Have you ever known a Captain Save-A-Ho?

[Koondog]

There's baggage and then there's BAGGAGE. Don't see how any kind of serious relationship can be maintained with a chick who sells her bod for a living.

 

[mikemendez]

Just curious why a single guy would want to actually date one of these girls, apart from trying to get extras outside the shop. There are many Asian civvies out there who are available to date for real, and they don’t come with all the baggage accumulated from working in the sex industry

Good observation, civies come with baggage too, I reckon myself an all in monger at this moment. I’ll give this as an example. Many of us are NFL fans, there are guys that only watch football on Sunday, some guys actually purchase tickets and attend an occasional home game, a bit more investment. Then you have the guys that purchase season tickets, much more investment incurred obviously. All are fans yet some invest more money and time into it.
I too am a season ticket holder when it comes to the AMP industry. I don’t liken providers less than other women, they’re all equal in my eyes, they just happen to work in AMPs. A civie takes a bit more time, effort and may not end with physical activity. With a provider there’s no mystery, activities are always a possibility. Someone may ask, why date a provider if not for sex? I enjoy their company regardless of their profession, they are human, I treat them as such.

 

[Koondog]

Good observation, civies come with baggage too, I reckon myself an all in monger at this moment. I’ll give this as an example. Many of us are NFL fans, there are guys that only watch football on Sunday, some guys actually purchase tickets and attend an occasional home game, a bit more investment. Then you have the guys that purchase season tickets, much more investment incurred obviously. All are fans yet some invest more money and time into it.
I too am a season ticket holder when it comes to the AMP industry. I don’t liken providers less than other women, they’re all equal in my eyes, they just happen to work in AMPs. A civie takes a bit more time, effort and may not end with physical activity. With a provider there’s no mystery, activities are always a possibility. Someone may ask, why date a provider if not for sex? I enjoy their company regardless of their profession, they are human, I treat them as such.

That's cool Mike. I have 'dated' more than my share of providers in my time. Some for long periods. It's one thing to enjoy their company, which I do. It's another to actually TRUST them. I find because of what they do for a living it's not possible. The amount of deception that goes on is WAY beyond acceptable limits.

 

[didi88]

Good observation, civies come with baggage too, I reckon myself an all in monger at this moment. I’ll give this as an example. Many of us are NFL fans, there are guys that only watch football on Sunday, some guys actually purchase tickets and attend an occasional home game, a bit more investment. Then you have the guys that purchase season tickets, much more investment incurred obviously. All are fans yet some invest more money and time into it.
I too am a season ticket holder when it comes to the AMP industry. I don’t liken providers less than other women, they’re all equal in my eyes, they just happen to work in AMPs. A civie takes a bit more time, effort and may not end with physical activity. With a provider there’s no mystery, activities are always a possibility. Someone may ask, why date a provider if not for sex? I enjoy their company regardless of their profession, they are human, I treat them as such.

Good observation, civies come with baggage too, I reckon myself an all in monger at this moment. I’ll give this as an example. Many of us are NFL fans, there are guys that only watch football on Sunday, some guys actually purchase tickets and attend an occasional home game, a bit more investment. Then you have the guys that purchase season tickets, much more investment incurred obviously. All are fans yet some invest more money and time into it.
I too am a season ticket holder when it comes to the AMP industry. I don’t liken providers less than other women, they’re all equal in my eyes, they just happen to work in AMPs. A civie takes a bit more time, effort and may not end with physical activity. With a provider there’s no mystery, activities are always a possibility. Someone may ask, why date a provider if not for sex? I enjoy their company regardless of their profession, they are human, I treat them as such.

If access to easier sex is the main draw, like you said, then it’s understandable. But without that, I doubt you’d want to date an AMP girl just for her personality

 

[TGBeldin]

Actually, I agree with you--they usually are not. But I have found there are definately exceptions. I usually try not to prejudge entire groups unless I have a really large sample to go on (pimps come to mind).

 

[didi88]

Actually, I agree with you--they usually are not. But I have found there are definately exceptions. I usually try not to prejudge entire groups unless I have a really large sample to go on (pimps come to mind).

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule in any large group, but I’m talking generally. If a guy has no time to date civvies or is uncomfortable with them for some reason, I can see turning to a provider for your social life. But otherwise, it’s generally a dead end for the most part. Why limit yourself to AMP girls when there are so many other options?

 

[TGBeldin]

That's cool Mike. I have 'dated' more than my share of providers in my time. Some for long periods. It's one thing to enjoy their company, which I do. It's another to actually TRUST them. I find because of what they do for a living it's not possible. The amount of deception that goes on is WAY beyond acceptable limits.

Interesting. 5 women have keys to my home because I trust them implicitly: two are my sisters, one a long time neighbor, two are escorts. I have found that a number of the most trustworthy/honest people I have met are escorts off the clock (assuming they are drug free).

 

[TGBeldin]

Of course there are always exceptions to the rule in any large group, but I’m talking generally. If a guy has no time to date civvies or is uncomfortable with them for some reason, I can see turning to a provider for your social life. But otherwise, it’s generally a dead end for the most part. Why limit yourself to AMP girls when there are so many other options?

I would never limit myself to any group. Just saying that i have found that dating material tends to show up when I am not looking for it.

Yes, for me a part of it is timing. I travel a lot for work, and have one or two ladies in the cities I frequent often. Some I met via work, one was the night desk agent at my favorite hotel, and a couple I first met as escorts. Didn't originally plan on getting close to any of them.

 

[Koondog]

Trusting them not to steal from you and trusting them not to keep seeing guys for money behind your back is another thing.

 

[mikemendez]

If access to easier sex is the main draw, like you said, then it’s understandable. But without that, I doubt you’d want to date an AMP girl just for her personality

Although I have. Not dating exclusively, but out on a date. I disagree somewhat with they’re only hustling for money or other gain, not when they cover the costs and start pouting if I pay, you ever see an Asian girl pout?

 

[Koondog]

In a serious (if these things can ever be considered so) relationship no matter how much an amp girl may claim to love you, when they are in the room with a customer and he asks for certain things like BBFS or other things and she obliges, you and her 'love' for you is the last thing on her mind. Been there. It's always the same. In a competition between you and the customer---the customer ALWAYS wins.

 

[Nicksuperlover]

I get that, but there are different types of baggage. Someone who sucks and fucks multiple guys every day for a living usually is not the most well adjusted individual. Why date someone like that? If you like Asian girls, there are many civvie opportunities and some of them are very desirable

Or maybe you like the idea of getting with her after 10 guys have used her

 

[didi88]

Although I have. Not dating exclusively, but out on a date. I disagree somewhat with they’re only hustling for money or other gain, not when they cover the costs and start pouting if I pay, you ever see an Asian girl pout?

That’s fine, but you’re not serious about her, so not a big deal. But to try to date one seriously is another matter altogether. There’s the elephant in the room: she’s having sex with multiple guys every day. A little hard to ignore this when you’re seriously dating a girl you might be interested in

 

[mikemendez]

I’ll clarify for arguments sake, most of my dates with a provider has been
70% legit or R&T
20% Indy/UTR
10% FS Spa girl. Not an exact figure, just more or less. There are a few, when agreeing to go on a date, they immediately ask “how much you pay”, I reckon these in a different category.

 

[mikemendez]

Or maybe you like the idea of getting with her after 10 guys have used her

Anyone visiting AMPs might get a provider after ten other guys.

 

[didi88]

I’ll clarify for arguments sake, most of my dates with a provider has been
70% legit or R&T
20% Indy/UTR
10% FS Spa girl. Not an exact figure, just more or less. There are a few, when agreeing to go on a date, they immediately ask “how much you pay”, I reckon these in a different category.

Doesn’t really matter if she’s only jerking cock, she’s still a provider. For me, the only type of AMP girl I’d date is one who is very new to the business without any experience. Then at least there’s a chance she might be a serious candidate if she gets out. But the ones who’ve been doing it a long time are just damaged goods, in most cases anyway. Not much future in that

 

[TGBeldin]

Trusting them not to steal from you and trusting them not to keep seeing guys for money behind your back is another thing.

Agree they are different things. For me to trust someone alone in my home is a greater degree of trust. And no, if she moved in neither of these two would see other guys behind my back. One just wouldn't see other guys, the other would do it to my face.

 

[TGBeldin]

Doesn’t really matter if she’s only jerking cock, she’s still a provider. For me, the only type of AMP girl I’d date is one who is very new to the business without any experience. Then at least there’s a chance she might be a serious candidate if she gets out. But the ones who’ve been doing it a long time are just damaged goods, in most cases anyway. Not much future in that

Almost exactly the words several sex work women of different types have told me about dating clients: unless he was a newbie, he would be damaged goods and couldn't trust him to keep his cock out of fresh young pussies.

 

[Wayne1250]

The problem is with AMP girls it is hard for them to get out. MMS is worried she is going to lose a house fee ot two when the girl is not there. That's when it's important to be as good a friend with the MMS as well as with the girl.

 

[didi88]

Almost exactly the words several sex work women of different types have told me about dating clients: unless he was a newbie, he would be damaged goods and couldn't trust him to keep his cock out of fresh young pussies.

Exactly. It works both ways. So why kid yourself?