How much do you bring?

[Slimm]

Need to clarify: the last amounts were what I'll tip MMS. So I'm giving 5's to the girls and then tipping MMS an amount that factors on how many girls I refused and how much of a hassle I think I caused her.

If I end up choosing a girl, obviously the prior girls keep their 5's but I don't tip MMS at all.

 

[rin]

Is it cheaper than Manhattan, the expected tip?

 

[Slimm]

Is it cheaper than Manhattan, the expected tip?

If you're referring to my post, no. You have to read my back-to-back posts together. My last post was clarifying how much I tip girls that I refuse.

In NJ, some girls still expect 40 for HE, but it seems to me that most expect 60.

For FS, most expect 100, but from what I've read in this forum, it seems like a lot are now starting to expect 120, some even 130.

 

[RickeyRomance]

I go in with no wallet. Just my drivers license (in case LE bust down the door and demand to see it) and about $60 more than what I think I'll want to spend. In my experience of seeing non-massage independents, it's happened twice where I went to see a girl and she asked if I wanted to make it an FFM threesome with her friend. Those times, luckily, I came in with a pocket full of cash and had a fucking blast for the hour but I've never once had that offered, much less experienced that, at an AMP or a MP of any kind. It's all very polite but very business-like.

 

[rin]

If you're referring to my post, no. You have to read my back-to-back posts together. My last post was clarifying how much I tip girls that I refuse.

In NJ, some girls still expect 40 for HE, but it seems to me that most expect 60.

For FS, most expect 100, but from what I've read in this forum, it seems like a lot are now starting to expect 120, some even 130.

Thanks, you would think it's cheaper in NJ given lower rent and the income levels are lower than Manhattan.

I go in with no wallet. Just my drivers license (in case LE bust down the door and demand to see it) and about $60 more than what I think I'll want to spend. In my experience of seeing non-massage independents, it's happened twice where I went to see a girl and she asked if I wanted to make it an FFM threesome with her friend. Those times, luckily, I came in with a pocket full of cash and had a fucking blast for the hour but I've never once had that offered, much less experienced that, at an AMP or a MP of any kind. It's all very polite but very business-like.

That's awesome. Do they make you change the condom each time you switch?

 

[RickeyRomance]

Thanks, you would think it's cheaper in NJ given lower rent and the income levels are lower than Manhattan.



That's awesome. Do they make you change the condom each time you switch?

Yeah but it was all good. Both times, I'd go in on a couple of positions with girl A while she's going down on girl B and then the switcheroo. I tell you...an hour never flew by so fast. It helped that both times, they were really into each other and obviously had experiencing going in on one another and I was just a kid in a candy store. Didn't know where to start. HAHA

 

[jeh78]

I bring what's expected and 60-80 extra in case the occasion calls for it.

 

[Slimm]

I bring what's expected and 60-80 extra in case the occasion calls for it.

jeh78
joined: Nov 23, 2018
first post: Aug 10, 2019

 

[ampgoer]

Responding to the thread I think it all depends on your finances and your goals. If im going to a place I never been to before and its a ymmv im bringing $40.

Now that $40 will consist of one $20, bill, one $10 bill, and two $5 bill. Why? Let's say I don't get an HJ if it's an average, regular massage, I'll tip minimum wage here in NY is $15. If it's a crappy massage like with no effort or very rough or if I don't get a full body massage I'm tipping $10. If I get a good massage or even some teasing and if I like the vibe with that person I'll give them $20. Now if I get an HJ ok i'll give $40. =D

Nice. I once had a bad massage and I gave her $15. And it was a B10G1 place. I asked her to stamp my card and he went to check her tip. And she a usual tip was $20. I could tell she wasn't going to stamp my card unless I gave her $20. So I caved and just gave it to her. I never saw her again.

 

[rin]

If you're referring to my post, no. You have to read my back-to-back posts together. My last post was clarifying how much I tip girls that I refuse.

In NJ, some girls still expect 40 for HE, but it seems to me that most expect 60.

For FS, most expect 100, but from what I've read in this forum, it seems like a lot are now starting to expect 120, some even 130.

Is this on top of the house fee, and how much is the house fee usually?

 

[Slimm]

Is this on top of the house fee, and how much is the house fee usually?

Yes, these are the tip prices. HF's for the places I go have always been 60, except one is 70.

 

[Luv2eatpussy]

Sad to admit, I am always afraid that while at the TS, mamasan is going through your pants and taking a tip for herself, if she feels she can get away with it.
I bring just the right amount within $20 so that I am not put into any of the above situations.

 

[Wayne1250]

Most places survive off of repeat business, they are not going to jeopardize that by going through your pants or wallet to skim a few extra dollars. Unless you are going to the places that I would never go.

 

[Spa1123]

I'm used to carrying a few hundred in my wallet, and I do not empty it before going into a spa. If there's a TS, I take my wallet to the TS in the pouch that most of the spas with TS's offer. If no TS, I may hang my shirt over my pants, so that it's not quite as easy to get into my pants pocket for the wallet.

I basically agree with Wayne that it's very unlikely a mamasan or masseuse would steal. I think it's more likely another customer might dart in to steal (while I'm at the TS) than one of the providers. But in many hundreds of massages, I've never lost anything.

 

[Slimm]

I remember back in '06 reading the monger board on CL about a place in Fairview NJ called The Ritz where the girls supposedly stole from wallets during TS. It wasn't an Asian place of course.

 

[Wayne1250]

I will tell you all a story about my most nervous time. I has lent MMS some money and she finally paid me back I had 2k in my pants plus the 100 she gave me to cover the tip. The house fee was already covered.

I went to the shower with the girl aND we were there I've a half hour covering the home run session. We went back to the room and another girl and guy were in there doing the deed. When I got into the room after they got kickRd out imagine how nervous I was. Nothing was touched when I checked, thank God.

Lesson learned, don't lend money.

 

[Spa1123]

Wayne, I didn't understand "plus the 100 she gave me to cover the tip." Was that like a thank you for the loan?

I think you learned the wrong lesson. After all, you did get your money back, possibly with some extra added value. The actual lesson to learn was to take your wallet with you when you go for a TS.

 

[PickleRick]

I will tell you all a story about my most nervous time. I has lent MMS some money and she finally paid me back I had 2k in my pants plus the 100 she gave me to cover the tip. The house fee was already covered.

I went to the shower with the girl aND we were there I've a half hour covering the home run session. We went back to the room and another girl and guy were in there doing the deed. When I got into the room after they got kickRd out imagine how nervous I was. Nothing was touched when I checked, thank God.

Lesson learned, don't lend money.

I'm with you 100%. Never lend money to friends or family. You'll be a happier person.

 

[Wayne1250]

And that is 1,000% true, the payment was along time coming and it did cause alot of friction in my heart.

Yes the tip money was suppose to help along with some bennies along the way.

Yea, it was like the "Three Bears", someone was fucking in my bed and surprise, surprise.

 

[Spa1123]

That brings to mind a quote I saw recently:

"It's better to give than to lend and it costs about the same."
--Philip Gibbs