I think I’m addicted.

[Finklestink]

Well this got a lot of traction. Yowza.

I’ve been seeing providers since before the red book days. I’ve been using privatedelights lately, this is not new to me. It’s the kgirl part that is new to me. In all those years of seeing providers as well as civy gfs and random hook ups I have yet to catch something. *knocks on wood*

As far as why: Because I can afford it. Because I want to. Because I want to find one that I like and become a regular. Because I’m TOFTTing for a couple married bros who are a bit more careful so they can know what’s up. Because it’s fun. Because I like to have the sex with people who aren’t my gf. Because I fetishize Asian women. Because I fetishize sex work. Because I’m always horny. That’s why.

And yeah, I’m eventually going to have to try out that doubles option. It’s just so steep. I’ve done doubles with white girls and also have had a handful of threesomes in regular life before all with vastly different experiences/results. Used to don swinger stuff with an ex. So...idk if I’ll ever pull that kat/yuna trigger. We’ll see.

As far as prebooking as a newbie, I’ve told the POs what days and time I want to come, if they are actually responsive the day of and follow through with my bookings is up to them.

GFEI is the one I have not verified with. Who are they? I did a search and came up with nothing.

 

[Chaebol]

GFEI is the one I have not verified with. Who are they? I did a search and came up with nothing.

GFEI is short for https://www.gfeinvestments.ch/

 

[knext222]

GFEI lineup looks like a kgirls retirement home to me. let's get some standards.

 

[Rahmyeon1234]

GFEI lineup looks like a kgirls retirement home to me. let's get some standards.

What kind of retirement homes have you been going to?

 

[Don Hollinger]

GFEI lineup looks like a kgirls retirement home to me. let's get some standards.

I'm over 60, to me they're all young fillies that I can relate to. They take great care of themselves IMO.

 

[Finklestink]

1 down, 2 to go. Great time with Ciara.
I’ll write up reviews of both Ciara and Snowflake from a couple days ago tonight when I’m home in front of the computer.

 

[Finklestink]

Dang posted in wrong forum, don’t know how to delete comment.

 

[Huntus2020]

Going on two decades and 3 kids later. Two in college. I was and continue to make love to Korean women since before my kids were born. Not proud of it. But don’t know how to stop. Would love advice from anyone who knows how to stop. Never been proud of this hobby. But man it feels great.

 

[Don Hollinger]

Going on two decades and 3 kids later. Two in college. I was and continue to make love to Korean women since before my kids were born. Not proud of it. But don’t know how to stop. Would love advice from anyone who knows how to stop. Never been proud of this hobby. But man it feels great.

Our libidos are far higher than other men's libidos at the moment. And we've made smart choices with consenting adults who keep secrets. Think about it---you've been at it over 20 years, you've gotten away with it. Because you made a smart choice. Be proud of the fact that you didn't ruin your life over 'free' pussy---affairs cost far more.

The only thing that works is to tie your discretionary money up from time to time. Invest it or something. No money no honey.

 

[Huntus2020]

Our libidos are far higher than other men's libidos at the moment. And we've made smart choices with consenting adults who keep secrets. Think about it---you've been at it over 20 years, you've gotten away with it. Because you made a smart choice. Be proud of the fact that you didn't ruin your life over 'free' pussy---affairs cost far more.

The only thing that works is to tie your discretionary money up from time to time. Invest it or something. No money no honey.

I hate myself though. For doing what I do. And after 20 years. I definitely don’t do it nearly as often as I used to. And with such terrible talent out there nowadays, I haven’t missed it as much as I used to.
ever since RB was removed, talent in the Bay Area vanished.

 

[SaltyCatBear]

I hate myself though. For doing what I do. And after 20 years. I definitely don’t do it nearly as often as I used to. And with such terrible talent out there nowadays, I haven’t missed it as much as I used to.
ever since RB was removed, talent in the Bay Area vanished.

I used to be riddled with guilt like that as well, until I came into terms that I'm a selfish horny asshole and I accept it. I stopped looking at myself as a white knight that should do all things right. I also stopped hating myself for my base desires. It's like, I like fucking, and I like having variety, and I know it sucks if I get caught, so I try my best not to get caught.

 

[Chaebol]

Men are genetically wired to ensure the survival of the species. In other societies, this hobby is understood as a thing married men do.
In my opinion, this feeling of guilt is due to the values ingrained into us by our society. The way I see it, when you get very old, you will have very fond worthwhile memories from this hobby. Much more memorable than the average guy whose highlight in life may be getting a new power tool for cleaning the gutters on his roof. Which reminds me, I actually need to clean the gutters on my roof.

 

[SJ_Jav]

Going on two decades and 3 kids later. Two in college. I was and continue to make love to Korean women since before my kids were born. Not proud of it. But don’t know how to stop. Would love advice from anyone who knows how to stop. Never been proud of this hobby. But man it feels great.

Man, that hit close to home for me. Except, I did a WHOLE BUNCH of Chinese girls before I got to the Kgirls.

 

[SJ_Jav]

I used to be riddled with guilt like that as well, until I came into terms that I'm a selfish horny asshole and I accept it. I stopped looking at myself as a white knight that should do all things right. I also stopped hating myself for my base desires. It's like, I like fucking, and I like having variety, and I know it sucks if I get caught, so I try my best not to get caught.

I feel ya on that but then on the other hand, my SO is the one that decided she wasn't into the physical relationship anymore. I'm too young to stop fucking and don't want to just jerk off the rest of my life. But I don't want to destroy my family either. It's a delicate balancing act and I'm 20 years on the wire. lol

 

[SaltyCatBear]

I feel ya on that but then on the other hand, my SO is the one that decided she wasn't into the physical relationship anymore. I'm too young to stop fucking and don't want to just jerk off the rest of my life. But I don't want to destroy my family either. It's a delicate balancing act and I'm 20 years on the wire. lol

Yeah that's on her then. But my SO still wants to fuck, but she just doesn't do bbbj like some of these experienced professionals

 

[Smalhei]

Yea, the guilt part feels very close home too.
I've been "sober" for almost three months now.
Tricks to stop:
1. Covid definitely added another layer of concern before going.
2. Quit or find another less taxing job. Way less frustration and anxiety to unwind.
3. Find another expensive hobby like golf or photography.

Welcome to Monger Anonymous, hope I don't relapse soon

 

[Don Hollinger]

Yea, the guilt part feels very close home too.
I've been "sober" for almost three months now.
Tricks to stop:
1. Covid definitely added another layer of concern before going.
2. Quit or find another less taxing job. Way less frustration and anxiety to unwind.
3. Find another expensive hobby like golf or photography.

Welcome to Monger Anonymous, hope I don't relapse soon

Good luck with this. But posting on a forum like this after just three months 'sober' is like walking back into that bar you used to get wasted in.
Expensive hobbies might be the way to go. Those things take time and money and bring immense satisfaction.

I'm creating memories, so that when I look back at my life there won't be any regrets in old age. Enduring a sexless marriage as an incel was my fate five years ago, and I waited nearly 15 years before I 'accidentally' landed on AAMPMAPS.

I love this lifestyle, budget it into my expenses. I'm a better husband, more attentive and appreciative than I was before. No stamp collection or other hobby has had that effect.

 

[baboymo]

I’ve been going at least once at week since November. It’s became addicting.

 

[Derpino]

Have fun and make the best out out of it! I am in the hobby for a couple of years and had weeks like yours here and there. Mainly, because crazy work schedule, no regrets! My excuses are no time to have a life and too lazy to start anything serious in the real world.

 

[Vlicker]

Good luck with this. But posting on a forum like this after just three months 'sober' is like walking back into that bar you used to get wasted in.
Expensive hobbies might be the way to go. Those things take time and money and bring immense satisfaction.

I'm creating memories, so that when I look back at my life there won't be any regrets in old age. Enduring a sexless marriage as an incel was my fate five years ago, and I waited nearly 15 years before I 'accidentally' landed on AAMPMAPS.

I love this lifestyle, budget it into my expenses. I'm a better husband, more attentive and appreciative than I was before. No stamp collection or other hobby has had that effect.

Just like you I budget this hobby into my lifestyle. And I still collect stamps on the side but not as much as I use to.