can happen???

 

[East Lake II]

It’s not unusual to get an invite to Flushing. It’s not even that unusual to get an invite after an initial meeting. I find it a little interesting that she invited you after she spurned your requests for service. You must have impressed her with your gentlemanly manner and the way you handled the situation.

I would go. Every visit to Flushing has been memorable.

 

[yh33]

It’s good to be skeptical in this game. But at some point, you need to let your guard down buddy. Almost everyone has hit Flushing and had a story to remember.

Here is your golden ticket. Take it and run. We only live once. Let us know how your great adventure went

 

[cravenmorehead]

I had a first time experience today in 14 years of mongering and was wondering if anyone had a similar one.
I went to a local AMP that is known for no services beyond a good massage and sometimes some sensual touching and an offer to DIY if you want. Nothing more, at least in my experience. I was assigned a decent looking (mask on most of the time), middle-aged Chinese woman who spoke basically no English, but seemed pleasant. So I got the good massage, the touching and the offer, which I politely declined. I did make a couple efforts to have her handle the HE, but to no avail. She was pretty firm that wasn't what she does. Okay, that's fine, no problem.
Then, at the end, as I was preparing to leave, we were chatting via Google translate and she said I should visit her in Flushing when her stint here was done. This is like 55 minutes after we first met. Unsolicited, she gave me her number, and followed up a few hours later with a text that repeated the invitation.
I'm intrigued, but also puzzled. She firmly rejected my attempts to touch her and to provide the HE at the parlor - didn't seem open at all to anything. Is there any basis to believe that a visit with her out of town would be different and lead to something more? Or is she looking for a platonic relationship on her home turf? That would be strange. I'm sure she expects a financial benefit, which is understandable.
So I'm left wondering what it would be like to accept the invitation. The inability to speak each other's languages, and reliance on a translation app, makes it harder to pin down what her motivation might be.
Anyway, if anyone has any insights or helpful thoughts, that would be appreciated. Thanks -

Grow a set and go for it.

 

[Barabula]

No clue what are you afraid of? Go for it: might be an adventure of a lifetime. Or love even. Who knows?

 

[Abeyoder]

Even if it doesn’t work out with her you can still enjoy all of the offerings that Flushing provides. Besides the great restaurants and street vendors, the spa experience is definitely something that you would enjoy. Take a walk up Roosevelt ave by Macy’s and try a street girl. $60 gets you all access.

 

[TheRiceGuy]

The denial of the HE could strictly be due to the location where she works and she doesn’t want any trouble with management. No need to ruin a good job if she has one.

As for the rest, there are a million stories from horror train wrecks to happily ever afters and everyone and their mom will have an opinion and claim some part is a lie. Generally speaking, I believe kgirls are much harder to deal with financially as they are way more materialistic, my opinion but I think most would agree.

This is your first massage with her so honestly you don’t have anything to go off of so if you don’t mind the drive and treat it like a blind date, could be fun and then some. Worst case scenario you wasted the day and some money and move on. Good luck!

 

[Vicbic]

Taking, chances sometimes reward you well. Almost ten years ago, I had one of the best experience’s at a Delaware spa although now defunct that was strictly therapeutic , nothing extra not even DIY. Anyway I liked one masseuse very attractive, attentive and visited her multiple times in a few weeks. Always asking for some extra, but not even once obliged. One Saturday night I was driving back from North Carolina, I stopped by the spa around closing time. Asked her again for some favors, and to my surprise she asked me whether I am free next day morning, said yes and she said to be there @ 7 am . Apparently her coworker is going away and she is the only one there. Needless to say, she offered everything, I mean everything. What I was surprised was the electricity was off, not a problem it was Halloween time, all surveillance system turned off, she had some candles lit and a small flashlight in her hand. She went back to New York and the agency transferred her to LA and Las Vegas. I went for New Year’s celebration in LV and she provided the best companionship for 5 days. In March she went back to Malaysia where she was originally from. So my advice, go for it if you like, and attracted to her but always be aware of your own safety and well being, financially and health wise.

 

[Livingthedream]

If I were single I’d definitely pursue that offer, let us know how you make out, good luck!

 

[kantuchdis]

Your spider sense is tingling. Only you were in the room with her, not one of us were there. You experienced the vibe and your intuition tipped you off. If you haven't yet, I recommend reading Gladwell's Blink.

 

[ampamp1]

GO FOR IT. If things dont work out as planned, keep some time on the side to explore Flushing and all it has to offer.
Personally, i travel very often and monger where i go. I live not far from Flushing and i can tell you there is nothing you can compare to it. Just my opinion.

Take a chance, you’ll thank yourself later.

Be safe all and enjoy the holidays.

 

[Thoughtful]

Flushing sounds like an AMP disneyland.

 

[Funrise]

Flushing has many authentic Asian stores and restaurants… and yes it is AMP central. I was there w an AMP beauty I met in Philly, so I didn’t tour the AMPs, but I know it’s there.

 

[TheRiceGuy]

NY Amps are by far the best imo

 

[horneddog]

You didnt mention your attached situation (& I dont want to know!) If going to flushing could cause social embarassment should something unwanted happen, possible marital issues up to divorce or workplace issues, I would continue the electronic contacts and look to see her again. If you dont have those limiting situations GO FOR IT!! One thing I was taught along time ago was those things that cannot be recalled include the spent arrow, spoken word and NEGLECTED OPPTY!!

Good luck and right a review!!! jk of course