That’s way too much work, especially for a working man with a family. SA is a reasonable alternative, as mentioned
If SA worked in a reasonable time and with reasonable expectations on part of the Women I would recommend it. I don't.
They want high rollers on there. If you have children and a demanding Wife then you need to stick to the standard hobby. SA is just as time consuming with all the back and forth screening the girl and negotiating required. A lot of guys don't understand it's the reverse now. Picking up these Women in person is the most time and cost efficient way now. Online you don't realize how much time you spend browsing, texting, filtering. The space allows for Women to easily play games. A lot on SA are not even sure they want to do this. And will try to get you to simply pay for meets and anything else is extra. Weeding through those types takes time.
SA is also more problematic if you have an overbearing Wife and young children. There is a record and you can be blackmailed more easily. In person there are more discrete ways to proceed more efficiently you can find out if the girl is down or full of BS using BODY LANGUAGE the single most important indicator which is completely lost online.
The guys who wake up and realize this will he the most successful getting these hoes to comply with the minimal effort. You are going to have to meet in person either way and in person chemistry IS the deal breaker for most people. So why not just cut to the chase? Women DO NOT take online seriously it is a fantasy game for them.