I can’t believe I had been missing out on such an awesome thing for so long. I haven’t been posting reviews because I’ve been seeing the same 3 people pretty much all the time. I had regular spots and providers before but with how often places change providers it was difficult to get that kind of long term working relationship, let alone a good one. It’s definitely an awesome feeling. As I’m writing I don’t really know what the point of this post is, I guess its that it just pays to be friendly and generous!
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Having an ATF is Great!
- Thread starter RapidTurtle
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You have to be careful if you do this, I've had to start allowing more time for appointments. The last time I went to see the masseuse I've been to the most often, she spent 20-30 min giving me Korean food before we went to the massage room. This has happened several times - the women that are usually there are good cooks and I have occasionally done simple favors for them.
Fortunately they get along well and don't seem to have any interest in moving.
Fortunately they get along well and don't seem to have any interest in moving.
ATF's ......make sure that you are really cool with them being ATF's to others too. ...... if you read a report of the FS adventures of your ATF......would you still consider her the ATF?? I've had a number of ATF's.....took one time of getting ass burnt...to make an adjustment...and keep an ATF...as a ATF business transaction...IMHO....
Met mine in the spa... a few little gifts .....then a few hotel stays in a great room with a great bed and a hot tub.....room service...
she bought me Christmas gifts.......enough it was very hard to hide from the S.O.
I didn't fall for the gold digger type.....some of these ladies just want to be treated like a date.....a few hours at the beach.....walk in the park....
lunch out...
But..the Spa is out of Business as of 2 years ago....and she's gone..
ATF's with no reports of FS are the Best...
she bought me Christmas gifts.......enough it was very hard to hide from the S.O.
I didn't fall for the gold digger type.....some of these ladies just want to be treated like a date.....a few hours at the beach.....walk in the park....
lunch out...
But..the Spa is out of Business as of 2 years ago....and she's gone..
ATF's with no reports of FS are the Best...
This isn’t something that bothers me at all that much in general. At the end of the day it’s a job and they’re making money. I think the problem, and a lot would be hard pressed to admit it, lies where dudes get too into their provider and form an emotional attachment. It’s easier said than done but don’t fall in love where business is involved - treat the interaction as such. I’ve been enjoying my sessions because I know for that hour or hour and half they’ll provide me with their undivided attention and great care that I’ve grown accustomed to. Maybe I’ll venture out to somewhere different again today, we’ll see. Peace.
-RT
-RT
I'm not a Delaware guy but the topic hits home a lot. I have had quite a few favorites some much more so than others. Many have moved on in the 8 years since stating this adventure. Several I still see, message, talk on the phone, errands and shopping, lunch or dinner at the shop, take them to restaurants (sometimes they pay), one I had a couple overnight hotel stays with and exchange holiday and birthday gifts with. This more personal relationship with these girls make everything more fun and meaningful. When they are not around or on vacation I sometimes see a new girl and it is just not the same if their is no connection. Then I am reminded that you can't replace friends that you have made easily.
I started this hobby almost six years ago. I would visit spa after spa and provider after provider searching for the unicorn. I have literally cum across, on, in many providers during that time and had many known and unknown great ones. I will have to say as I get older, I have become wiser in that finding a provider who matches my personal needs and is in the area regularly is more important to me than variety. I currently have a favorite I am seeing who I have come across multiple times in my years in the local area. I will ride the amazing service she provides me until one day she disappears like the rest and go on another search.
So many of them hope to get married. If you frequent a R&T place and get a full menu consider yourself in the running for husband if you aren't married already. If you are they still may like you enough to try and maybe end up with you one day. I've seen guys on the edge of divorce and pull the trigger for the ATF at the time. Always remember at the end of the day its a job and money for them for the most part.
Another thing - Ever notice your ATF start to short you on time or worse just not preform as well. Happens more often than not if you really start to get involved on your end. You have to then let them know they are not the only one and skip them for a time. ATF's - so many postings on this as Wayne said. If ATF was what it really stood for there wouldn't be so many posts. My opinion, we all have one.
Another thing - Ever notice your ATF start to short you on time or worse just not preform as well. Happens more often than not if you really start to get involved on your end. You have to then let them know they are not the only one and skip them for a time. ATF's - so many postings on this as Wayne said. If ATF was what it really stood for there wouldn't be so many posts. My opinion, we all have one.
BTW - my opinion is 25 years of doing this. I've had so many amazing times and many disappointing times. Amazing outweighs so I'm still in it. I've slowed since COVID and I got to say it was a nice break. $25K plus a year was getting out of hand. As for ATF's, yes a few until they weren't. Remember, "There can only be one"
$25K isn't unreasonable .....if you're a Frequent Flyer. everyones version of an ATF is different.....My ATF's got the little things that made them "special". Dinners out....Hotels stays...minor gifts here and there.
If you show an ambitious asian lady that you have the means to Buy expensive handbags...and Burberry coats......they will gladly help you lighten your wallet.
To each their own...but I have had some FANTASTIC times!!!
If you show an ambitious asian lady that you have the means to Buy expensive handbags...and Burberry coats......they will gladly help you lighten your wallet.
To each their own...but I have had some FANTASTIC times!!!