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How many visits before losing interest?

mikemendez

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How long after visiting a provider do you lose interest in her or after how many visits before it’s same ol same and you seek out another provider.
 

AutomaticSlim

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Depends.

If she is young (under 25), petite, hot and "just my type", I don't lose interest. I keep on seeing her.

If she is older (closer to 30) and not quite my type, but gives fantastic/memorable service, I will most likely lose interest after 2 or 3 times
 

East Lake II

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Depends. Assuming that she doesn’t relocate to a spa that is too distant, and the chemistry is right I can see the same provider for years. I’m seeing others too, but there are some I will continue to see for as long as they are here. For some, even if I like them, and like them a lot after 20-30 or even 40+ visits, something will happen and I decide that’s it, no more. I may wait a year and do a revisit, but it’s never the same.
 

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It completely depends, of course. There’s one girl I see who is over 50 and I’ve followed her to 5 different spas over 15 years. Maybe 20 visits a year average, so 300 times. She’s perfect at what she does, and even though her age would make Slimm sick to his stomach, I don’t mind. She’s a great massage, witty, a good friend, creative, slim and fit, and can be very surprisingly dirty towards the end of a session when I want it, which is hot from a girl whose norm is to be “girl next door”.

theres other girls I drop after 2 visits. big turnoffs for me are clockwatchers, non-verbal, insufficient sexual skills, lying, and chubby girls. I don’t care how pretty she is, if she does one of the above, I drop her.

Sometimes it’s a numbers game. I can’t juggle more than 4 regular girls. I like to be in a shop at minimum every 2 weeks. I find service is better that way. So I’ll try a girl sometimes, but she won’t crack the top 4. After some major issues, I never have more than one girl in a shop Also. If my girl moves on, I won’t be back to that shop for awhile.
 

TGBeldin

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How long after visiting a provider do you lose interest in her or after how many visits before it’s same ol same and you seek out another provider.
No single answer. All depends upon the woman.

Some are fine, but no intention to go back, so I guess I lose interest in her right after completion.

Some others I've been seeing for 20 years and I haven't tired of them.
 

Sesshomaru87

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It completely depends, of course. There’s one girl I see who is over 50 and I’ve followed her to 5 different spas over 15 years. Maybe 20 visits a year average, so 300 times. She’s perfect at what she does, and even though her age would make Slimm sick to his stomach, I don’t mind. She’s a great massage, witty, a good friend, creative, slim and fit, and can be very surprisingly dirty towards the end of a session when I want it, which is hot from a girl whose norm is to be “girl next door”.

theres other girls I drop after 2 visits. big turnoffs for me are clockwatchers, non-verbal, insufficient sexual skills, lying, and chubby girls. I don’t care how pretty she is, if she does one of the above, I drop her.

Sometimes it’s a numbers game. I can’t juggle more than 4 regular girls. I like to be in a shop at minimum every 2 weeks. I find service is better that way. So I’ll try a girl sometimes, but she won’t crack the top 4. After some major issues, I never have more than one girl in a shop Also. If my girl moves on, I won’t be back to that shop for awhile.
Don’t they all lie?
 

Chiparlor

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The answer to the OP's question varies on monger by monger. I have been an amp grasshopper for 5 years like most of us do to enjoy the varieties. At the same time, I have been seeing a specific diy provider about 20 times a year for the last 5 years and still collect discharges from others. I was very fortunate with her because I received more from her (as I coined the term LS not too long ago). I considered her LS, which will lead to fs sometimes this year. Unfortunately, she made a comment that was a big turn-off for me, which corroborated with what one of the K handles' comment "Honest is not their strongest attribute." From there, I lost interest in her. My garage door for her dropped instantly from the ceiling to the floor. Again, the answer to the OP's question varies on monger by monger basis.
 

doofu77

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There is a difference between losing interest temporarily and permanently.

The most I can see the same person consecutively is about 4-5 times. I need to try someone new after that. But that doesn't mean I won't ever seen them again I just need to alternate. Its like food, I just cant eat the same food every meal no matter how good it is.
 

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There is a difference between losing interest temporarily and permanently.

The most I can see the same person consecutively is about 4-5 times. I need to try someone new after that. But that doesn't mean I won't ever seen them again I just need to alternate. Its like food, I just cant eat the same food every meal no matter how good it is.
Damn, best answer yet and my feelings as well.
 

tsharp38

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I like variety, including going to new places. Much depends on what I am interested in at the time. If I want FS, then I know where to go which for me is usually a little longer of a drive. If I want standard service, then I have more local options that I go to. How they treat you is a big factor as well, even if going for standard service. I really enjoy a good massage, so that's important to me. I also enjoy uninterrupted time and a nice attitude, so if they don't provide that then i most likely won't go back.
 

East Lake II

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If I see them out of the spa, and they invite me their apartment and buy me gifts, I’m more likely to continue to see them. And, never tire of them. If I only see them in the spa, it will last till I see someone else in that spa that grabs my eye.
 

Thorton

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How long after visiting a provider do you lose interest in her or after how many visits before it’s same ol same and you seek out another provider.
I have had my favorites that I would never get tired of but that is a rarity Like anyone else I like variety and would graciously pass on a regular AMP if a hotter one presented herself. Make sure you keep seeing the favorites because once they are gone they are gone !
 

mikemendez

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I still see two girls (different shops) I met both back in 2014 when starting this hobby, thing is both are non erotic, totally legit and have top notch massage skill, is why I go to either of them, the rest have changed repeatedly over time, except for a select few although I don’t see them often, a couple of which work in another city but return here for rest and time off. As the saying goes, sex alone can’t maintain a relationship, if one can even consider it that. If and when it’s about the honey for money I tend to see them quite often or while they are still sorta new to me, but I do lose interest after a while depending on how hot they are and sensual level.
 

ggr-ph

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There is a difference between losing interest temporarily and permanently.

The most I can see the same person consecutively is about 4-5 times. I need to try someone new after that. But that doesn't mean I won't ever seen them again I just need to alternate. Its like food, I just cant eat the same food every meal no matter how good it is.
The coolidge effect is understandable.
We can't eat the same food every moment everyday forever.
Everyone had/has favorite foods like an ATFs.
It can be changeable easily but sometimes we want it again badly.:p:coffee:
 

charliebrown

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Absolutely each person is unique and each provider is unique. When I started getting massages, I had a couple of women who were great, they checked off all the boxes of a checklist for a provider and unfortunately for me, I did not know they were great because I did not have a great perspective. Now that I have that perspective, I have found that it is not common to find a provider clicking off all of those checks on your checklist. I cringe at all the wonderful sessions I could have had with past stars, and will work to treat those stars better in the future. I am absolutely more focused now so when a person treats me great, I have no problem reciprocating that kindness.
 

Chiparlor

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@Srhsrh I concur except one provider. Been honest with her for years and she has been lying 80% of the time. That provider may be a habitual liar. Just one experience I learned
 
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