Fleshlight Fun

[jester4u2022]

Has anyone else had experience with a fleshlight or something similar?

Ever since we can "work from home" I rented my own private office and with that privacy comes more time to explore.

I recently got a fleshlight, great fun and feels great. A little different. Def recommended if you have the time and place to hide it. I'm married.

I actually "taped" it to the desk so I can fuck hands free standing up now too. Again, bored and horny.

Would love to hear other experiences and new techniques.

Have fun!

 

[Jameswills1985]

I was actually thinking about getting one

 

[jester4u2022]

If you are married and your wife would be offended by it (or you just dont want to even hear the nonsense from your significant other) you have to make sure you have a good storage spot for it (and lube bottle) and also the time to play. It's not a thing where you can do a quick jerk session. You have to clean / wipe off your lubed up member also.

I love it because it's not like your hand where you know all the right pressure points to make you bust in 2 mins. It's a slow stroker and since i love the tease and denial / edging, it works very well for this as well. I can really take my time with it, so this plus JOI videos with edging is a great combo!

 

[Jameswills1985]

she probably would be cool with it, she asks me if she can play with herself as if I would get upset by it, I encourage it, I’m going to bring it up, bad thing is I know when I get into it I’m a want to just roll her over and pound her out lol

 

[jester4u2022]

she probably would be cool with it, she asks me if she can play with herself as if I would get upset by it, I encourage it, I’m going to bring it up, bad thing is I know when I get into it I’m a want to just roll her over and pound her out lol

it would be a fun couples toy - have her use it on u for sure.

 

[softball3]

I spoke with a therapist, who also offers surrogate service...She highly recommended one of these as opposed to traditional manual stimulation...Never followed up with her (as COVID hit) or the purchase, as I know my SO would not approve if it was found...There are YT videos of DIY fleshlight wannabees if anyone wants to take the time to investigate... I guess that might be considered a DIY squared, if not x2...

 

[jester4u2022]

Honestly, when I was younger there was a point where I was using my hand so much that I couldn't cum from just fucking a pussy and I had to use my hand with the girl or jerk off on her ass etc. I think it was more mental than physical, but I'm sure physical didn't help either.

The FLight can defintely help avoid this happening as it feels more like a pussy without the aforementioned pressure points etc of your hand.

 

[ajlcl22]

I've owned all three of the main types (i.e. Pussy, Ass, Mouth) over the years. They're all fun and feel great. The suction sounds annoyed me even after adjustment though, but I liked the Mouth one the most because it was fitting sound for it. I ultimately ended up getting rid of all of them just because keeping them cleaned and well-maintained was just more work that I wanted to put in.

 

[jester4u2022]

I've owned all three of the main types (i.e. Pussy, Ass, Mouth) over the years. They're all fun and feel great. The suction sounds annoyed me even after adjustment though, but I liked the Mouth one the most because it was fitting sound for it. I ultimately ended up getting rid of all of them just because keeping them cleaned and well-maintained was just more work that I wanted to put in.

Agreed - I was lucky where I could just leave it out and let it all air dry after washing. I never used the talc they recommend etc.

 

[softball3]

I've owned all three of the main types (i.e. Pussy, Ass, Mouth) over the years. They're all fun and feel great. The suction sounds annoyed me even after adjustment though, but I liked the Mouth one the most because it was fitting sound for it. I ultimately ended up getting rid of all of them just because keeping them cleaned and well-maintained was just more work that I wanted to put in.

eBay?

 

[Opusone1980]

Had one when I was younger. It was fun at first, lost it’s luster after a few uses. It was weird cleaning it out. It was a funny conversation piece.

 

[ajlcl22]

eBay?

Craigslist Personals actually lmao

 

[jonmark1905]

speaking of your own office, I am curious where you rented and how much did it cost? I was thinking of doing that, and basically having outcalls come to the office

 

[noah9901]

speaking of your own office, I am curious where you rented and how much did it cost? I was thinking of doing that, and basically having outcalls come to the office

if you have any providers to do outcalls to an office, lmk lol...

its been tough finding one and qualifying them for the first trip

 

[jester4u2022]

if you have any providers to do outcalls to an office, lmk lol...

its been tough finding one and qualifying them for the first trip

LOL - funny you say this, not an outcall but have had "fuck partners" come to the office. It's actually a big fantasy and turn on for many chicks. As for offices, just google temp offices or serendipity labs or regus. There's a ton of them out there depending where you are. Privacy varies as well. Good luck out there!

 

[Bqanon]

Loved using it, especially if you soak it in hot water. Cleaning sucks though and i got rid of them

 

[Jameswills1985]

Is the cleaning really that bad lol that's the main con I hear

 

[jester4u2022]

Is the cleaning really that bad lol that's the main con I hear

Not in my opinion. I legit just run warm water through it and on it and let it dry. I use water based lube and if you are that grossed out with your own jizz, then you got other issues. Unless you are using vaseline or oil based lube (which u shouldnt anyways) then no soap needed. They recommend talc on and in it, but that's nonsense. I've never used it and it's always been fine.

 

[PorterD]

I have one. It’s better than the hand for sure; but I also feel like it’s target audience is the horny 19 year old virgin. They might be like “this is amazing”. Guys with experience and options are more likely to say “is that thing worth getting out?” So it’s not that it’s difficult to clean; it’s just hard to want to bother.

 

[jester4u2022]

I have one. It’s better than the hand for sure; but I also feel like it’s target audience is the horny 19 year old virgin. They might be like “this is amazing”. Guys with experience and options are more likely to say “is that thing worth getting out?” So it’s not that it’s difficult to clean; it’s just hard to want to bother.

I agree with that. It's just another novelty to switch it up a bit vs your hand.